Search by Name

Search by Name

Henry Taylor Finch Jr.

FUNERAL HOME

J. Henry Stuhr Mount Pleasant Chapel

1494 Mathis Ferry Road

Mount Pleasant, South Carolina

Henry Finch Obituary

Henry Taylor Finch, Jr. isle of Palms - Henry Taylor Finch, Jr., "Henry J", 65, of Isle of Palms, husband of Nancy Judson Finch, died Thursday, August 17, 2017. His funeral Mass will be held Friday, August 25, 2017, in the Stella Maris Roman Catholic Church, 1204 Middle Street, Sullivan's Island, at 11:00 am. Interment will be private. The family will receive friends Thursday, August 24, 2017, at J. HENRY STUHR, INC., MT. PLEASANT Chapel, 1494 Mathis Ferry Road, Mount Pleasant, from 6:00 pm until 8:00 pm. Born in Columbia, on January 30, 1952, Henry J was the son of Frances Rodgers Finch and the late Henry Taylor Finch, Sr. The oldest of five children, he spent his early childhood in Dixiana on his grandfather's cattle farm before moving to Columbia in October of 1963. Henry J also enjoyed spending time throughout his childhood with extended family at the family home on Sullivan's Island. He attended Western Carolina University where he played basketball and was a member of Kappa Alpha Order. He graduated from the Baptist College in 1974 with a B.S. in Business and Marketing. Henry J was a retired past owner and president of Wild Dunes Yacht Harbor, Inc., Finch Enterprises, and a captain for McCallister's Towing. He was the former President and Member of the Charleston Restaurant Association and a volunteer for Seafarers Ministry at the Port of Charleston. Henry J, fondly known as Captain Cocktail, had the ability to entertain a crowd and make everyone feel loved and welcomed. He loved his family, especially his beloved grandson, Henner. He will be dearly missed and is survived by his wife of 36 years, Nancy Judson Finch of Isle of Palms; son, Henry Justin Finch (Kara) of Mount Pleasant; daughter, Elizabeth Ann deWees Finch of Mount Pleasant; mother, Frances Rodgers Finch of Mount Pleasant; sisters, Susan Finch Stevens (David) of Isle of Palms, and Nancy Finch Moore Rose of Columbia; brothers, William Rouquie Finch (Susan) of Isle of Palms and Mac Monteith Finch (Lorie) of Huger; and also surviving are numerous cousins, nieces, nephews and their children, as well as a host of good friends who have always looked out for him. He is preceded in death by his father, Henry Taylor Finch, Sr. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Stella Maris Roman Catholic Church, 1204 Middle Street, Sullivan's Island, South Carolina 29482 and the Medical University of South Carolina College of Nursing, 99 Jonathan Lucas Street, Charleston, South Carolina 29425. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Aug. 19 to Aug. 20, 2017.

Memories and Condolences
for Henry Finch

Not sure what to say?





Annette Gable

August 13, 2025

Well Henry it´s been 19and a half years , but I´m finally back in SC. You my friend cross my mind a lot and I still miss you a lot.
Your friend,
Annette

Annette Gable

August 13, 2024

Another year has passed and I still still think of the days at the Marina and Tradewinds. I still miss you my friend.
Annette Gable

Steve Jordan

August 13, 2023

Henry and I were close friends! Played Basketball at Flora and WCU ! I actually helped recruit him ! Sorry so late but wasn't aware of this ! Wonderful man and great athlete! So sorry !

Annette Gable

August 13, 2023

After all these years I still think of Henry J. He was a great friend to me and my daughter. Miss you my friend.
Still living in Texas

Annette Gable

August 13, 2021

Still living in Texas, but still miss Henry J and think of him often. He was a great friend and a joy to work with.

Annette Gable

August 13, 2021

I´m living in Texas now, but I still have fond memories of Henry j. He was a great friend to me and I miss him.

Annette Gable

August 13, 2020

I left South Carolina 14 year’s ago, but I still think of Henry J. Still to think of him not being with us is so sad. ❤

Oscar Monts

September 7, 2017

I knew Henry J from working with him at computer records in the 60s and 70s. We played golf and rode motorcycles together. I was saddened to hear of his passing. My sincere condolences to all

David Jordan

August 29, 2017

Jan and I were sorry to hear about Henry J. I have wonderful memories working with all of the Finch's (including David S.) while building the infrastructure at Wild Dunes. They all were a great group to work with and we all had some good times together. Henry J will be missed.

John L

August 27, 2017

To the family of Henry Finch,

I only came to know Henry during there last three months as I am one of his tenants. He struck as being a compassionate man who held high standards to being friendly and helpful to others. I am saddened by his passing. My thoughts and condolences are with the family and all the many people that Henry helped through out his life.

