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Pam Peters
December 11, 2007
Dear Matthew and Becky,
Your mom was my Math and French teacher at Seton High school in Endicott. But more, she got me through some tough times. She was a gem. Her smile could light up a room.May God give you peace and comfort in these days ahead. I am sure that a mother's love transcends time and space and she will always be with you.
Michelle Quaranto
December 6, 2007
Becky and to the rest of the Smyth family,
I am truely sorry for your loss. I knew you were very close with your mother, and it's never easy to say goodbye. Every time you see that star blinking brightly in the sky you know your mother is watching over you and still guiding you in the right direction. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of need. Your EMS family will always take care of you!
Sam & Doug Schubert
December 6, 2007
We are sorry for your loss and our prayers will be with you and your family.
Brian Hinton
December 6, 2007
Becky, Matthew, Mr. Pete,
I am so sorry about your loss. May all your memories help you to pull thru this time of sorrow. I love you all like you are part of my family. My prayers are with you everyday. God Bless
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Joe Smyth
December 5, 2007
"Only a life lived for others is a life worthwhile." - Albert Einstein
Albert must have known Vera. She was truly a great mother, an outstanding educator, a wonderful sister, and a caring friend.
Thanks for the memories.
Emily Harkins
December 5, 2007
To the Smyth Family-
I am so sorry for your loss. I am shocked and very saddened to hear of the passing of Mrs. Smyth. She was my teacher at SOA and I will always remember her with love. God be with you.
Ted & Lila Rapchick
December 4, 2007
To Matthew, Becky, Joan, Karen Jimmy and all of her family , we are saddened by the untimely passing of your Vera Jean. Our times with her were always pleasant and memorable.
May you rest assured that her presence was a blessing to all who knew her and she will surely be missed greatly by so many.
Melissa Garvan
December 4, 2007
Becky,
I have just heard the news of your mother's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and remember the good times you all shared for many years. A mother is always a friend and knowing you resemble her character in many ways and will continue to shine for her.
Take care..
Bill and Martina Arel
December 3, 2007
Matt and Family:
We are so sorry for your loss. Matt, you're a wonderful friend and person - take comfort in knowing that your mother must be proud.
Sister Elizabeth Racko
December 2, 2007
From a Daughter of Charity of St. Vincent de Paul, It was a joy to have known Vera. She loved to learn new things and to teach others. Her laughter was like a ray of sunshine on cloudy day. Sister Elizabeth Racko
Peggy Baumgartner
December 2, 2007
To Vera's family,
I was so shocked to hear of Vera's sudden but peaceful death. I taught with Vera at Seton Catholic High in Endicott, NY for three years. Vera was a great person, bright, enthusiastic, fun, witty, and a good teacher. I remember her most as a friend who brightened and enriched my life as well as many others. When I read her obituary of 11/19/07, I was struck by all she accomplished in her life, both professionally and spiritually. May God comfort her children and grandchild in their deep sorrow and loss. My prayers for you all.
May we all be inspired to try to be a better person as Vera showed us the way. I regret that I could not come to the funeral.
BRENDA FRAZIER
December 2, 2007
BECKY, I WAS SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOU MOTHER'S PASSING. MY THOUGHT'S AND PRAYERS GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. BRENDA FRAZIER
Becky Smyth
December 2, 2007
To my Mombie -
Little did I know that when I talked to you on Tuesday night, it would be the last time I would hear your voice. It would be the last time I would hear you say "I love you." I cannot express the emptiness and incredible despair that shook me to me very soul when I turned the corner and found you Wednesday morning. I still cannot believe that you are gone from this earth. You have been my rock, my role model, and most of all my best friend. In my darkest hours, saddest moments, I have always known you were there for me. In the last few months it was you who taught me to be a mother to Grace. I miss you, mom, more that words can say. As you always sang to me as a little girl:
You are my sunshine, my only sunshine. You make me happy when skies are gray. You'll never know dear, how much I love you. Please don't take my sunshine away.
