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Joyce Jeanne "Maye" Smalls

Joyce Jeanne "Maye" Smalls obituary, Charleston, SC

Joyce Smalls Obituary

Joyce Jeanne "Maye" Smalls GOOSE CREEK - Joyce Jeanne "Maye" Smalls, 69, of Goose Creek, entered into eternal rest with the Lord on December 26, 2011. Joyce was born in Newport News, Virginia, in 1942 and raised in Hampton. She was baptized at age 11 and attended the local schools there. For higher education she attended Hampton University and St. Paul's College in Lawrenceville, VA. In the mid 1960s, Joyce relocated to the Charleston area with her brother, Bill. During this time she began her secretarial career at Sanders Clyde Elementary School and Charleston Naval Shipyard, thanks to her future husband, Oscar, whom she met through mutual friends. In 1966 Joyce and Oscar A. Smalls of Charleston were united in Holy Matrimony. Together they raised two children, Oscar, Jr., and Susan. As a young mother, she was determined to assist her family by working as a Tupperware Dealer and World Book Encyclopedia Representative. She also held positions at the Post and Courier and General Electric. In the early 1980s, Joyce returned to the Charleston Naval Shipyard as a secretary in the Sound Lab, where she earned awards for Productivity and Outstanding work. Throughout her 18 years there, she completed courses in American Sign Language and was able to serve as an interpreter for deaf employees. Joyce also held the position of Secretary of South Carolina Interpreters for the Deaf. The rest of Joyce's life was spent serving others. With Jesus, her best friend, as the source of her strength, her mantra was, "I can do all things through Christ, which strengthened me." Philippians 4:13. She used her creative sewing and craft skills to aid family, friends, and others. She was a volunteer with Newborns in Need, and was awarded the Live 5 News Golden Apple Award in 2003, for working with high school students in making baby garments. Developing patterns from scratch, quilting, and embroidery were just a handful of Joyce's talents. Ministering in area nursing homes was dear to Joyce's heart. She always went with a friend or two or more to visit, pray with, and deliver gifts from her sewing and crafts studio. Reading was one of Joyce's pastimes. She was a member of several book clubs. She also enjoyed studying world religions and the teachings of Paul the Apostle. She was a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints for several years, serving as Visiting Teaching Supervisor, Meals Coordinator, and Compassionate Services member. Although a struggling bi-polar patient, Joyce was able to have a husband and family, job, obtained additional education, developed flourishing hobbies, and had a significant activity in the community. Joyce was the daughter of the late Willie H. Maye, Sr. and the late Almeia Corina Maye. She is survived by her loving husband of 45 years, Oscar A. Smalls, Sr., and son Oscar A. Smalls, Jr., of Goose Creek, South Carolina; daughter and son-in-law, Susan and Ricky Freeman of Navarre, Florida; sister, Paula Maye of Richmond, Virginia; brother Willie H. Maye, Jr., of North Charleston, South Carolina; granddaughters, Christina and Ashley; aunts, Julia Thomas of Deland, Florida, and Ernestine Jackson of Knoxville, Tennessee; cousin, Emmert Jackson of Knoxville, Tennessee; "adoptive" son, John H. Smalls, of Charleston, South Carolina; and a host of nieces, grandnieces, and great grandnieces. Funeral services will be held Friday, December 30, 2011, at 11:00 a.m. at Carolina Memorial. Visitation will be at Carolina Memorial on Thursday, December 29, 2011, from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. Arrangements by Carolina Memorial Funeral Home. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at carolinamemorial.com Visit our guestbook at www.postandcourier.com/ deaths

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Dec. 27 to Dec. 28, 2011.

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January 22, 2012

Joyce was a beautiful person. I was blessed to know her.

BJ Eason

January 8, 2012

dear oscar, susan and oscar jr., i am so sorry to hear of joyce's passing. all i could think of when i heard the news was that one of God's "earth" angels had now transformed to one of His "heavenly angels. she was a good co-worker and friend for many years. God bless you and keep you in His care. Sincerely, B.J.Eason

Susan Sonenthal

January 4, 2012

Dear Oscar, Susan and Oscar Jr. and grandchildren,

Losing Joyce is hard on all of us. She was a very intelligent, warm and caring friend and mother. God Bless your family

January 3, 2012

Dearest Susan, I just learned of your mother's passing and am saddened by your loss. My prayers go out to you and your family. I remember your Mom and how thoughtful she was of your friends. God bless you and your family during this very difficult time. Lani Baird (Charleston, SC)

Lois Morris LeBlanc

January 3, 2012

To Paula, Bill ,Jeanne's husband and children:
My love and special wishes are extended to you at this time. It has been many years, but as a childhood neighbor and friend I am very proud of all of Jeanne's accomplishments and regret not keeping in touch.

Lois Morris LeBlanc

Kim Jacobsen

January 1, 2012

Joyce is the most Christ like person I know. Her spirit will be missed by so many people whom she unselfishly served. My goal is to become just like Joyce. I pray God's spirit will bring peace to your hearts as you deal with this
incredible loss. I am a better person because I loved Joyce and was loved by Joyce. Until we meet again dear friend.... Love KIm (Queen)

Marci Samuels

December 29, 2011

Dear Susan,
I am so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. She sounds like a talented, capable woman, just like her daughter. Her gifts and abilities live on in you and your girls. Please accept my deepest sympathy.

getting ready to visit the nursing home 2010

Kathey Brennan

December 29, 2011

Gwendolyn McNeill-Brown

December 29, 2011

Dear Oscar,

I was so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May all your wonderful memories comfort you at this time of grief.

Maleeta Enis

December 28, 2011

I just learned of Joyce'a passing today and want to express my deepest condolences. She was such a lovely person, so loving, and so giving to others. She was an excellent role model and will be missed by all who knew her. I became acquainted with Joyce through my Blankets for Babies project at Stratford HS. She was so patient with the students and was most deserving of her "Golden Apple" award. She was an asset to our community and her passing will leave a definite void in service to others.

Audrey Ham

December 28, 2011

Grief can be so hard during the holidays, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one this holiday season.

Eileen Taylor

December 28, 2011

This world was graced with your generousity and love. Our prayers are with you and may the Lord bring peace to your hearts.

Joel & Priscilla Larkin

December 28, 2011

Dear Oscar and Family! Please accept our heartfelt condolence and expression of sympathy for the passing of your dear mother. May she rest in peace and forever bathe in the light of God's Holiness. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Angie Schwartz

December 28, 2011

I was so sorry to hear that such a wonderful woman is gone from this world. When I spoke with her at the beginning of the month she spoke with such love, respect, and admiration of her family. Joyce was a good friend, compassionate, and loving. She taught me much over our time as friends and i am thankful for her friendship. She will be greatly missed. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Love- Angie and Jeff Schwartz

Kathey Brennan

December 27, 2011

When we went to the nursing home this past week, to bring the gifts she so lovingly made, with the cards she made and had the kids embellish, I knew she was not feeling very well. I am so grateful she allowed us to be a part of her loving ministry. She always referred to herself as our childrens,'black gramma' , but our kids saw no color, she was a wonderful adopted gramma to our kids and a wonderful example of what a friend should be, She was the glue who held so many people togehter, even when she had her 'moments' as she called them, when the bi-polar acted up , but she was honest and true to herself, and was always there for others. My family and I love her and will miss her bunches! Hugs and love to you Joyce, until we meet round in heaven! Kathey, Jim, Siobhan& Josh, Shaina and Shannon

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