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Gerald Ashby "Jay" Black Jr.

Gerald Ashby "Jay" Black Jr. obituary, Charleston, SC

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Gerald Black Obituary

Gerald Ashby "Jay" Black, Jr. Charleston - Gerald Ashby Black, Jr., "Jay", 31, passed away peacefully at home in Charleston, SC, on June 27, 2017. He was born on August 28, 1985, in Charleston, SC. He grew up living in many different places including, NJ, NY, and CA, then returned to North Charleston for high school. He was an Honor Graduate from Fort Dorchester High School in 2004. He was also a member of the National Honor Society. Jay went on to The Citadel where he received a full scholarship for academics. He graduated summa cum laude with a B.S. in Business Administration in 2008. He was a member of Bravo Company. After college, Jay was recruited by Deloitte & Touche in Washington, DC. He began in the Strategy and Operations department. He worked his way up to Senior Consultant, specializing in Homeland Security and Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE). Most recently, Jay was with Grant Thornton LLP as a Senior Consultant, also in Washington, DC, before returning to Charleston. Jay enjoyed ice hockey and watching college football. He loved films, music, and spending time with his family and friends. He was the grandson of the late Mr. and Mrs. Thomas A. Black, Jr., of Charleston, and the late Mr. and Mrs. D.K. Walters of Charleston. Jay is survived by his parents Gerald A. and Judy Walters Black of Charleston, SC, his three sisters, Kristin Black (fiance Jon Miller), Courtney Toporek (Craig Toporek), and Katherine Strickland (Walter Strickland), and six nieces and nephews that he adored. A service will be held Sunday, July 9th, at 2 p.m. at J. HENRY STUHR, INC., WEST ASHLEY CHAPEL, 3360 Glenn McConnell Parkway, Charleston, SC 29414. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to Hospice of Charleston, 4975 LaCross Road Suite 200, North Charleston, SC 20406, in memory of his grandparents. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Jul. 5 to Jul. 6, 2017.

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di Roberts

June 24, 2018

Gerry and Judy, It is hard to believe a year has passed. I have thought of Jay many times , his love of the beach, his beautiful smile. I know your grieving has only just begun, and yet I pray that time is doing some healing. Times like these try our faith. There are so many questions with no answers. God does not always make sense to us mortals. I have had to reestablish myself many times in the Word of God. It is the only true compass. It says His ways are higher, his thoughts wiser than ours. I cling to that. I trust that there is purpose in Jays' passing and that there was purpose in his life. We won't see or know or understand on earth, but theday will come when all things will be made known. This, I
do know, we will meet Jay and all others who received Jesus, again. Until that day, I pray comfort and peace over you, both. Jay would be happiest if he knew you were able to live your life to the fullest in joy and peace. We love you! Dixie

July 18, 2017

Dear Gerry and Judy,
I'm so sorry to hear of Jays passing. May you always have fond thoughts of him. my prayers are with you and your family.

Marty Stevens

Antoinette "AK" Kolesnikov

July 18, 2017

Jerry and Judy, my deepest sympathies to you and the family. Such a sad loss; my heart goes out to you. May wonderful memories of Jay make your hearts light again. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Judi Stanish

July 18, 2017

General Black and Judy. So sorry to hear about Jay. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

July 17, 2017

Gen Black: My sincerest condolences to you and your wife at this most heart rending time. Tom Simm 702 MAS

Leah Schmitt

July 17, 2017

I was so, so sad to hear about Jay's passing. Thinking of you all during this difficult time and sending lots of love.

Maggie and "Flash"...... 732nd AS (RAMS) Koller

July 17, 2017

Col Black and Judy, we were so saddened to hear of your son's passing. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Mark Ables

July 15, 2017

Jerry and Judy, we are so very sorry to hear of this devastating news. Love and prayers from Mark and Nan Ables

Mark Ables

July 15, 2017

Jerry and Judy, we are so very sorry to hear of this devastating news. Love and prayers from Mark and Nan Ables

July 14, 2017

Judy and Jerry, Our hearts are breaking for you. May Jay's wonderful memories live in your hearts forever. Our deepest sympathys are with you. Our love, prayers and hugs go out to you,
Sincerely, Dennis and Jan Fec

Jeff Schmitt

July 13, 2017

Jay and I knew each other as little kids, and although we lost touch over the years, I was deeply saddened to hear of his passing. My thoughts are with his family.