The other night dear, when I was sleeping, I dreamt I held you in my arms. But when I woke up, I was mistaken, and I hung my head and cried.
Goodbye momma. I love you more than all the stars in the sky.
Wormie
Mary Holst O'leary
December 1, 2007
Pete, Becky and Matt,
I was so shocked to hear about the passing of Vera. We took a class together a few years back and caught up on everything going on in each others life. We had planned to get together, but things didn't work out. You never know what life is going to bring us. May God help you all through this time.
Linda Miles
December 1, 2007
To the family,
You are in my prayers...your mother touched the lives of everyone she came in contact with. She leaves a treasure of great memories for everyone.
(BCSD)
Shannon Gaetke
November 30, 2007
To the family:
My heart goes out to you. I was lucky enough to have Ms. Smyth as my homeroom and algebra teacher back in high school. I will always remember her smiles, her frowns if you walked in late to class, and her overwhelming enthusiasm and love. She inspired me in so many ways and I am truly blessed to have known her in my life.
Russsell Binder
November 30, 2007
May He who rose from the dead Christ Our True God, through the intersessions of His All Holy Mother, grant your family peace during this time of great loss.
Judy and Charles Kaiser
November 30, 2007
Matt, We are so sorry about your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you. She was a lovely lady and I always enjoyed seeing her and finding out what you were up to. Michael phoned me and told me the news.
Evelyn Middelton-Scott
November 30, 2007
It was really sad when I heard about Vera. She was a great person and I enjoyed her as a math coordinator. May God forever Bless and Keep all of you. My prayers are with the family.
Anne Dowd
November 30, 2007
Vera was an extraordinary person--friendly, unassuming, and fun. As a former neighbor and colleague, I am deeply saddened to hear of her loss. My daughter, who babysat for Matthew and Rebecca, also sends her condolences. Vera's life reflected love, humility, and joy. What a treasure!!
Jane Pulling
November 30, 2007
We were so sorry to hear today of Vera's passing. She was a wonderful teacher, colleague, and friend. A true professional in every way. The number of lives she influenced for the better will never be known. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family during this difficult time. Please take comfort in the celebration that was her life.
Sister Mary Anne Brawley
November 30, 2007
I am shocked and deeply saddened by Vera's death. As a young woman she spent several years as a member of the Daughters of Charity of St. Vincent de Paul. It was then that we taught together at Seton Catholic High School in Endicott, NY. We have remained in contact sporadically through the years and I rejoiced with her at the birth of her first grandchild in July. How happy I am that she had that special joy before going home to God.
I shall miss her e-mails and her always late arriving Christmas cards! Vera was a friend I treasured and I wish I were closer to attend her wake and funeral.
Be assure of my prayers as you adjust to life without her vibrant presence.
Alice & LaNice` SOA '04 Butler-Ravenel
November 30, 2007
To the Smyth Family you have my deepest sympathy. May you find comfort in the Savior during your hour of bereavement. Mrs. Smyth was one of LaNice's favorite teacher at SOA. She talked of her often. Remember all the good times, laugh and rejoice how that she is at peace with the Lord.
Becky Kihslinger
November 30, 2007
Matt,
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts.
Becky and Justin
Anne-Mary Nash-Haruna
November 30, 2007
I was very chocked when I got the news of Vera's death I had to call a fellow parishioner to find out if what I heard was right, To the family of Vera Smyth, Accept our sympathy Only God can really console you at this time of grief and that is by know that she is in a better place where there are no worries. I am a lector in the church and she was always there for me when I needed somebody to take my readings when I cannot make it to church because of family emergency, she never said no to me each time I called her to help me out, and she thought my daughter and many other children in the church when they were going through first communion etc, I could go on and on and the list of her love and care will not stop because she was very good.
Blessed Scarament Church has lost an Icon and I dont know how this void can be filled.
