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Mary Pattillo Obituary

Mary Pattillo CHARLESTON - Mary Agnes McGorty Pattillo, 102, died Wednesday, April 26, 2017, at her home on James Island. Mary was born May 24, 1914, in Charleston, the daughter of Mary Torlay McGorty and Thomas James McGorty. She was predeceased by her husband, Francis Edward Pattillo, her parents and her brothers: Thomas, Franklin, John, Russell and Charles McGorty. Mary was blessed with a loving family of five children and their spouses: Patricia and Rick Johnson, Carole and Dennis Darling, Edward and Pam Pattillo, Jane Stretch (Joe) and Tommy and Barbara Pattillo. She has eight grandchildren, six of whom are married, as well as fifteen great grandchildren. Mary lived in Orangeburg after she married in 1939 until 1960 when she returned to Charleston and went to work for the News and Courier. She retired after 23 years of faithful service in 1983 at the age of 69. Mary was an avid Braves fan and always looked forward to baseball season. She enjoyed reading, crossword puzzles, gardening and was also a wonderful cook. Mary worked hard all of her life, and God has blessed us. She graduated from Bishop England High School in 1932 and was the oldest surviving graduate of Bishop England at their 100th Anniversary Celebration. The relatives and friends of Mary Agnes McGorty Pattillo are invited to attend her Mass of Christian Burial at 10:30 AM, Friday, April 28, 2017, at St. Joseph Catholic Church, 1695 Wallenberg Blvd. The Rite of Committal will follow at Riverview Memorial Park. The family will receive friends between 6:00 PM and 8:00 PM, this Thursday evening at the James A. McAlister Funeral Home, 1620 Savannah Hwy. Online condolences may be made at www.CharlestonFunerals.com. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Bishop England High School, 363 Seven Farms Drive, Charleston, SC 29492; Lutheran Hospice, 1885 Rifle Range Road, Suite 46, Mt. Pleasant, SC 29464 or St. Joseph Catholic Church, 1695 Wallenberg Blvd., Charleston, SC 29407. Arrangements by JAMES A. MCALISTER Funerals & Cremation (843)766-1365. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Apr. 26 to Apr. 28, 2017.

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Jane Pattillo Stretch

April 20, 2022

She was truly fun, worked hard her whole life , and was the best Mother, Grandmother, Aunt and Daughter.We love and miss her everyday.A beautiful lady!

Donna Williamson

April 20, 2021

Aunt Mary you are so missed by many on a daily basis. We Love you>

Donna, Deborah and Denise

April 20, 2019

Aunt Mary you have always been a treasure and continue to be thought about often. We miss and love you very much.

Denise Hudson

May 24, 2017

I am so sad to hear about Aunt Mary's passing. I always thought so much of her. She was so sweet and will be greatly missed by so many. Love to all!

Deborah Orr

May 24, 2017

I am so sorry to hear Aunt Mary has left us but so happy knowing that she is in heaven watching over all of us. Aunt Mary is a great lady and will be greatly missed.

Donna, Deborah and Denise

May 24, 2017

Patricia, Carole Ann, Edward, Jane and Tommy.

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay. I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above. Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love. Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight. Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night. That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through, God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you." It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on. I need you here badly; you're part of my plan. There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man. God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do. And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you. And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight. God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night. When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears. But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain. Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain. I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned. But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand. But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er. I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before. There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb; but together we can do it by taking one day at a time. It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you. If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain, then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain. "And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile, knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile. So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low, just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go. When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind; I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind. And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free, remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me. Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)©Copyright

May 1, 2017

Dear Jane,
I was so sorry to read in the paper about your mother, Just wanted you to know that I am praying for you and your family.
Love and prayers,
Jane Young Malcolm

Bonnie R. Moses

April 29, 2017

What fond memories I have of the Pattilo family when we lived nearby in Orangeburg.

Mike Ferri

April 29, 2017

Dear Jane,
I was sad to hear of your mom's passing, and I am praying to the Good Lord that He might grant her rest. May He also comfort you and all your family. I was unable to attend the funeral because of persistent back problems, but please know that I was thinking of you.

Larry, Deb, Connor and Cara Smith

April 29, 2017

Sorry for your loss Pattillo families! We didn't know her personally however heard great things about her. Keep your memories close and soon they will become treasures.

April 28, 2017

Very sorry for the family and community's loss. She helped so many people over the years. She is missed.

Linda, Bert and family Ecle

April 27, 2017

Ms. Mary, I have no words for what a special person you were. You have an amazing family that loved you dearly. We....my whole family loved you! As a guardian angel please watch over us with your grace and love. We lost a wonderful person in our lives but, heaven gained so much. You had a wonderful full life and will be missed by us all.

April 27, 2017

Mary Pattillo was a remarkable lady and a great friend to the Daniel family! She has earned her way to the pearly gates. We will miss her dearly!! May she rest in peace! Love and prayers to the family!
Cherry Daniel

Carolyn Gorman

April 27, 2017

Pat and Rick,

We were sorry to read of Mrs. Pattillo's death. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Joe and Carolyn Gorman

April 27, 2017

Jane and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Words cannot express how much your Mom will be missed. If there is anything I can do, please let me know. I love you.

Hettie Sloan.

Ellie Hamilton

April 27, 2017

Condolences for your family Jane. I pray your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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