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Katherine Van Deusen "Kitsy" Westmoreland

1927 - 2021

BORN

1927

DIED

2021

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J. Henry Stuhr Downtown Chapel

232 Calhoun Street

Charleston, South Carolina

Katherine Westmoreland Obituary

Katherine "Kitsy" Van Deusen Westmoreland Charleston - Katherine "Kitsy" Van Deusen Westmoreland passed away peacefully on Sunday, June 27 at the age of 94. The widow of the late General William Childs Westmoreland, she was for many years a resident of Charleston, a city both she and her late husband cherished, moving there upon his retirement in 1972. The daughter of Colonel Edwin R. Van Deusen and Kathryn Renalds, she lived as an Army brat moving from Ft. Sill to ROTC at Cornell and places in between. She married William Westmoreland upon his completion of exemplary WWII service in Patton's forces, in 1946. That began her career as a military wife. Her service, kindness and hospitality were legendary. She hosted everyone from West Point cadets to Presidents, and no matter who you were, Kitsy was warm, encouraging and truly interested. Always a sports fan, at West Point she attended matches of every sport, and was often spotted yelling encouragement from the stands. Kitsy worked for the Red Cross in the U.S. and most notably in Asia, where as a Gray Lady, along with her care-giving skills, she made countless flights accompanying wounded soldiers from Vietnam to hospitals in the Philippines. She is the recipient of the Red Cross' Harriman award. Being the wife of an on-the-move officer required many family moves. Kitsy learned to pack, unpack and be gracious to one and all along the way. She made 37 moves during her married life, always carrying family touchstones and favorite things to make each place a home for her family. Her last posting as an army wife was at Fort Myer, where the family reunited and settled into the Commandant's quarters as General Westmoreland assumed his last command, Chief of Staff of the Army. Upon their move to Charleston, Kitsy became involved in education and the arts. She was on the Board of Directors of Converse College, The Gibbes Museum of Art, and the Spoleto Festival. For her work in South Carolina, she was awarded The Order of the Palmetto. Kitsy loved to travel and entertain. She visited China, Vietnam, Russia, Morocco and much of the EU in retirement. Kitsy is survived by her children: Katherine Stevens (Peter Spadone), James Ripley (Susan Sarao) and Margaret Childs; grandchildren: W.T. Weymouth (Kerry), William Westmoreland Richards, Miles Stevens Spadone (Abby), Katherine Richards Westmoreland, Molly Kite Spadone, and Lucio Van Deusen Westmoreland; great-grandchildren: Finnley Cartwright Weymouth, Owen Childs Weymouth, and Ollis Spraugh Spadone; and numerous nieces and nephews. A memorial celebration will be held at Bishop Gadsden Residence. She will be interred at West Point alongside her husband. Arrangements by J. Henry Stuhr, Inc. Downtown Chapel. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at legacy.com/obituaries/charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Jul. 3 to Jul. 4, 2021.

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Edward J. Roell

March 14, 2024

As a brother of a "Vietnam Casualty,"

I wish you well and God-Speed

and

may you be enjoined with "The General" forevermore!

Valencia Rivers

April 1, 2022

My dear friend will always be loved and never forgotten.

Carolyn Thalken

October 14, 2021

Heartfelt condolences from one army spouse to the dear memory of another. Be Thou At Peace, Your Life Has Been Well Done. Wife of class 1983.

Michael McConihe

October 4, 2021

This is mostly for you, Kitsy. Hard to believe that you have been a wonderful part of our family before I was even invented. My Dad had just finished his senior year at Princeton in 1926 where your father Colonel Van Deusen was the commanding officer of the ROTC program on campus. My dad was a member of that program and formed a very strong friendship with "Colonel Van." When you arrived in the world shortly thereafter, my Colonel Van & his wife Kay asked my dad to serve as Kitsy´s godfather, which he proudly did for more than 50 years. Kitsy, and then Westy, would always be present throughout my life on almost every major occasion, no matter where any of us were.

Not too many years later, Kitsy and Westy came to stay at my family´s farmhouse in Potomac and after the second night of visiting, they came to breakfast to let my parents know they were thinking about, oh, no,...getting married. My parents were nearly the first to know and, of course, took full credit for the union.

Finally, when my mom passed away in 2000, Kitsy was in SC when she heard. She was on my doorstep in Washington the next morning to "help out" with all the arrangements and was so sad, we could hardly get anything done. But, as a family, we knew that Kitsy was always there, o matter where she was.

In brief, then, Kitsy has been such an amazing part of my life forever! Lucky me. You may be gone, dear, but you will never be forgotten. I am not sad that you are gone, I am rejoicing that you were such a part of my family´sand my life.

God speed.

John Decker

July 15, 2021

Many condolences to the whole family from Brooklyn

Alice Greely-Nelson

July 6, 2021

Kitsy was a wonderful support and entertained her daughter Margaret and me with wonderful tales and food during our time in Charleston. She was kind and I have many fond memories of her and the family. She will be missed in all her glory.
Love to the family

Ronald Maxim

July 5, 2021

My father, Sgt. Nick Maxim, was Col. Van Deusen's driver on Dec 7th, 1941, when Pearl Harbor was attacked. On many occasions, Dad would drive Kitsy and her friends to various places on the island. He always spoke highly of her, and the Van Deusen family, and the Col. and he stayed in contact up until his passing.
The Maxim family is sorry to hear of Kitsy's passing, as another member of that generation is lost to us all.

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