Trish and Nick DeLeo

July 12, 2017

Judy and Gerry,
Even though we have never met Jay personally we know how much you both truly love him and what a wonderful man he had become. We are very sadden to hear of Jay's passing. Our hearts break for you our dear friends. We are here for you. We love you both. Prayers for you and your family.

Tom & Sharon Schmitt

July 10, 2017

Dear Jerry, Judy and Family,

Our hearts are breaking for you and the loss of your sweet Jay. We will always cherish the times he spent with us as a little boy...always smiling. Jay will be remembered by all who knew him as a very special person.

Mike Stampley

July 10, 2017

We are so sorry for your loss. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Mike&Rae Stampley

Caroline Tait

July 9, 2017

Dear Jerry and Judy, The loss of this handsome young man is such a sad event. You are all in my thoughts and prayers for peace and understanding.

Debbie & Jeff Marsh

July 9, 2017

I am so saddened by Jays passing, our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Kathy Hodge

July 9, 2017

We are so saddened to hear of Jay's passing. He was one of Katie's favorite friends. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Don and Kathy Hodge

RANDY AMERSON

July 7, 2017

Gerry and Judy, I am sorry to hear about the passing of Jay. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Grange and David Walters

July 6, 2017

Jerry and Judy,
Grange and I are so distressed to learn of Jay's passing. We were not aware of his illness. There are no words adequate to express or sadness for you.
Warmest regards,
Grange and David

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David Summer

July 6, 2017

I'm very sorry to hear about Jay's passing. He was easily the most genuine of our class, and he was a great friend. I know it's natural as people graduate and part ways to lose touch with someone, but every time I've seen Jay in the last 9 years, our friendship picked up right where it left off. From all of his Bravo '08 family, we will truly miss him. Please let us know if there is anything any of us can do.

Steve and Angela Rosenmeier

July 7, 2017

Gerry and Judy, We are so saddened to hear of Jay's passing. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this time. Praying for comfort and peace.

Karen Bennett

July 7, 2017

LSo very sorry to hear of Jays passing - thoughts and prayers to you

July 7, 2017

You have my deepest condolences. May the God of all comfort give you strength at this time.

Darryl Frazier

July 7, 2017

You all are in our prayers today. May the Lord provide you comfort in this difficult time.

CHUCK KELLY

July 6, 2017

Jerry and Judy, I only just today learned of Jay's passing. I can't find the words to tell you how sorry I am to learn of his passing. This is not the way life is supposed to go. So sorry for this tragic loss to all your family.

JP and Christen Hall

July 6, 2017

Jerry and Judy,
Shocked and saddened to hear about Jay's passing. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us every day.

July 6, 2017

Dear Gerald and Judy,
Madeline and I are very sorry to hear about your sons death.You and Judy are in our prayers.
God bless you both at this sad time.
We will be out of town for the funeral but you are in our thoughts.
Bookie Burns

Cam Love

July 6, 2017

Praying for all of you. May God give you comfort and peace with the memories you have created over his short life.

Russell Catanach

July 6, 2017

Judy, Gerry, I'm so saddened to hear of Jay's passing. Such a tragic loss for everyone. You are in my prayers, and your entire 315th AW family mourns with you.

Bill and Donna Sandler

July 6, 2017

Praying for your family daily. We are so, so sorry. Jay was a delight and our boys - Caleb and Avery Shropshier - loved him dearly.

Mary Garner

July 6, 2017

This candle is from The Garner Family. You will be missed Jay, but forever in our thoughts and prayers.

Karen Parker

July 6, 2017

We are deeply saddened by your loss. Jay had a big heart, kind, giving, and inviting personality. It is truly the mark of wonderful parents. Every bit of my heart goes out to the Black Family during this most difficult time.
We never lose the people we love. They live the rest of our lives with us in our heart. Hold on to your memories, and let them guide you during this time of sadness.

Dixie Roberts

July 5, 2017

Words cannot express the,sorrow and heartbreak on hearing about Jay's passing. Our prayers for comfort and peace have been constant . We will see you Sunday and of course, will be here for anything we can do to help you cope with such a devastating loss. We love you.

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