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Mary Bessinger Obituary

Mary Bessinger Goose Creek - Mary Catherine Gillam Bessinger,96, loving mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, friend, and matriarch of her family, passed on from this life on March 4th, 2019. She was surrounded by her devoted family as she was welcomed into the presence of her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Mary, who was called, Nob, by her family and friends was born on March 7th, 1922 in Bamberg, S.C. The second daughter of seven to the late Laurie B. Gillam and Elizabeth L. Gillam. In 1939, she married her childhood sweetheart the late Henry C. Bessinger and they reared six children, the eldest being Z. Kathryn Bessinger followed Betsy B. Avery, Henry C. (Butch) Bessinger, Jr., (Joyce), Laurie F. Bessinger (Ginger), Sally B. Hance (J.R.) and special friend Sandy R. Hilty, whom she regarded as a daughter. She was both grandmother and great- grandmother to eight, and great- great-grandmother to five. She was preceded in death by her husband and her most cherished and beloved daughter Donna R. Bessinger, who had her homegoing on January 20th, 2019. Also preceding her in death were her dear sisters, Dezaree and Sally and her beloved brother Jeff. She is survived by her dear sisters Florence G. Brown, Peggy G. Sineath, and her beloved brother David E. (Buddy) Gillam. She was a member of Goose Creek Pentecostal Holiness Church and served the Lord faithfully until her health declined. Visitation at the Carolina Memorial Funeral Home will be Saturday March 9, 2019 from 12:30 pm to 2:30 pm. The Life Well Celebrated Service will start at 2:30 pm at the funeral home chapel. Burial to follow at Carolina Memorial Gardens. Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared at www.carolinamemorial.com for the Bessinger family. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Mar. 6 to Mar. 7, 2019.

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Diane Compton

March 1, 2020

I loved your mom. She always had a sweet smile on her face. I was blessed to know her.

Evangelist Daisy Henderson

March 12, 2019

My Sincere Condolences& Prayers for this family. To know her was to Love her such a Sweet Lady full of Love & had such a caring spirit. Ms.Bessinger was a jewel my grandmother worked for her & help with her children.She called her Mary Daisy☺those two together was a pair. Great Service on Saturday& I am sure those two are talking right about now!! God bless you all.

Carol Jolly Almond

March 8, 2019

Prayers for us all, we have lost a great lady in Aunt Nobbie..

Costa DeLuca

March 8, 2019

Fond memories from the shoe store. She was always thinking and talking about her family. My condolences.

Diane Calvert Compton

March 7, 2019

Sally,
I am so sorry about you mom. She was the sweetest person and was beautiful inside and out. If you knew her you were truly blessed. I still remember her at Charleston Square Mall at Pete Banis. I know you will miss her a lot. She is back with your dad and sister.

March 7, 2019

Dear Mr. Buddy and family,
So very sorry about your sister! Many prayers and thoughts for you all!
Dawn Smith, former mail carrier

Jimmy Johnson

March 7, 2019

Prayers for the Family of Mrs Mary Nob' Bessinger. My family thought the world of her and visited her often when I was a young kid. I have often thought of her, Laurie and Butch. She will be missed by many friends.

Colleen Jolly

March 7, 2019

Our deepest condolences go out to the family of Mary Gillam Bessinger, we are all so sorry for your loss, may God Bless all of you and keep you at this sad time.

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