May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
Gayle Gilson
November 30, 2007
I have to reiterate the words of Anne Godbee in reference to Vera. She was truly a very intelligent, caring woman with a fine sense of humor,too. Although I was privileged to work with Vera at the district office only a few years in Berkeley county before I moved to Columbia, I really enjoyed knowing and working with her and am so sorry to hear of her death. God be with you all. We know that Vera is with him.
Gayle Gilson
Dave & Michele Whiteside
November 29, 2007
Matt,
Michele and I are thinking of you. Your friendship cannot be described with words. Please know we have strength for you. May you find peace.
Marty Ball
November 29, 2007
The grief of her passing is dwarfed by the joy of having known her.
Frank Hamilton
November 29, 2007
The Family of Vera Smythe,
Vera's passing left me stunned. She was a fellow choir member and by chance I borrowed an item from her folder Tuesday night to make a copy. I took special care to ensure I returned it to her on Wednesday. It was not to be.
Her passing leaves me very sad, but I take comfort in having known her and will celebrate the many good things she did in her life. She was an inspiration to us all and we will miss her. In this time of pain and grief, may you take both pride and comfort in the high regard in which she was held by all who knew her. My wife and I will remember her and you in prayer. God love you all.
W Stephen Thayer
November 29, 2007
To Professor Smyth's family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I had her for math this semester at the College of Charleston and she was one of the nicest women I have ever met. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.
Jerry Safko
November 29, 2007
I am so sorry for the loss of this wonderful woman and very dear friend. For over thirty years Vera was a source of joy and comfort.
Anne Godbee
November 29, 2007
All of us who knew and loved Vera respected her intelligence, appreciated her thoughtfulness, and were confident of her friendship and trust.
One of my fondest memories is of the time she arranged a "party" for a mutual friend who had passed away. We met at his resting place on the anniversary of his death, shared a glass of wine (or two?) and poured a little on his grave so that he could share in the event. I invite all of her friends to meet me next year on November 28th to celebrate Vera's life after we have had time to heal and recover.
She was a great friend and I shall miss her greatly.
Christy Johnson
November 29, 2007
Becky, Mr. Smythe, Matthew, Grace, and all family and friends,
I wanted to say how much I enjoyed your mom as my patient. I want to send our condolescences from the office of Dr. Elmer K. Smith. I know how much Dr. Smith thought of your mom and we did too. He was probably standing at the gates of heaven holding the door open for his beautiful friend! This news came to us as a great surprise and of great sadness. Your mom loved you all so much!! And Becky, because we are closest to you, she was sooo very proud of you and your accomplishments!!! She was so excited about everything currently in your life!! Our hearts and prayers are with you all, and I know that GOD is always in control of each and every breath we take!! He loved your mom so much and although it is hard to understand, GOD will give you all the peace that passes all understanding. She was such a blessing in so many peoples lives and touched the heart of all she knew, and I pray for all of you that GOD grants serenity during this time of loss, WE LOVE YOU ALL, AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU. PEACE BE STILL IN THE HEARTS OF ALL WHO LOVED HER!HUGS AND KISSES TO YOU ALL!!!
Robert & Debbie Maguire
November 29, 2007
To the Family of Vera:
Our prayers are with you all at this most difficult time. Rest in the knowledge of how much she loved her Church and how unselfishly she gave of herself doing what God called her to do.
Tracy Lynch
November 29, 2007
Matt,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope that the memories of your mother will provide each of you with comfort.
Tracy & Katie
Kelslie Mathieu
November 29, 2007
To the family;
My deepest condolences to you all in this time. I was a former student and i'm lucky to say that I had her as my teacher for two years. She was such a warm and loving individul and I give you all my deepest sympathy. Mrs. Smyth was such a great role model and cared so much for each child that came into her life. I will never forget the wonderful things she did for me during my senior year and the support she gave to me. God Bless.
