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John Brian Flathmann

1974 - 2019

BORN

1974

DIED

2019

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James A. McAlister Cremation

1620 Savannah Highway

Charleston, South Carolina

John Flathmann Obituary

John Brian Flathmann Charleston - John Brian Flathmann, 44, of Charleston, the husband of Jennifer Fox, and a Computer & Mobile Phone Repair Technician with CPR Cell Phone Repair Technician, entered into eternal rest on Monday, January 7, 2019. He was born in Charleston on November 28, 1974, the son of Johnny F. and Doris Varn Flathmann. After graduating from James Island High school, John Brian moved to Kentucky where he went to work on a farm. He loved to work with his hands and felt at peace while operating the large machines on the farm. It was short lived however, because it was during this time that John Brian's courageous battle with Kidney disease began. Through his twenty-year struggle John Brian never lost his sense of humor, demonstrating gracious strength that all who knew him would admire. He was full of love for his family and friends through his entire life but on a cruise to the Bahamas on December 8, 2012, John Brian would meet the love of his life, Jennifer Fox. Over the next year and a half John Brian and Jennifer would fall deeply in love with one another. It may have had something to do with John Brian loving to cook and being able to make the most delicious meals from the most basic ingredients, but we all know it goes much deeper than that. On March 8, 2014, in front of family and friends John Brian and Jennifer committed themselves to one another and for nearly five years they were simply grateful to wake up next to each other every morning. John Brian is survived by his wife, Jennifer Fox of Charleston; his parents John F. "Johnny" and Doris Varn Flathmann of Charleston; his sister, Laurie Capo and her wife Nikki Joyce of Charleston; his uncle, George Varn; his mother-in-law, Susan Fox; special cousins, David and Sharon Branhan and their children; as well as numerous other cousins and friends who are like family. He is also survived by his loving dogs, Charlie Brown and Bentley. John Brian's dog Diesel who was his constant companion and comfort throughout his illness precedes him into eternal rest. The family would like to extend a special thank you to Dr. Blake Weathersby, Kelly Scott Jeffries, Crystal Poole, Lindsey Riollano, and Dr. Sewell Kahn for the outstanding care and compassion they provided to John Brian. The family of John Brian Flathmann invite you to attend his Visitation at 11:00 AM with his Service of Remembrance at 12:30 PM on Saturday, January 12, 2019, at the James A. McAlister Funeral Home, 1620 Savannah Highway, Charleston. The committal will be held privately. Flowers will be accepted or memorial contributions in John Brian's name may be made to the National Kidney Foundation, Finance Department, 30 East 33rd St. New York, NY 10016 or online at www.kidney.org/donation. Arrangements are by James A. McAlister Funerals & Cremation, (843) 766-1365, www.charlestonfunerals.com. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Jan. 9 to Jan. 10, 2019.

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Patty Fulmer

February 19, 2019

Just found out about John today. I wish to express my condolences. Prayers with you and family. Sincerely, Patty Fulmer

Deborah Simons

January 14, 2019

I am so sorry for the loss of your precious son. May God be with you and your family at this sad, sad time...
An old friend,
Deborah Martin Simons

Jeliene Tann

January 14, 2019

I had the pleasure of spending nearly 12 years of my life with John Brian. He saved me and my daughters after my divorce back in 2000. We were a broken family and he filled our lives with kindness, love, and joy. We spent 5 of those years in Michigan and then the remainder in Charleston, SC so he could be closer to his family. I cannot begin to tell you how much he meant to me. He was my best friend, and I loved him dearly. My sincere love and sympathy I am sending to his family and his wife Jennifer. I know your hearts are breaking, but please try to find some comfort in knowing that he was loved by all who knew him. Julie Tann

Basil Ammons

January 12, 2019

John, I did not know your son, but I am sure you loved him very much. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of John. It is always hurts to lose a loved one, especially your child. I know he will be resting with God by his side.
You will remain in our prayers.

Basil Ammons

Bonnie Spivey Saunders

January 12, 2019

Dear Doris and family,
We are very sad to learn of your son, John's, passing. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love you and God Bless. Bill & Bonnie

January 12, 2019

Johnny and Doris, May the peace of the Lord be with you at this time of deep sorrow . . My sincerest condolences to you and your family. Mary Ann Butkus-Baker Tampa, FL

Buddy & Margie Hoffman

January 12, 2019

John & Doris, We are sad to hear about you son's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Doris and the entire family.

January 12, 2019

I was deeply saddened to hear the news. I have know Brian since our early teens. I can truly say I never saw him without a smile on his face. I remember I was doing my nursing clinicals and it had been a hard day. I was struggling with my decision to become a nurse. I saw him with at great big smile and he extended a hug. I realized at that moment that I had to continue my journey to be able help others. I cant even begin to imagine what he has been though since his diagnosis but I truly do admire the courage, strength and zest of life that he had. I will always think of him as the strongest and bravest person i have ever meet. May he Rest In Peace until we are to see that beautiful smile again.
My thoughts and prayers are with his wife, family and friends. May god give you comfort at this very difficult time.

Courtney Bowman

AC GA

January 11, 2019

God is good and merciful, he keep those who pass on in his memory because they are precious to him. Psalms 116:15.

