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1936
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Lois Herman Abele Obituary
Lois Herman Abele
Mount Pleasant - Lois Herman Abele, 89, of Mount Pleasant, South Carolina, wife of Rear Admiral Robert Burke Abele, retired, entered into eternal rest Monday, December 15, 2025. Her Mass of Christian Burial will be held Saturday, December 20, 2025, in Stella Maris Catholic Church, 1204 Middle St., Sullivan's Island, at 11:00 am. Interment will be private at Mount Pleasant Memorial Gardens.
Lois was born on March 1, 1936, in Chicago Heights, Illinois, daughter of the late Edward Stanley Herman and the late Gertrude Niemczewski Herman. As the wife of a career naval officer, Lois diligently made a home for her family in each of 18 moves. As a longtime member of Stella Maris Catholic Church, Lois gave her time to St. Vincent de Paul Society, the beautification committee (Weed, Feed, and Seed), and stamp collecting for charities. She will be remembered for the way she loved her family and supported her friends.
Lois is survived by her husband of 68 years, Robert Burke Abele of Mount Pleasant, SC; daughter, Kelly Abele Rose (Edward) of Daniel Island, SC and two grandchildren, Erin Marie Rose and Carter Burke Rose of Charleston, SC. She was preceded in death by her son, Mark Abele.
The family requests that, in lieu of flowers, memorials can be made to St. Vincent de Paul Society, Stella Maris Catholic Church, PO Box 280, Sullivan's Island, SC 29482.
Arrangements are by J. Henry Stuhr, Inc., Mount Pleasant Chapel. A memorial message may be sent to the family on our website at www.jhenry stuhr.com.
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Joe Palisi
January 2, 2026
Condolences Bob on the passing of Lois. Fair winds and following seas.
Jim Baker
December 20, 2025
A lot of great memories of Mrs. Abele while at SPCC; she was always so patient, kind and understanding while I was the aide for Admiral Abele. Thoughts and prayers for the Admiral and his family.
Patricia Truesdell
December 18, 2025
I will certainly miss her smiling face and her quick wit when telling a story. She was so easy to love. Rest well Lois, in God´s house.
Annie B. and Zoran Misic
December 17, 2025
Dear Kelly,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your father. May God´s love bring you and your family comfort and strength.
Love,
Annie B.
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Darlene and Jim Reindl
December 17, 2025
We are so sorry to hear of your sweet mothers passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Darlene and Jim Reindl
Bob & Susie Peiffer
December 17, 2025
Navy wives are a special breed and Lois was no exception. In fact, she was the epitome of a Navy wife and someone who will be missed by all who knew her. May she rest in peace.
william r morris
December 17, 2025
Lois Abele was a wonderful, talented woman who made everyone around her look and feel better ' being able to praise eloquently and making her friends and associates always feel welcomed. She and Bob were the leaders of the Mechanicsburg community for several years ,which my wife Tula and I were able to share, making all of us better citizens and Naval Officers. Bob, the loss of Lois will be hard for both you and Kelli but know that you have my heartfelt condolences on the passing of your wonderful wife. You can be extremely proud of what she was able to accomplish for her country, our Navy and our Supply Corps, in addition to her obvious love for you and your family. Bill Morris
PETER BONDI, Joan Bondi
December 17, 2025
Dear Bob and Kelly and family,
We were surprised to hear of Lois's passing. She was so full of life! She made life fun so many times in our remembrances. A joy to be around! May you be comforted by wonderful memories, and by the love of God. Sixty-eight years!!! Wow! An amazing partnership!
Our love,
Joan and Pete Bondi
Stephen Printz
December 17, 2025
Bob, we are so sorry for your loss! Lois was a wonderful, caring and loving person! We will always remember her beautiful smile! She will be missed!
Don And Libby Hickman
December 17, 2025
Bob and Lois were the perfect example for younger families in the Navy. Lois always had time to help others and was respected and appreciated by all. Bob, we share your grief and our thoughts and prayers are with you and family. Lois will be missed by everyone who had the fortunate opportunity to meet her.
Laureen Ramos
December 17, 2025
I'm so sorry to hear of this loss. May her beautiful memories comfort you. I will keep you and family in my prayers.
Dan and Carol McCarthy
December 17, 2025
Cherishing the love and kindness Lois provided all throughout her time on this earth. It will remain her lasting legacy reflected in all those who had the privilege of knowing her.
John and Kapi Kizer
December 17, 2025
Bob,
Our heartfelt condolences and love to you and your family at your loss. Lois was a wonderful and lovely lady who will be sorely missed by all who knew her. You are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you.
Mark Williams
December 17, 2025
I had the pleasure of knowing Lois and Bob through work around 30 years ago. They were two of the most delightful people I have ever met and I will always remember them most fondly. My prayers for Bob and family in Lois´ passing.
Bill and Grace O'Brien
December 17, 2025
Bob - please accept our condolences on Lois' s passing. We will keep her and you in our prayers.
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