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Katherine H. Duffy Charleston - Katherine Hostetter Duffy passed away on February 8, 2022, leaving behind a loving family, a wide circle of friends and a community made immeasurably better by her contributions. Kathy Hostetter was born in Charleston on March 12,1943, a daughter of Virginia and Ted Hostetter. She grew up on Wentworth Street with her beloved (if occasionally troublesome) brother, Teddy, attended Cathedral School and spent much of her free time on Moultrie playground. She was a 1961 graduate of Bishop England High School, where she met the love of her life, Michael Duffy. Over fifty-five years of (mostly!) wedded bliss, they had three children, seven grandchildren and traveled four continents. After studying a year at Winthrop College, she returned to Charleston, where she began her career in healthcare as a student at St. Francis Nursing School. She was the top graduate of her class and head of the state student nursing association. She and Michael married in 1966 and after living in Columbia while Michael completed law school and Kathy worked as a registered nurse, they returned briefly to Charleston before moving to Germany for three years while Michael served as an MP and Kathy raised two active children. Returning to Charleston, Kathy, a life-long learner, began her studies at the College of Charleston, eventually earning a Bachelor's in Urban Planning and a Master's in Public Administration, magna cum laude, all while raising the aforementioned two children and adding a third - even more active - child. She continued her studies throughout her life, earning a Doctorate of Philosophy in Public Health at the University of South Carolina at the age of sixty-nine. Her three children were no longer quite as active. Having completed the highest levels of formal education, she continued her quest to learn, culminating in her recent "Covid Travels" series as she and Michael used the pandemic period to tour the state visiting (mostly outdoor) historic sights and inspiring friends and family to do the same. Over the years, Kathy had a rich and varied professional career as head of her own consulting firm, Katherine Duffy and Associates, specializing in planning and research. From 1985-1988, she served as Executive Director of the Palmetto Lowcountry Health Systems Agency, the first woman to serve in that role throughout the statewide system. She was a sought-after expert in public health and administration, certified to testify in courts throughout South Carolina and presenting at national conferences throughout the United States. Her numerous professional accomplishments were widely acclaimed, locally and nationally, and benefited countless numbers of people. As U.S. Secretary of Health and Human Services, Donna Shalala selected her grant proposal to service severely emotionally disturbed children as the top project in the country, leading to a multi-million-dollar grant to fund a project known as The Village. Former Director of Youth Services, America Roger Landrum, pointed to her study on how to promote youth involvement in South Carolina as "an extremely important contribution, not only in South Carolina, but in other states and on the national level." Her ground-breaking study on the causes of homelessness and her recommendations for addressing it led to the founding of what is now known as One Eighty Place. According to then Director of the Community Foundation Ruth Heffron, the project, one of the first of its kind, received regional and national acclaim as a prototype for serving homelessness. She also developed a strategic plan for a children's museum, which is now beloved by local families as the Children's Museum of the Lowcountry. Her community involvement would take an entire page, but highlights include being elected as the president of the Charleston Dorchester Mental Health Board, serving on the state board of the League of Women Voters, and being appointed by the governor to the Foster Care Review Board. Perhaps her most defining community work was serving on the management board of the Roper Saint Francis Health System for multiple terms, which led to her being honored as the South Carolina Hospital Association Trustee of the Year in 2008. But of her many accolades, honors, and titles, the one that mattered most to her was that of Mimi, which reflected her strongest role as a devoted and loving wife, mother and grandmother. Kathy rejoiced in her Irish roots, loved a good joke and a fun party. She also embraced her German heritage which dictated that said parties are not too loud or too late. Kathy believed in everything in moderation, the power of thank you notes, accepting that life isn't fair and always ate her vegetables. She enjoyed a rich full life; was vibrant, elegant, intelligent, inquisitive, tough, and funny; and she left this world a better place than she found it. Kathy will be profoundly missed by her loving husband, Michael; her children and their spouses, Katherine (Katie) Duffy Dueholm and husband, Mark; Patrick Michael Duffy, Jr. and wife, Kelly; Brian Cantwell Duffy and wife, Medea; her seven treasured grandchildren, Anna and Jake Dueholm and Ella, Collin, Regan, Ava and Farrah Duffy. The relatives and friends of Mr. and Mrs. Patrick Michael Duffy are invited to attend her Mass of Christian Burial to be celebrated at 11:30 AM, Friday, February 11, 2022 at Nativity Catholic Church,1061 Folly Rd. The Rite of Committal will follow at Holy Cross Cemetery. The family will receive friends Thursday evening at Nativity Catholic Church between 5:00 and 7:00 PM. For the health and comfort of all our friends and family, wearing a mask is requested. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Roper St. Francis Hospital Foundation or One Eighty Place. Arrangements by James A. McAlister, Inc. 1620 Savannah Hwy, Charleston, SC (843) 766-1365. Visit our guestbook at legacy.com/obituaries/charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Feb. 9 to Feb. 10, 2022.