Wayne and Donna Floyd

January 11, 2019

Johnny and Doris,
We are greatly saddened to hear about the loss of your son. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Herbie Flathmann

January 11, 2019

Johnny & Doris,

I am so sadden for the lost of your son. I lost my daughter several years ago, so I know words cannot heal your sadness. May God bless and watch over you both and your family.

Gayle Natichioni

January 11, 2019

So glad we met....
Loved how you loved my pups!!!!!Thank you forever!

January 11, 2019

Doris,

I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Johnny and your whole family as you deal with the grief from losing John. Please accept Betsy's and my condolences and may God help you heal.

Chuck Baker

Marty & Laura Quinn

January 11, 2019

Dear John and Doris our deepest condolences on the loss of your son.

Kay Drummond

January 11, 2019

Jennifer and family,
I was saddened to learn of your husband's passing. Find comfort in the words of his obituary.....it sounds like you both had a great love...
My thoughts are with you.
Sincerely,
Kay Drummond

January 11, 2019

Jennifer, I am so sorry to hear of your sorrow of losing your nice. husband Brian. I always enjoyed seeing you and Brian Christmas Eve at my son Lee and his family's home. Brian was always funny and fun to be around he was such a nice man and you two were a beautiful couple.
God Bless you and give you comfort.

You are in my prayers

Mary Lee Monk Stringer

Rob Fox

January 10, 2019

Johnny and Doris
John Brian was the greatest son-in-law I could have ever wished! He loved and cared unconditionally for my daughter. What a gift a daughter's father could ever experience! I'll miss him.

Edith Howle

January 10, 2019

Dear Johnny and Doris, so sorry to hear about the death of John Brian. He was always a smiling face greeting us Parrot Creek dog walkers on the porch as we walked by and he really loved his dogs as well as his family. He was tough fighter who loved life.

May you find comfort in your great memories of him, Edith & Rick

Carolyn Cauthen Auvil

January 10, 2019

Dear Doris and Johnny, I'm so sorry you have lost your son so young. I think of you often and pray God will comfort you through this time. Carolyn

Alison Sessoms

January 10, 2019

Doris:

I am so sorry to hear of Brian's passing. I cannot imagine how difficult this must be for you and Johnny. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Alison Sessoms

Terri James

January 10, 2019

Doris and Johnny- I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. God received another angel and Brian will no doubt be your forever guardian until you meet again. God Bless. Terri James

Julie Long

January 10, 2019

Doris, I am so sorry to learn of Brians passing. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you all. May you soon find peace in knowing Brian is wrapped in Gods loving arms.

January 10, 2019

Our deepest condolences to Jennifer and family. Unfortunately, I did not have the privilege of knowing Brian, but I have worked with Jennifer for several years. We always shared stories of our spouses and the silly things that they did, but mostly the silly things that we did to them! You will be in our thoughts and prayers through this difficult time. All our best, Scott and Kim Brady

Bill Utsey

January 10, 2019

Johnny, this was such a touching obituary...your son must have been a very special person. Although too young to leave this world, I can tell you were blessed by him and his life. May Godspeed!

Ron Riles

January 9, 2019

Johnny and Doris, I just wanted to say I am sorry to hear that Brian passed away. He will be missed and remembered by many.

Linda Mains Underwood

January 9, 2019

You all are in my prayers and thoughts!

Jodie Williams

January 9, 2019

Rest In Peace my friend!! You will be missed but your kindness will never be forgotten!! We will carry you in our memories, until we meet again!! Keep the chair warm at the card table...dont let Grama B beat you too much!! See you again some day my friend!!♥

Karen Sandoval

January 9, 2019

I am so sorry to hear about Brian and your loss. Johnny and Doris, you and your family have my sincerest condolences. My heart aches for you all. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time. Sending love and prayers to you!

Angela Thompson

January 9, 2019

What do you say about such a wonderful man ... Brian was caring, compassionate, kind and loving. I had the great honor of meeting him when he was 19 years old ... went thru the beginning of his illness till now .... he always kept a smile and tried his hardest to make you laugh and feel comfortable ... I know he is at peace now and I pray for comfort and healing for all of you in the up coming days ... my love, Angela

Joyce and Clark Dowdy

January 9, 2019

So Sorry for your loss we are praying for you and your Family

Marisa Patton

January 9, 2019

Truly the best of people. Weve lost a valued team member and friend. Love to all that knew him, for he always had an impact on everyone he met.

Sandra Muse Williams

January 9, 2019

I sending my prayers for his family so sorry about your loss I met him when I lived in Charleston he was a friendly guy

Robert Carter

January 8, 2019

My most sincere condolences to the family. I hadnt seen Brian in many years but he was a great friend to me and I will always remember him fondly in my heart.

Karen Lucas

January 8, 2019

Our hearts are broken. We are so sorry for the loss of such a special man. All our love and prayers to you Jennifer as well as Johnny, Doris, Laurie, Nikki and Sue. Paul and Karen Lucas

LISA FLATHMANN

January 8, 2019

So sorry for your loss Uncle Johnny and Aunt Doris.Brian was a good person .He will always be in my thoughts .

Kerry Condon - Mellard

January 8, 2019

Im so sorry for your loss. You guys were like family to us. If theres anything you guys need please let us know. We love you guys!!!!

Nikki Truman

January 8, 2019

Farewell my kind friend. You will be missed considerably. It was sure a pleasure getting to know you over the past year. My deepest sympathies to Jen and family during this difficult time.

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