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Joel Hefner Obituary

HEFNER, Joel Joel Clayton Hefner, 66, husband of Evelyn Joyce Hefner, of North Charleston, SC, passed away on Friday, March 7, 2008. The relatives and friends of Mr. Hefner are invited to attend his Funeral Service at J. Henry Stuhr Inc, Mount Pleasant Chapel, 1494 Mathis Ferry Road, on Tuesday, March 11, 2008 at two o'clock. The family will greet friends Monday, March 10, 2008 from six o'clock until eight o'clock. Arrangements by J. HENRY STUHR INC., MOUNT PLEASANT CHAPEL. Mr. Hefner was born August 15, 1941 in Fort Mills, SC, son of Laney C. Hefner and Reverend Bobbie P. Hallman. Joel was a member of Life Christian Assembly. Surviving are his wife; three sons, Joel Douglas Hefner and his wife, Marie of Bonneau Beach, SC, Richard Mark Hefner of Thailand, and Dennis R. Hefner and his wife, Phyllis of Syracuse, NY; daughter, Bobbie Darlene Grillo and her husband, Mark of North Charleston, SC; two brothers, Ted Hallman of Mt. Pleasant, SC and Tim Hallman of Cleveland, TN; sister, Sue Nesmith of West Ashley, SC; and eight grandchildren, Bobby, Jessica, Amanda, Tapagorn, Savannah Marie, Nathaniel, Kathryn and Peter. He was preceded in death by a brother John Haffner, whose wife Vivian survives. Flowers will be accepted. A memorial message may be written to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at www.charleston.net/deaths.

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier on Mar. 9, 2008.

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Tammie Lewis

March 12, 2008

You and your family have
been in our prayers. What a
great lost to humanity to
loose such a warm and
spiritual man. Your dad
left quite a legacy behind.
We have lived life long
enough to know what a burden
every day circumstances can
add to life and weigh a
person down, but that was a
part that your dad never
showed. Focused and
positive inspite of how hard
life was. I will always
remember him with the smile
he embraced everyone he made
eye contact with and be
inspired to share that part
of his legacy - choose to be
happy regardless of what
life throws at you. Love all of you -
Tammie Loetz Lewis

sheila southworth

March 11, 2008

Uncle Joel was a very gentle and kind man. He always had a smile and a big hug for me whenever I saw him. He had a special touch with animals and it seemed like they knew he wouldn't hurt them. He loves his Lord, wife and children and family. I just imagine you singing How Great Thou Art to the Lord now...........

Mark Hefner

March 11, 2008

Memories, its all I have. None recent. I left home at 18 and only went back ever 4 or 5 years. I suppose I am lucky that I don't have any memories of him during the last 4 years. My only memories are of him smiling his country boy smile. He was a kind man. A bit strict as I was growing up but he meant well. It is sad how his life ended. No one should be stripped of their dignity like that. My mom was took care of him as best she could. I am grateful and proud of her strength and dedication to my father. I could only be so lucky to find a woman who would love me as much as she loved my father. Rest in peace dad.
Mark

JB Sinclair

March 10, 2008

Ted and family
Sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my prayers and thoughts.

BRIAN HUDNALL

March 9, 2008

TO THE FAMILY OF MR.HEFNER: I AM DEEPLY SORRY TO HEAR OF JOEL,S PASSING HE WAS A KIND PERSON. I HAD THE OPPERTUNITY OF WORKING TOGETHER WITH JOEL ALTHOUGH WE WORKED FOR SEPERATE COMPANIES, WE WERE STILL FRIENDS AND JOEL HAD THE MOST KINDEST DISPOSITION AND I NEVER HEARD NOTHING BUT KIND WORDS WHEN WE TALKED.WE WOULD SOMETIMES HAVE LUNCH TOGETHER AND TALK ABOUT OR JOBS AND JOEL,S PRESENCE WAS A GIFT. HE WAS A VERY KIND MAN AND MAY GOD BLESS HIM AND HIS FAMILY. BRIAN HUDNALL FEDEX FREIGHT DRIVER

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