Mary Barnard Obituary

Memories of working with Mary Ann still remain with me even after my retiring almost 20 years ago from Archmere. Every teaching day was a day to inspire students to know and love history. Pat

Dear Dave and family,
I was so sorry to hear of Mary Ann's passing. I remember meeting her through Carolyn Letts and had many pleasant times in her company. It sounds as though her compassion and commitment to others continued through her retirement. What a gift to others.

Dear Dave and family
My condolences on your loss of Mary Ann.. After being introduced to her many years ago by Carolyn Letts I recall fun times together. May happy memories of the past soon cloud your sadness.

Dear Dave and Family,
Ron and I are so sorry to hear of Mary Ann's passing. She was a bright, kind, gentle lady. Working with her I always appreciated her wisdom, wit, and caring ways. She was especially helpful to my 3 children who attended Archmere. Both you and Mary Ann instilled much confidence in me when I first arrived at Archmere. We hope all your favorite memories and speaking of them aloud get you through this sad time. You and your family (all those grands we heard so many stories about) are in our thoughts and prayers.
Fondly,
Rita and Ron Lee

Dear Mr. Barnard,
I am very sorry for your loss. You and Mrs. Barnard were so very kind to my family and me. I always enjoyed babysitting Drew and Ellen. They were such good kids! It's wasn't a surprise since their parents were so special. Mrs. Barnard's obituary was beautiful. She was truly a servant of God. May God bring you and your family peace during this difficult time in your lives.
Sincerely,
Suzanne Rubercheck Hammerer

David,

We are sorry for the loss of Maryann. We offer our deepest prayers and condolences to you and your family. Both Al and I have fond memories of having first met the both of you and enjoying cocktails together. Maryann always had a smile on her face and you also brought such wonderful appetizers. Every time I walk into my kitchen I think of Maryann and her wonderful design talent and sense of color. The world was a better place with her in it and although we have seen you in a couple of years, the both of you will always be a cherished memory for us.

With loving sympathy,
Jan and Al Zapata

Dave, Andrew & Ellen,
My sympathy and prayers are with you on Mary Ann's passing. She will long be remembered in the hearts of many Archmere students and staff members for her dedication, tender love and care. Mary Ann was an inspired and dedicated teacher; her concern for every student was exemplary, especially those who needed extra help. She was always willing to go the extra mile. A merited crown now awaits her for having "run the race well."
Fr. Stephen Rossey
St. Norbert Abbey
DePere, WI

Mr. Barnard, Drew, Ellen,
So sorry to hear of the passing of Mrs. Barnard. Many fond memories at Archmere as she was my first teacher with the old Study Skills class. She was truly an asset to Archmere and many lives were enriched by her. May she rest in peace and be welcomed into the community of Saints. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.

Dave and family,
My thoughts and prayers for Mary Ann and the family. I will remember her at Mass.
Fr. Sal Cuccia

Dave, Drew and Ellen,

Carol and I were saddened to hear of Mary Ann's passing. We recall many happy occasions that we were able to share with you over the years at Ar4chmere, as well as so many professional times spent working with her. Her deep concern and thorough professionalism for her students was an example for all.
We are sorry that we cannot be with you in person but know that Mary Ann will be in our thoughts and prayers. We hope that you are not far from the time when the thought of her will bring a smile before it brings a tear.

Lou and Carol D'Angelo

Dear David and Family,

I'm so sorry to hear about Mary Ann. She was there for me as a friend & teacher from my first day at Archmere until I graduated. To this day I often think about her teaching me reading & comprehension. Her kindness and patience were her greatest gifts. I will always remember her and she will forever be in my prayers.

Rob Tolland

Dear Dave, Drew, Ellen and Janet,

We are so saddened by the news of Mary Ann
s passing, Dave, you and Mary Ann made us part of your family on many special holidays. Red cabbage and Silly Santa have become part of our family's traditions because of your marvelous and gracious hospitality, Those moments together in fellowship and affection linger with us.

