Thomas Myers Obituary

I have many occasions to think about Tom and our times together as I walk down paths that we once walked together day-in-and-day-out. Great guy and friend. Sorely missed, but warmly remembered.

I was actually thinking of Tom today (we were classmates at Andover and roommates at Harvard Business School) and reflecting on Tom's impatience with any form of what he called "pretense." This voice, value, and ethical sense resonates with me constantly. We miss Tom greatly, but he is still touching us.

The memories of our many good times together and our enduring friendship have not diminished. He is a friend for life. Mal Salter

I think of Tom often, reflecting on our long friendship over many decades. I miss him greatly.

I was sorry to learn about Tom's death. His life was important to many. Although I did not know him well, years ago I appreciated the compassion and insight that led him to form We Are Family at a time when it was sorely needed by an ignorant public. I admired Tom, and he is the proof that the life a person lives lives on after death.

Tom was my friend and classmate at Phillips Academy, Andover. We were roommates at the Harvard Business School. We knew each other and enjoyed each other for many years. I knew Tom and visited his family in Charleston. Tom knew and visited my family on holidays in Swampscott. I am so sad to hear the news of Tom's passing. He was truly extra-ordinary personbrilliant, warm, self-reflexive, and a man of impeccable personal values. This is a great loss for friends as well as family.
Mal Salter

Tom was one of the first people that I met when I moved to Charleston - a warm, welcoming presence. I was impressed by his passion for justice and support for the LGBTQ community, advocacy that was rare at the time in Charleston. His founding of We Are Family provided a safe haven for many. My sympathy and prayers go out to Debra and his family as they celebrate Tom's life and mourn his passing.

Sorry for your loss. May the GOD of all comfort be with the family at this time of sorrow.

My Dear Debra-Ann: May you yet find peace in your life.

Since we graduated from Andover in 1958, we've seen Tom only during periodic class reunions. In a very few, character developes early. Tom's soundness was apparent immediately and he was respected and admired by all of us. Years later, Tom was of immense help when we learned one our sons was gay. Tom's advise and guidance were invaluable. He truly is one of the good guys!

Our deepest sympathy to Debra, his sister and children. We are saddened by your loss. With compassion,

Debbie and family,
So so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband, father, brother and grandfather. May his memory forever be a blessing to all of you.

Sorry for your loss. may the GOD of all comfort be with the family at this time of sorrow.

Much love for Tom and for his family. Sending you hugs, love and prayers.

My family and I are forever grateful to Tom for founding and supporting We Are Family. I am not sure we would have survived those early years in Charleston without the support it provided us, and the wonderful people we met because of it. We remember Tom, and appreciate his contribution to our world.

Tom was truly a loving and caring person who touched many lives in such positive ways, including my own. I am so thankful for the many years I had the privilege of working for him in Charleston real estate and will always remember his kindness and friendship. My sincere condolences to all of his family.

Debbie,I pray the peace of God keeps your heart and mind through Christ Jesus! Tom was a gentle soul. My sincere condolences.

May you RIP & keep a watchful eye over Deba Zoe. We love you all.

Tom will live on in the hearts of those whose lives he touched. The hope he has given to our LGBTQI youth through We Are Family will be a legacy that will last for generations.

A great Friend. He will be missed....jp

Tom was a caring and generous man and such a loving husband, father, and poppy. A man of true character. He lived a great life and will be sorely missed. My love to Deb, Paulann, Zoe, and the grandchildren.