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Frances Lightsey Obituary

Frances Virginia Hacker Lightsey BRUNSON, SC - Mrs. Frances Virginia Hacker Lightsey, 79, of 435 Hannah Street, Brunson, entered into her state of eternal rest Wednesday evening, December 9, 2009, at Unihealth Post Acute Care of the Lowcountry in Estill following an extended illness. Private funeral services will be conducted from the graveside at Brunson Cemetery. Mrs. Lightsey was born February 21, 1930, in Toledo, Ohio and was a daughter of the late Raymond Hacker and the late Minda Leveda Loy Hacker Lineberry. She was a member of Brunson United Methodist Church. Surviving are: her husband of forty-three years, Mr. Hugh Tuten Lightsey; and two daughters, Martha Logan and her husband James of Summerville and Edna Harrison Crews of Beaufort. There are seven grandchildren, Michelle Lovell and her husband Ron, Tawney Jefferies, Paris Logan, Gene Logan and his wife Laura, Michael Crews and his wife Amy, Louise Crews, and Catherine Crews Rainsford; as well as eleven great-grandchildren and one great-great-grandchild that also survives. In lieu of flowers, the family has requested that a memorial be directed in her memory to the following: Hampton County Community Animal Shelter, 460 Cemetery Road, Varnville, South Carolina 29944; or to, Coastal Community Foundation, for use with their Operations Fund, 90 Mary Street, Charleston, South Carolina 29403; or to, The Salvation Army NHQ, 615 Slaters Lane, Alexandria, Virginia 22314. For those that so desire, memorial messages and thoughts of condolence may be shared with the Lightsey family by visiting: www.briceherndonfuneralhome.com. Arrangements by: THE BRICE W. HERNDON AND SONS FUNERAL HOMES, VARNVILLE-HAMPTON CHAPEL, 1074 Yemassee Highway, Varnville, 803.943.5016. Visit our guestbook at www.postandcourier.com/deaths

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier on Dec. 11, 2009.

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Lisa and Armando DelAguila

December 16, 2009

Mr. Hugh, we had the privledge of meeting you witnessing your love and care of your dear wife and your great love for her at Unihealth and our hearts and prayers are with you. God be with you. Thank you for your kindness to us and our mother.
The DelAguila's

Susan Mixson Cleveland

December 15, 2009

Dearest Mr. Hugh, Edna, and Precious Louise,
You are all in my heart and prayers. What a totally precious lady she was! I remember those pocketbooks that were always so special to her. Fill your own pocketbooks and wallets with all the wondermous memories she brought to each of your lives. Know how much I love all of you...how much I miss seeing you, too. Louise, you are and have always been the daghter I was supposed to have!!Hug Hugh and Edna for me and call me when things settle down. God bless.

Lynn Barnes

December 13, 2009

Mr Hugh, Edna and family.

Please accept my thoughts and prayers for all of you. I remember the wonderful times we all had together while I was attending Columbia College.

Lynn M. Barnes

Norris Williams

December 13, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

LARRY/SALLY WILLIAMS

December 13, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Katherine McClam

December 11, 2009

Dear Hugh & Family,

I am so sorry about the death of Frances. I have such fond memories of our times together long years ago. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Katherine Hicklin McClam

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