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Lyle Blair Torrey Jr.

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Lyle Blair Torrey, Jr. Charleston - LYLE BLAIR TORREY, JR, DIED TUESDAY, JULY 21st. He is the son of the late Grace Metzger and Lyle Blair Torrey. He is survived by his wife, Eugenia Martin Torrey, three children, Lyle Blair Torrey lll, Kimball Kraus, and Katherine Torrey, as well as several grandchildren, and great- grandchildren. Blair was born in 1932 in Detroit, Michigan, where his grandfather was a pioneer in the fledgling automotive industry. He spent most of his formative years on the island of Bermuda, where his parents originally had a home prior to World War ll. After moving to Connecticut, Blair graduated from the Hotchkiss School, and received his undergraduate degree from Princeton University. After graduation, he served in the U.S. Marines for four years. Upon completion of his service, he returned to the Hotchkiss School as an English teacher, coach, and mentor to generations of students who looked upon him as a man of nature, preserver of the environment, and champion of the individual. Blair impacted so many others in his lifetime of generosity, humor, and steadfastness. While teaching, he attended Middlebury College's Bread Loaf School of English where he received a Master's Degree in English in 1969. He spent forty years on his tree farm in mid-coast Maine, continually improving, replanting, building trails, and restocking streams. It is a tribute to him that the farm is in the National Trust and will never be developed. After retiring from Hotchkiss, Blair relocated to Charleston. He loved the lowcountry and spent his time golfing, fishing, kayaking, bird watching, and photographing wildlife. He was a devoted husband, a loving father, and a good friend to all who knew him. As Blair would say, "Carry on. We know you will". Memorial contributions can be made to St. Michael's Church, 71 Broad St., Charleston, S. C. There will be a private funeral service due to COVID-19, with a life celebration at a later date. Arrangements by J. Henry Stuhr, Downtown Chapel. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Jul. 25 to Jul. 26, 2020.

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Sean Martin 76

February 20, 2022

I was going through old letters and grades ( my mom saved all of them). I saw several notes from Mr Torrey who was my teacher and advisor while I was at Hotchkiss. He was the best teacher and a critical touch stone during my Hkiss years.
After reading all the Hkiss notes, I searched for him, and was saddened to learn he had passed.
He was a great man with a big heart.
Thoughts and prayers for the family.
Sean

Andy Breuer

August 7, 2020

What an incredible human being Tor was. I’m honored to have been taught by him, teased by him, and inspired by him. I can see him throwing a chalk eraser across the room and screaming at us that (we) “need to start our essays with a CANNONBALL!” He changed the way countless Hotchkiss students like me looked at literature, writing, and the world around us. Tor was the the definition of Curiosity, Perception, and Joy... and he was simply one of a kind. Sending warm thoughts to his friends and family in the wake of this loss. May God keep you close, Tor... I know you’ll keep him entertained! —Andy Breuer ‘96—

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Bob Haiko

July 30, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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Ben Slote

July 28, 2020

Susan and I send our love and condolences to you, Genie, and all the family. We loved Blair. And what he meant to me, as to so many, can't be measured. I would certainly not be a teacher without his immediate faith in me, all those decades ago, and without his own joyful devotion to books and students. He was a model of so much.

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July 28, 2020

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time. May you find comfort in many wonderful memories of Mr. Torrey. May you feel God's comfort in a special way in the days and weeks to come. We thank you for allowing us to help in the care of Mr. Torrey. God bless you all.

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Peter Gottlieb

July 27, 2020

My deepest sympathies to the Torrey family. Mr. Torrey was an incredible inspiration to me in the classroom and on the ice at Hotchkiss. He was an amazing mentor and friend.

Adelaide Herring

July 27, 2020

My deepest condolences to the family. I never met Blair but heard wonderful things about him and prayers go out, particularly to Genie, his wife. May you be comforted through your grief.

Brian Eanes

July 26, 2020

I was saddened to learn of Blair’s passing. He was a valued friend and client of mine. My thoughts and prayers are with Genia and the family at his difficult time.

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