Ed Dickey
November 29, 2007
I am so sorry to learn of Vera's passing. She was a fantastic colleague and teacher who did so much for mathematics education throughout South Carolina. I am fortunate to have had the privilege of knowing her. And even more so to have my son, Ry, be a math student of hers at the College of Charleston. His words: "What a GREAT teacher" only scratch the surface of characterizing this great human being who did so much for so many. My deepest sympathy to Peter and Vera's family.
Ry Dickey, Charleton, SC
Marjorie Dyches
November 29, 2007
To the Family of Vera Smyth,
May God be with all of you at this time. My life has been so much richer,in knowing Vera. God has shown me friendship --Is God's most
precious gift! She will be missed by all of us who teach on Sunday morning. Vera,gave all!!It is through giving that we recieve,and it is through dying that we are born to eternal life.
Joe, Jennifer, Kayla & Nicholas Kucera
November 29, 2007
Dear Becky and Family
We wanted to express our condolences for the loss of your mother. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers
during this difficult time.
With deepest sympathy.
Valerie Noah
November 29, 2007
I am sorry for your loss. I worked with Vera at the School of the Arts for a year and she was a joy to work with.
Sandra Powers
November 29, 2007
Dear friends and family of Vera:
My deepest sympathy is with you as you face life without this awesome lady. She will always remain one of the best people I have been privileged to know and to work with. Please hold all your good memories so they may help you through the grief of your loss. My prayers are with you.
Mandy Stone
November 29, 2007
I am so very sorry for the loss of this wonderful woman. She was an incredible teacher and just an incredible person. She will be sorely missed.
Shelby Hawthorne
November 29, 2007
To Vera's Family,
I taught with Vera at TNCC. She was a very special person and blessed the lives of all who knew her.
Lynn Peterson
November 29, 2007
Dear Matthew, Becky, Pete, Grace, friends and family. Although I cannot be there in person, I am there in love and thoughts and wonderful memories of my beautiful friend, Vera. There has never been anyone finer. I will miss my dear, dear friend.
Sallie Bendt
November 29, 2007
God has called one of the blessings of Blessed Sacrament Church.
Ann mitchum
November 29, 2007
Becky,
I feel truly blessed that I was a friend of your mothers. We worked very closely with St. Vincent DePaul and I know first hand what a caring, loving person she was.
I also was able to see what happiness your baby brought her. She was so proud of her children.
brantley rogers
November 29, 2007
to the family of Mrs. Smyth-
I was one of her students and i was truly blest to have her in my life! she meant so much to me and i hope she knew that! i will miss her so much, she was honestly an amazing women and grandmother figure to me! im really sorry to hear about it!
brantley rogers
soa
Juanita Caddell
November 29, 2007
I am sorry for your lost. Vera was a very special person, that will be missed by many. I also know that no one will feel her loss like her family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
She is now truely in God's care. Sincerely, Juanita Caddell BCSD
Lynn Peterson
November 29, 2007
Dear Becky, Matthew, Pete, Grace, family and friends,
Although I can't be with you all, you are surrounded by my love and thoughts and wonderful memories of a very special lady, my dear, dear friend.There never has been anyone finer. I loved her so very much. Be at peace, rest dear Vera.
Jennifer D. Page
November 29, 2007
My prayers are with Matt and his family.
Darlene Dorkewitz
November 29, 2007
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. We loved Ms.Smyth very much. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of grief..
God Bless you.
School of the Arts Cafeteria
Darlene Dorkewitz
Jeanette Singleton
Sharon Chapman
Yulanda Bolger
Vestella Singleton
Lois Maxwell
Mary Evans
Lynda Cunningham
November 29, 2007
Vera will be missed dearly. I will especially miss our early Sunday mornings before the children come for their religious education program. I take comfort in knowing she is with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. I pray for all her family and friends to feel the peace and love of Jesus through this difficult time.
In Christ, Lynda
John & Lesia Lewis
November 29, 2007
We are so sorry to hear about Vera, please let us know if we can help in any way. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
Peter Smyth
November 29, 2007
Friends forever. It was, after all, worth a lot.
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