At Archmere Mary Ann was an inspiration for all teachers. Her energy, wit and creativity were a force in the classroom and out of it. Fueled by her endless curiosity, she was always looking for a method or approach that would enhance the students love of learning and, in particular, joy in history. I could only standby and applaud when she introduced lessons of art history into the curriculum for her history students. She always offered her friendship and support to me and other faculty members. Mary Ann was the real deal!

Our sympathy is with you all as you deal with Mary Ann's passing.

God Bless,
Patricia and Gerry Appleton

Dear Ellen, Drew, Mr. Barnard and Family,

I was so very sorry to hear the news of Mrs. Barnard's passing. She was such an integral part of my years at Archmere, and her legacy there still resounds in St. Norbert Hall and all around campus. So many students benefitted from her love and devotion to teaching and she made the world a better place.

I hope happy memories of her sustain you through the sad days ahead. Please know how fondly she will be remembered by all who knew her.

My most sincere condolences,
Sue Mingey Padien '84

Our deepest sympathies to you Dave, Ellen and Drew. Mary Ann was a wonderful person and an amazing educator. When I began my tenure at Archmere in 1988 she took me under her wing to mentor me through my first years. I will always remember the kindness, words of advice and hospitality you both gave to me.

God bless you all in this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

David, Kathy and Ryan'15 Ifkovits

Mr. Bernard, Ellen, and Andrew,
My thought and prayers are with each of you and your families during this challenging time. My thoughts have often returned to our days playing at the Archmere pool when we were kids. How blessed I am to have had Mrs Bernard correcting my English papers - Reminding me with eloquence how to best improve my early writing attempts. You are all special people and have been to so many of us....Take Care.....Respectfully, Anne

So sorry to hear the news of Mrs. Barnard's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Harry Cardile
Class of '78

Mr. Barnard, Ellen and Drew,
Although I did not have Mrs. Barnard as a teacher, I knew her mostly through my sister, Jen(Deeble) Kilicoglu. Mr. Barnard- you were the admissions person I met with as a nervous wreck of a soon-to-be 11th grader. You were kind and patient and it made me feel comfortable and welcomed. Ellen- you came to our home in Wilmington a few times. Once at Christmas time you helped us decorate our tree. I remember your smile and infectious laugh. Drew- I knew you through my sister's stories.
What a wonderful wife and mom and what a life of service.
Wishing you all comfort and peace,
Lynne Eckbold

Dear Dave, Drew and Ellen, Please accept our sincere condolences. We will always fondly remember Mary Ann and the time we shared with her at Archmere. She certainly exemplified Archmere family spirit.

I'm so sad to hear of Mary Ann's passing. My heart goes out to you all. I haven't seen you all in what seems like forever but I have very fond memories spending time with your family. She really was a wonderful lady and surely will be missed. Sending lots of love and prayers for your family.

Dear Barnard family, I'm so sorry to hear the news. Mrs. Barnard was a special lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Love, Tiffany Vasilchik

We are so sadden to hear of Mary Ann passing.
She has been a wonderful part of our life these past few years.
It was a joy to have known such a wonderful lady.
Our prayers go out to you David and your family

Dear Dave and Family,

Wishing you all God's grace and blessings with the joy of happy memories during this time sorrow.
Mary Ann was a special lady. So sorry.


Rita Marinelli

She was a great teacher and wonderful lady...one who seemed actually able to "get through to me" in history.
I remember one class where she put song titles all around the room and would relate them to historical events. I will keep all of you in my prayers.

I am very sorry to hear of Mrs. Barnard's passing. She was my SAT prep teacher and was an integral part of the Archimere family. She was always so kind and patient and very cheery. I attended Archmere with Ellen from 1978-84. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Ann Himelreich Nann.

My sincerest condolences on the passing of Mrs. Barnard. I will always remember her Art History class and the impact it made on my appreciation of art and design. She was a special lady. God bless all of you.

