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Elizabeth Lacey Obituary

Elizabeth Rembert Lacey Mt. Pleasant - Elizabeth Rembert Lacey found peace on September 29, 2022, after struggling with health issues for several years. She was born in Charleston on April 21, 1941, to Sara Dennis Lacey and Dr. William Henry Lacey. She grew up in Pinopolis, SC, surrounded by her two siblings and the many members of the Dennis family. A life in the country presented her with many adventures. At the age of 12, she was tasked with driving her father to house calls after a long night of caring for his patients. Lacking experience, she drove into the back of a mule drawn wagon carrying a family. Her father tended to the injured occupants and paid a vet to care for the mule! This trait stayed with her as most of her cars had dents and scratches. She loved her horses, Bird, and Lady, and rode at Camp Pinnacle during the summers. She was educated in the Berkeley County school system and graduated from Ashley Hall as a boarder. She was crowned Little Miss Moncks Corner and voted prettiest in her senior class at Ashley Hall. She attended University of South Carolina. Beth married Gaillard T. Dotterer, moved to Charleston, and they raised two sons. She made sure her sons were exposed to every opportunity that Charleston Day School and East Bay playground had to offer. The human construct of time was never a priority for her. Thus, she was usually late, but always showed up. Beth enjoyed the outdoors and spending summers on Wadmalaw Island. She didn't hesitate to take her sons and their friends on the outboard to fish, shrimp and enjoy the beach. She was a member of the French Huguenot Society, the Daughters of the American Revolution, and the Junior League. She loved fashion and was part owner of Stoll's Alley shop and later shared her sense of style working on King Street. Her son loves to share the story about her last job (when she was near 70) which was to greet tourists coming off the first cruise ship in Charleston. She was fired after the first day when she told her supervisor that he was not fit for the job. She loved her grandchildren and took them on many adventures around Charleston and to her mountain house in North Carolina. The adventures with "Bebe" involved Andolini's pizza, getting lost, the aquarium, missing keys, Kickin' Chicken, flat tires, and meeting unusual characters. She always loved talking to new people and was known as a quick-witted conversationalist. She is survived by her sons, Gaillard Townsend Dotterer, Jr (Retta) of Charleston and William Moultrie Dotterer (Betsy) of Richmond, VA and grandchildren Gaillard Townsend Dotterer III (Madelon) of Charleston, Frederick Willcox Dotterer of Georgetown, Sara Riley Dotterer of Dallas, TX, Henrietta Nelson Dotterer of Charleston, and Elizabeth Townsend Dotterer of Richmond, VA. Also, her sister Brailsford Lacey and brother William Henry Lacey III (Ruthie), two nephews: John Sutton and William Lacey & two nieces: Amelia Buchholz and Eliza Magwood. The family would like to thank the many wonderful caregivers at Sandpiper Assisted Living and Regency Hospice. The family will receive friends on Monday, October 10th from 5:00-7:00 pm at the home of Retta and Gilly Dotterer in Mt. Pleasant. There will be a graveside service on Tuesday, October 11th at Saint John's Baptist Church, 1136 Sugar Hill Drive, Pinopolis, SC. Arrangements by J. Henry Stuhr, Inc., Mount Pleasant Chapel. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Callen-Lacey Center for Children in Moncks Corner or the SPCA. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at legacy.com/obituaries/charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Oct. 4 to Oct. 5, 2022.

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Judy cassatt

October 21, 2022

Beth was my BEST friend and chose me as godmother to her son Moultrie.
I look back on our lives with many memories with giggles here and there...especially when we were tour guides many years ago. We didn´t always give the right answers.
I´m sincerely sorry to only learn of this today . I Love you Beth

Tootsie Dennis Kline

October 17, 2022

I am so sad to learn today that my precious friend Beth died recently. We grew up together in Moncks Corner and I have many happy memories of our childhood. I´m of the Dennis Clan in Berkeley County also so we are distantly related. Her father Dr. Lacey took wonderful care of me & my family, at one time after a car accident when I was 18. He did such a skillful stitching job above my right eyebrow that the plastic surgeon I saw a few days later in Charleston said it was perfectly done and needed no additional help from him. My sincere sympathies to Beth´s family. God´s Peace.

Elaine Weston Hixon

October 6, 2022

Gilly and Retta I am so very sorry for your tremendous loss ! May God comfort and strengthen you all during this time . Love , Elaine

Ginny Craver Good

October 6, 2022

Dear Brailsford and Will, and all of Beth´s family,
Beth was always one of those people who lit up a room with her joy and love of life. I am deeply saddened to learn of her passing. So many wonderful memories of Beth and our adventures. Please know that you and all of your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Joe joins me in sending you our deepest sympathy.
Ginny Craver Good

Leigh B Trigg

October 5, 2022

Sending love and prayers to your family. Beautiful obituary!

Betty J Plowden Knippel

October 4, 2022

I remember Beth as one of the prettiest girls when we were at Carolina! Saw her in Charleston again many years ago. So sorry the learn of her passing.

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