Jerell Henneman Obituary

Henneman Family: Jerell was a loving and always caring person to be around...I know that I am wasting my time by reminding you this because you already know. I wasnt very good friends with Jerell like some of the others but he was always someone I could turn to for a good laugh whenever my day was going sour. It would take forever to express my condolences to The Henneman Family at this time of grief so RIP JERELL and I hope to see you again buddy.

Henneman Family,
I know this must be the most difficult time of your life. I just wanted every member of your family to know you are in the thoughts and prayers of my family. Just because our paths changed and we may not see each other as often as we used to, please know the bond our families built as a result of our children is firmly in tact and we would feel blessed to do anything to support your family during this difficult time. Please don't hesitate to contact us if you need anything.
Ray, Temika, Derrick and Kavon

Dear Rob, Phyllis and family:

I can't even begin to fathom all that you must be feeling right now. But I'm glad that you have placed your hearts in God's hands, and I pray you will allow Him to heal you completely. I pray that life will continue to bring you as many precious memories and moments as you had with Jerrell. Take care.

Rob and Family I just wanted to give you a few words of encouragement and thought. I know there are no words to change the way your heart feels at this time but I wanted to give you something from my heart, know that the grieving process alters our personal sense of time in several ways. During the traumatic hours after the death, everything in our other life comes to a halt, and our time stops. It takes a number of days before we realize that, although our world has changed forever, the rest of the world continues its usual operations.

At my daughter's funeral, I was amazed when a friend told me he had to get back to his office. It dawned on me that people were going about their business. The world went on, though my world had ended.
After the service I stood at the grave site, holding a rose from the casket. Time had stopped. My sister came up and said I had to leave because other people wanted to go home.

For the rest of our life, however, the moment of our child's death continues frozen in time. We remember every detail of the event as if it was yesterday, and we continue to mark the chronology of our experiences with that dreadful date. Paul Newman, whose son died of a drug overdose, said that everything in his life was divided into two periods, time before his son died and afterward.

As we continue to mourn, our normal sense of time alters in another way: we mark time carefully. We count the number of months we have lived without joy, since the light of our life has been extinguished.

Part of our altered sense of time arises from knowing that the death of our child also means the death of part of our future. Holidays and family traditions will never be the same. Now we will always remember the birthday of the one who is gone, and the anniversary of her death is forever branded in our heart, marking our time. We mourn not only losses in our own future but the unlived future of our child. When we attend a graduation or a wedding, we ache for our child who was deprived of these rites of passage. How can we attend these ceremonies without feeling victimized?

The way out of victimization I know is this: we must eventually come to see our own mourning process as a personal rite of passage. We are being initiated into a different life with new perspectives. Know that GOD is still there and one day your pain will be less never gone but less. It has been 30 years since my daughters passing. I will continue to pray for you and yours.

Mr. and Mrs. Henneman, I am very sorry to learn of the passing of your son, Jerrell. He will be sorely missed. It was a pleasure and a priviledge to coach a very respectful young man. He will always be a part of the Hanahan Bantam Hawk football family and our hearts will be heavy in the loss of one of our own. God bless you and your family. Coach David

I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you.

I have the privelege of taking care of your Son and meeting your family. His wonderful smile will be always in my menory.My deepest condolences.
Sincerely,
Paula Young, 7East

You are in my thoughts and prayers. I was so sorry to here about Jerell.

My condolences go out to the Henneman family. Jerell was actually in my U.S. History class last year. I didn't know him that well but, I'll sure miss his precious memory, and his loving presence.

The Henneman Family- I am sorry for your loss. Jerell was a wonderful person and I have tons of memories of growing up around him. He will be missed. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jerell you was my lil buddy my homie my friend. I member you as a child growing up and it was crazy. You will trulllyyyy be missssed! I know God has plans and I guess he needed you on his team on June 26th. That was your time. Until I see you again! Watch over us! Ashley you know I love you gurl so You knows I got you! Mrs. Phyliss and Mr. Robert I give my total condolences. Matthew you are my lil bro thanks for letting me splurge on those fireworks. That was the best. You know I'm here too. I got you as well. Well I love you guys!