Ed and Becky Riggs

August 25, 2017

Ed and I grieve with Nancy, Frances and the entire Finch family over the sudden loss of Henry J. He was like a brother to Ed during the ten years he worked for the Finch family and we are grateful for having been a part of the original Beach and Racquet Club/Wild Dunes family all those years.
My family had a longstanding relationship with the Finches as my mother and dad from Columbia were also Henry and Frances. We cherished our friendship and the welcoming reception they gave us when Ed went to work for the resort. Henry J had a heart for all and will be missed by many.
Our love to you all during this sad time.

Elizabeth Bowick

August 25, 2017

I was stunned to hear of Henry's passing,he was paying his condolences to my family just three months ago for my husband who passed after a long illness. Henry and he were close business friends for decades. They had a genuine respect for one another. Henry's faith in the Lord was demonstrated by his kindness and generosity. My prayers for the Finch family.

Barb Edlund

August 24, 2017

Dear Nancy - I was so saddened to read of Henry's death. Please know that you and your family have been and will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I am hugging you through this message! Take care of you - Barb Edlund

Marilyn King

August 24, 2017

Nancy, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Joe Hawk

August 24, 2017

I'm so sorry in hearing about Henry's passing. He was just in my office the other day. He was a very good friend.

Lynda Dixon

August 23, 2017

I have so many fond memories of those early days working and living at Isle Of Palms Beach and Racquet Club with my mother, Shirley Dixon, and my girls, Nicole and Margaret. As the resort grew and changed it's name to Wild Dunes, we early residence had such fun. It was a great place to raise a child. Me and my girls will never forget those times of which Henry "J" played a large role.

Oh my such a stroll down memory lane. Where has the time gone!!!!

My thoughts and prayers remain with the entire family in hopes that your strong faith and fondest memories will bring you comfort.

With love,

Lynda Dixon (Sams)

WF Sullivan

August 23, 2017

I Knew Henry for a short Time ,but He was a wonderful frind RIP WF SULLIVAN

Billy & Brenda Jenkins

August 23, 2017

Always smiling a kind and loving man to all who knew him. Will be missed but
never forgotten.

Cristina Rateb

August 22, 2017

Nancy- my family will be keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers through this incredibly difficult time. My heart breaks for you and wishes you peace and healing as your grieve your husband's passing. Love and hugs- Cristina Rateb and family

Kim and Donnie Pate

August 22, 2017

Our thoughts are with everyone who will miss this remarkable , exemplary man .

August 22, 2017

Nancy I was so sorry to read the notice about Henry. My thoughts are with you and your family during these difficult times.
Deborah Heffley Brooks

August 22, 2017

Nancy, I am so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers coming your way. Marilyn Schaffner

Stuart Hope Jr

August 22, 2017

Thoughts and prayers are with the Finch family in this difficult time. So many great memories with this wonderful family.

MARTHA MOTLEY

August 22, 2017

My thoughts and prayers are with you Nancy and your family.Henry will be missed.

Hewett Lovvorn

August 22, 2017

Thinking of all the great times during my years at Wild Dunes. Henry J will be missed by all who knew him.

Bobby Byrd

August 22, 2017

We light a candle today in loving memory of our KA Brother Henry T. Finch, Jr.
May your light shine perpetual on us and we give thanks for the time we had together. To Nancy, the children and Mother Frances we are thankful for you sharing him with us.

From the WCU KA Brothers.

August 22, 2017

Henry was a great guy and we will miss him. I will always remember when he was running the restaurant. one time ,we were little rowdy and he came over just to talk to us. He was Captain Cocktail "

August 22, 2017

So sorry Nancy. What a loss.
Mary Lee Lavelle

Tommy Young

August 22, 2017

My thoughts and prayers are with all of the family at this time.I have a lot of fond memories of time spent with Henry J.over the years.He will be greatly missed !

Patricia Burgin

August 21, 2017

Nancy and all of the Finch family, I was surprised to hear of Henry's death. My brother-in-law, Tom Horton, lives in Mt. Pleasant and keeps me up to date on folks I knew when I lived there. I worked for Henry many years ago as Tradewinds Hostess. He was a fair and fun boss. I have fond memories of all of you. Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you all during your difficult time of loss. Henry will be missed by many people. May he rest in peace. Pat Colbert Burgin, Clarkesville, GA