Dear Mr. Barnard and family,

I'm so sorry to hear this news. Mrs. Barnard was an amazing lady and was a huge part of my time at Archmere. She really cared for her students and I will always appreciate her devotion to her work and students. Sending love and light during this time.

Dear Mr. Barnard,
I was so sorry to read of Mrs. Barnard's passing. I have such fond memories of her as the Girls Counselor. In the the Fall of 1974, as a terrified Freshman in the first days of co-education at Archmere, Mrs. Barnard's warm smile and easy laugh, made me realize that everything would be okay.
I also have fond memories of your Creative Writing class, which was one of my favorite courses while at Archmere.
You and your family will remain in my prayers.
With deepest sympathy,
Chris Dougherty DeVries
Class of 1979

Dear Mr. Bernard and Family,

I'm very sorry to hear about the passing of Mrs. Bernard. She was one of my favorite teachers at Archmere and helped inspire my love of history. I always appreciated her kindness , her gift of teaching, and her sharp eye for fashion!

I'm thinking of you all.

With sincere sympathy and best wishes,

Lori Ahrens Saladino (Class of 1993)

Mr. Barnard, Drew and Ellen,
I was so sorry to hear of the passing of Mrs. Barnard from my mom last evening. She was woven into the fabric of my time at Archmere. Surrounding you all with comfort and light during this sad time.

It is great sadness that we learn of Mary Ann's passing. She meant so much to me, having worked alongside her (and David) for over 20 years at Archmere. She was devoted.
My daughter Alison revered Mary Ann because she helped her so much.I t was how she cared, especially for those who needed it the most. There was so much depth to her spirit.

I extend our family's sympathy to David and to Andrew and Ellen, whom I taught Art to, as well as to all the Grandchildren.

Very Fondly,
Terry (and Robin) Newitt

Mr. Barnard, Drew and Ellen,
I was so sorry to hear of Mrs. Barnard's passing. She was woven into the fabric of my time at Archmere. Surrounding you all with love and light during this time.

David & family,
We are blessed in so many ways that Mary Ann shared her joy and love with us during her faith journey at Christ Church. We cherish those memories, especially the many occasions of shared meals, delightful conversations, and above all the weekly worship.
We were honored to have shared with your family the great moment of your 50th anniversary. We give thanks that your friendship extended to sharing a couple of our celebrations.
May God's blessings continue in this time of change.
With our love,
Ed & Meg

Dear Mr. Barnard and Family,

I am so sorry to hear about Mrs. Barnard's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.

I will always remember Mrs. Barnard's great sense of humor. Her sense of humor was infused into her teaching at Archmere, which always made learning fun!

I can hear her voice in my head as clearly as 20 years ago, teaching us the themes of history--"absolutism corrupts absolutely" sticks out in my mind, but there are so many more--that inform how her students still view the world to this day. What a gift she gave to all of us.

Dave, Ellen, Drew, Janet and Grands,
Our sincere condolences. Mary Ann was a talented historian, gifted teacher and wonderful colleague and friend. We're so sorry for your loss.
Love,
Bill and Carolyn Doyle

Dave, Drew and Ellen,
I am so sorry to hear of Mary Ann's passing.
We all spent so many wonderful years together as teachers and friends.
Please remember all those good times and find strength in one another at this time.

I will pray for Mary Ann and for your entire family.

Lou LoBosco

I'm so sorry to learn of Mary Ann's passing. I have such fond memories of both Mary Ann and Dave's mentorship and friendship early in my career at Archmere. Wishing you comfort and peace. God bless.

To the Barnard family. At such a time, there isn't much that anyone can say. But many thoughts go out to you in sympathy today. And many hearts are hoping you'll find strength and comfort, too, in knowing others share the loss of the one so dear to you.

Please accept my condolences during your time of great sadness. May you cherish fond memories to cope with the pain from day to day. Take note of the comforting words at 1Thessalonians 4:14, the beautiful hope of seeing your love one again.
JM

You have my deepest sympathy during this time of sorrow.

RIP