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J. SHANNON HURLEY

March 2, 2022

I AM SADDENED TO LEARN OF KATHY'S PASSING. SHE WAS A GREAT LADY AND A GOOD FELLOW CELT. SHE WILL BE DEARLY MISSED, ESPECIALLY BY THE SOUTH CAROLINA IRISH HISTORICAL SOCIETY. MAY SHE REST IN PEACE.

J. SHANNON HURLEY,
FELLOW S.C.I.H.S. MEMBER

Eli Woodruff

February 22, 2022

I will miss you Aunt Kathy you and the Duffy roundups all the times will be missed. Maybe, when we see each other again, we can relive all of the Duffy Christmases.

Rick vieth

February 17, 2022

Judge, while she is in a peaceful setting now, I know it's tough losing a life-long friend/spouse. The obituary was fantastic - what a life she had!! Thinking of you and praying for you! Rick

Brian Regan

February 10, 2022

In honor of Katherine H. Duffy, 1 memorial trees will be planted. With deepest sympathies.

Gary hearn

February 14, 2022

Duffy, so very sorry for your loss. Some of us know how devastating it is to lose a wife to cancer. Life does get better as time passes.
Gary Hearn
Classmate

Christopher Hickman

February 13, 2022

So sorry to hear the news. Mrs. Duffy was like a second mom to the Three Trees Road gang! Thoughts and prayers to all the family!

Lynn Carlson

February 11, 2022

May God keep the Duffy family in his light and love.
Not many people have touched so many lives as Kathy has here on her time on Earth. I will miss her laughter and quick witted sense of humor when I had the privilege of being with her, as her friend. I know with her deep devotion to God that she is where she is supposed to be, in peace and beauty and the promise of everlasting life.

Andy Thomas

February 11, 2022

My sincere condolences to the Duffy family. Mrs. Duffy was a very special lady. Always kind and happy to help.

Paula Weatherford Dahlke

February 10, 2022

Patrick & family,
I will be keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers

Mary Jo Gibson

February 10, 2022

Michael, what a beautiful obituary. I was so impressed with all of Kathy's accomplishments and success. She certainly will be missed. May God bless you and your entire family. I will remember Kathy (Cuz) in my prayers always. We had such fun when I came to visit Charleston and yes, we put up with Teddy! I loved her and will miss her terribly.

Tom Beshere

February 10, 2022

To the Duffy family -- I am so sorry to hear of your loss. She was an extraordinary lady, and will be greatly missed. I will always fondly remember her kindness, friendship, and support, especially during the years that my mother was battling her illness. I wish you all condolences and peace, and hope that the cherished memories of your time with her will help to ease the pain of your loss.

Anthony (Ski) Januszkiewicz

February 10, 2022

Judge Duffy I am very sorry to hear of your Wife's passing. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family God bless you all.

Tonya Toney

February 10, 2022

To Katherine Dueholm,
Let the memories provide comfort in your journey through this loss. I send my prayers and support to you and your family during this difficult time.

Tonya Toney and Family

JOHN WOOD III

February 10, 2022

She will be greatly missed! God Bless!!

Marie Vincent Condon

February 10, 2022

Michael, I am so very sorry that Kathy has left this earth & rejoice in her eternal life.

Rhonda Tapley

February 10, 2022

What a truly remarkable lady. I am so proud to have known her. I know she is soaring with the angels!

Sherry Shealy Martschink

February 10, 2022

I first met Kathy through the Palmetto Lowcountry Health Systems Agency. She was truly a community servant and made such a huge difference, not only in the community but also in the state and nation. Thank you for sharing her with all of us. You are all in my prayers.

Ruth Heffron

February 10, 2022

Oh how the community and I will miss Kathy. Everything important at the community foundation while I was there happened first with a study from Kathy which not only documented need but also gave us a roadmap for how to proceed. Along with her acumen, she brought her wonderful personality and I was lucky to call her friend. Michael, I know you will miss her dearly - but look around, she is everywhere! Ruth

Sue Dee

February 10, 2022

Patrick, Kelly, Regan & Ava,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. With love from Buffalo, The Dee Family

Gary Paradis

February 10, 2022

My deepest sympathy and prayers for the Duffy family. What a remarkable woman! You all remain in my thoughts. May you all find peace with the knowledge that she is with God.

Charles Williams

February 9, 2022

Michael: I am so sorry for your loss. As you know, I grew up right around the corner from the Hostetter family and "Terrible" Ted and I were best friends. I spent a lot of time at their house on Wentworth Street so I got to know Kathy and Mrs. Hostetter really well. Kathy was an angel on earth and was relentless in her quest to help people. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Please take care and tell everyone in your family that I am sorry for their loss -- because wonderful women who made this world a better place for everyone don't come along very often.

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Melba Chaney

February 9, 2022

Blessings for an eternal rest and peace!

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