Mike Finch Jr MD

August 21, 2017

Nancy J, Justin, Liz, and dear cousins and cousins-in-law,

From the bottom of our hearts, we extend our deepest sympathy for the sudden passing of Henry J. He was my oldest male cousin, and I have great memories of family times with him and all of y'all at the Beach House on Sullivan's Island, and many Thanksgivings together at Butterfield. Henry J was a gentle giant patriarch, who cared greatly for and loved you all, and as of late cared very specially for his mother and sister Nancy. We will all miss him greatly, and know he is now up there in heaven, watching over us with his Dad, my Dad, and Raymon Jr., surely well into a conversation on politics, real estate or the economy by now. We look forward to seeing you all at the visitation.
All our love,

The Mike Finch Jr. Family
(Mike, Jen, Trey, Riley, Clark)

Lynne Nemeth

August 21, 2017

Dear Nancy and family, I am so saddened to hear of Henry's passing. I know you will hold dear the wonderful memories you share of the important times and life lessons learned together. I am thinking of you all and send my deepest condolences on your loss. Hugs and love, Lynne

August 21, 2017

My condolences to the Finch family. The Finch's were great friends to the Watson family, specifically my Aunt Sarah Watson. Keeping you all in my prayers.

Regard,
Mary Watson Board

Stephen Hoffman

August 21, 2017

Nancy & children, my thoughts & prayers are with your family. My 50 years of friendship with Henry enriched my life as Henry did make a big difference in my life many times just by being my friend. Since his passing I'v slept very little, rather I've thought of the special times spent with Henry. He will be truly missed as a great friend. May he Rest In Peace with our lord & watch over his family from above.

Sherry Martschink

August 21, 2017

I was sorry to learn of Henry's passing. What a wonderful and interesting guy!

Leo aka Fishdaddy Yurevich

August 21, 2017

Henry was great friend of me for 25-30 years. I thought he was a very special person who always treated me very well and I am going to miss him a lot.
My sincerest condolences to the entire Finch Family.

Nancy Aroneck

August 21, 2017

I was so sorry to hear of Henry's passing. We were high school friends; he was always so much fun and was so nice to me. My heart is breaking for his family.

Elise and Tommy Bean

August 21, 2017

So sorry to hear of Henry J's passing. Prayers and good thoughts of the many wonderful memories you all have with a man that knew how to live life to the fullest. Love to all.

Jimmy and Jackie and the boys Wear

August 20, 2017

With the love of this family and the relationship of Jackie and I to Henry and Francis, our prayers are with you all, you all have been like family as you know to us.

August 20, 2017

Nancy:
I am so sorry for your loss. I'm sure it has rocked your world. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this this difficult time.
Nancee Sneed

Sallie Boggs

August 20, 2017

Our hearts are grieving, and prayers are extended to everyone in the Finch family. Our sorrow and condolences are beyond words. It is never easy to say goodbye to those we love, especially when the loss is unexpected. Henry J truly was a gentle giant with a huge heart. I will forever see him, in my mind's eye, at The Calypso Bar at Litchfield Inn, in his Hawaiian shirt, enchanting everyone with great stories. Captain Cocktail was loved by many and will be greatly missed. You are all in our prayers, and we will see you on Friday.

Billy ONeal

August 20, 2017

I was 13 years old when Henry loaned me his Suzuki 90 motorcycle, which I promptly wrecked and spent two weeks in the hospital. The wreck bent the frame of the motorcycle. Henry put it between two trees and with a rope and a car, he pulled the frame back straight and continued to ride it. He was never angry at me for wrecking his bike but was just glad I survived. He was a great guy. He will be missed. I am so glad that I was able to see him at the Flora reunions. Many pleasant memories (except for the hospital part) Rest in peace Henry.

Billy O'Neal

Lynda Jackson Denaro

August 20, 2017

Nancy, I am so sorry for your loss!
for you and your family

Julie Hussey

August 20, 2017

Nancy - Thinking of all the love with which you spoke of your husband and sending you my love to you and your family.

sal amalfitano

August 20, 2017

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

August 20, 2017

Nancy, I was so sorry to learn about Henry J's untimely passing. He was such a kind person- I remember him well from the old days at the Beach and Racquet Club and the Yacht Harbor.
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family- Erroll Anne

Annette Gable

August 20, 2017

I light this candle in the memory of Henry J
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family in the loss of your loved one.
May God be with each and everyone of you.

Susan Richards

August 20, 2017

Nancy, please know that my thoughts and prayers are very much with you and your family.

Showing 1 - 49 of 49 results

Make a Donation
in Henry Finch's name

Memorial Events
for Henry Finch

Aug

25

Funeral Mass

11:00 a.m.

Stella Maris Roman Catholic Church

1204 Middle Street, Sullivan's Island, SC 29482

Funeral services provided by:

J. Henry Stuhr Mount Pleasant Chapel

1494 Mathis Ferry Road, Mount Pleasant, SC 29464

How to support Henry's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Henry Finch's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more