I am so sorry for your loss. I taught Jerell in the third grade, 13 years ago. I will always remember him as a very special boy.
Sincerely,
Anna Singletary (Rohling)

Our prayers are with you all. Although we know that only God can soothe your broken hearts we hope that your memories of Jerell will bring you comfort. May God Bless and keep you now and always.

I am so sorry to hear of Jerell's passing. If I had seen or heard in time I would have been with you on Thursday. While I only coached him for 1 year of football he was always one of my favorite kids I coached. He was always polite and respectful and I enjoyed seeing him grow into a fine young man and athlete through the years. My deepest condolences.

jerell wil be greatly missed. at least he does not have to suffer anymore. my prayers go out to the family. and just know it WILL get better. it will be a long hard journey. but things eventually will be okay again. mom and shane both send out their prayers also

I will really miss Jerell.. he was my bestfriend.. but we know hes in a better place now... Mr. Henneman and family im here for you guys, if ya need me....

Phyllis, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family for strength from the "true heavy load carrier". May His Blessings keep and cover you all.

You all will remain in my thoughts and prayers during this time of sorrow. May God bless and keep you.

I am so very sorry for your loss. It seems like yesterday that all of us were still in our senior year of highschool and having fun on our senior trip. He was a face that everyone knew and he was such a talented person; a talented athlete. I will pray for you all through this ordeal and may God continue to shed his undeniable blessing upon you. Again God Bless.

- Carl Curnell, Jr.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you on the loss of your son.

Pam, Freddie, Brandon, and Christian Middleton

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

May the Lord offer peace to you and your family.

Mr. and Mrs. Henneman, I am very sorry for the loss of your son Jerell. He will always be in my thoughts and prayers. I really enjoyed spending my time with him during his stay at MUSC. Please let me know if you need anything. god bless- Jessica Graule

So sorry about your son.

To the Family; Your loss is our loss! Family and friends are a comfort during this time of sorry, but God is the soothing power. Jerell was always respectful to us and the friendship that he and Andy had was unshakeable. He was a part of our family. We love him and will miss him dearly. Stay strong with God's arms wrapped around you. Please do not hesitate to call on us for anything you need.

Rob,Phyllis,and the Henneman family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know that if you ever need anything, now or at any time, all you need to do is call.

Mr. and Mrs. Henneman I am so sorry for your loss and cherished everyday that I was able to take care of Jerell. He was very special and my thoughts and prayers are with you both and your family. Please do not hesitate to call the hospital to let us know how you and your family are doing. Please keep in touch.

Rob, You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Our deepest condolences are with you in this difficult time. If there is anything I can do to help; please, let me know.

Henneman Family- I am sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you in this time of need. God Bless you.

Jessica-Holly & Heather's sister

So sorry to hear about the loss of your son Jerell. May God bless,and strengthen you,and your family during this most difficult,and sad time in your life. My thoughts,and prayers are with you.
It will take time to get over Jerell;s passing away,but
it will help ease the pain,and sorrow to remember,and cherish all the good,and happy times spent together with him in the past.
My sincere,and deepest sympathy to you,and your family.

To the Henneman Family, you are in my prayers, my son (Tyrone) was good friends with your son and also teammates during Basketball season a few years ago. Your son will be missed but never forgotten.

So sorry for your loss.

Henneman Family, you are all in our prays as we ask God to give you comfort and hope during this time.

Rob & Family: our thoughts and prayers have been with you the entire time and will remain each day. God bless you and your family. We are here for you.

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Henneman family.

You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

I will miss my little play brother but I know that we will meet again. Although not in sight always in our hearts. GOD BLESS family and friends.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Rob & Family, Our prayers are with you all. We will always love and remember Jerrell, God bless you all and may peace remain with you as you go through these tough times. We love you all.

God bless the family, my prayers go out to all of you.

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Rob & Phyllis, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We want you to know that we are here for you if you need anything at all, we are only a phone call away. We love you guys.