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Thomas M. Hafner

1943 - 2021

Thomas M. Hafner obituary, 1943-2021, Charleston, SC

BORN

1943

DIED

2021

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McAlister-Smith Funeral & Cremation - Mt. Pleasant Location

1520 Rifle Range Rd

Mount Pleasant, South Carolina

Thomas Hafner Obituary

Thomas M. Hafner DANIEL ISLAND - Thomas M. Hafner (78) of Daniel Island, SC, is now with the Lord after battling complications from Alzheimer's Disease for 5+ years. His precious life was from August 8, 1943 to August 15, 2021. He is the son of the late Rev. Theodore Hafner and Josephine (Herpolsheimer) Hafner, brother of late infant, Teddy Hafner, and nephew of late Paula Herpolsheimer. He was born in Evansville, Indiana., and grew up in Dover, Delaware. He studied at Valparaiso University, graduating with a BA in Political Science ('65) and JD ('68). He was married to the Joy of his life for 54 years. His memory lives on in wife, Joy, and children and grandchildren: Mark T. (Kellye)-Annalise and Justin, Sharon J. Patrick (Chip)-Madison Christian (Josh) and Trey, Matthew T.(Janie Kay)-Josh and Megan, Michael T., Martin T. (Ren)-Hanna. Also fondly remembered by sister-in-law, Nancy Slinkard, nephew, Ryan Slinkard (Debbie), Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, friends, and coworkers. Many thanks to all family, caregivers, hospice workers, and friends who participated in Tom's life and care. Special thanks to John Porter for crafting a very meaningful memorial box for Tom. Please join us for a celebration of Tom's life on Sunday, Sept. 19 at 2pm ET in the chapel at Seacoast Church on Long Point Rd. in Mount Pleasant. Pastor Michael Morris of Seacoast Church and Deacon Laura Bowman of Holy Cross Anglican Church will officiate. Masks and social distancing are required due to COVID-19. Alternately, the service will be livestreamed at live.seacoast.org. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating in Tom's memory to Christ College at Valparaiso University, MUSC Pathology/Brain Bank, Seacoast Legacy, or Holy Cross Men's Life Group Ministry. Visit our guestbook at legacy.com/obituaries/charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Sep. 11 to Sep. 12, 2021.

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Jane Rhinehart

September 19, 2021

Joy,
We read about Tom´s passing in the Standard Banner. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my heart and prayers my friend. I wish I knew another way to contact you.
God bless, Jane

Mary and Jim Knox

September 18, 2021

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. We remember fondly our trip together to Spain.

Wayne Hegamyer

September 12, 2021

I will miss this fine man that I knew in his later years. We were in a Bible study together and the love of the Lord was so apparent in Tom. Rest In Peace my brother.

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