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Thomas Firouz Motamed

1948 - 2023

Thomas Firouz Motamed obituary, 1948-2023, Charleston, SC

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Thomas Motamed Obituary

Thomas Firouz Motamed KIAWAH ISLAND - Thomas Firouz Motamed, 74, of Kiawah Island, SC, passed away at home with his family on April 19, 2023 following a valiant and courageous battle with brain cancer. "Tommy" was born on December 5, 1948 and grew up in Garden City, NY. As a graduate of Adelphi University in 1971, he was the proud captain of the lacrosse team. He attended Widener University School of Law, graduating in 1975. His successful 31-year career at The Chubb Corporation began in 1977 as a claims trainee in NJ. With an unwavering work ethic, he was promoted through the company and ultimately elected vice chairman and Chief Operating Officer. In 2009 he served as Chief Executive Officer of CNA Financial Corporation, retiring from the insurance industry in 2016. His impact on countless lives will be long-lasting as a leader, mentor, and philanthropist. Tom was a member of the AIG Board of Directors, the Insurance Institute Board of Directors, the Adelphi University Board of Trustees, the World Business Chicago Board of Directors, the Gibbes Museum Board of Directors, and the MUSC Board of Trustees. Usually up before the sun, Tom loved people and was greeted by name at the local bagel shop or dry cleaner. He enjoyed rounds of golf with friends, buying and selling real estate, traveling to places near and far, or simply frying up bacon in the morning for his grandsons. Tom lived each day as a man of humble character who worked tirelessly to provide for his family. He routinely planned gatherings to keep his family connected and made joyful memories with those he loved while keeping everyone laughing. He was a devoted husband, a supportive father, and a loving grandfather; he will be forever missed. Tom is survived by his loving wife of 40 years, Christine; his daughter, Meredith Rymer, and her husband, Tim, and their sons, Ben, Evan, and Nate; his daughter, Kate Miles, and her husband, Quinton, and their son, Jackson; his cousin, Lawrence Thomas; 6 half-brothers and sisters; and his beloved labrador retriever, Deacon. He is predeceased by his parents, Dr. Michael Motamed and Joan Mooney, and his aunt, Dr. Fahimeh Thomas. Services will be held at 2 pm on May 7, 2023, at Grace Church Cathedral, 98 Wentworth Street, Charleston, South Carolina. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to: Duke University, The Preston Robert Tisch Brain Tumor Center. Arrangements by J. Henry Stuhr, Inc., West Ashley Chapel. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at legacy.com/obituaries/charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Apr. 22 to Apr. 23, 2023.

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Dan Motamed

April 18, 2025

It's still surreal that you've passed.

Scott Addis

May 5, 2023

As a broker working hand in hand with Chubb and CNA, I had the opportunity to get to know Tom. Our business relationship turned into a friendship. Tom was a wonderful mentor. His genuine, thoughtful nature and perspectives on life were invaluable. Tom, thank you for all you have done for me. I love and miss you!

Bill Feus

May 2, 2023

I was blessed to have been a part of the same Christian community as Tom and Christine, St. Bartholomew´s Church in Ho-ho-kus, NJ. Tom and Christine on two occasions I remember-perhaps more-to open their home for the parish Christmas open house. After my ordination, I served a church as rector in NJ and the head of the search committee worked at Chubb, and when I told him that I knew Tom from St. Bart´s he said, "You know Tom Motamed?" as if I told him I knew The Beatles! You certainly made an impact for good, Tom. Rest in Peace and Rise in Glory!

Chance Worthington, Steve Shagen, Elmer Lewis

May 1, 2023

Our deepest sympathies to Chris and all of Tom's family on his passing. It was our pleasure to have known him over the last 16 years.

All of us at WSCB will cherish our memories in working with Tom and consider ourselves privileged to have been able to serve him and Chris on many projects over the years - Chance, Steve, Elmer and all at WSCB.

Larry Nicholson

May 1, 2023

Bill and I are just heartbroken and will truly miss Tom. All of our love goes out to Chris and the entire family

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Raymond James Ahlers

April 30, 2023

Tom,
He was my favorite customer, not because he was always buying for a new house project, but because he was kind and made me feel like I was the talent. But it was he, a keen eye for great taste and style. He was humble and complimentary of the things I sold in my shop. Always making sure Chris approved of his purchases-a true gentleman. The world lost a great man. He will be sorely lost and Never forgotten!

Sue Thomas

April 27, 2023

A wonderful man who´s love and compassion stretched worldwide. His family and Deacon meant everything to him. His loss cuts deep with sadness whilst memories of him will always make you smile. So much love..... Sue and the late Bruce Thomas.

Andrew Hurley

April 26, 2023

All my sympathies. Tom was a true and genuine person. I worked for Tom from the onset of my career for the next 18 years. Even helped train Meredith as an intern. He always joked with me that I was the only one that actually made sure she learned something rather then do her an injustice by trying to gain favor with him. Tom was one of only a few that I've highly respected over the years as a boss, mentor and friend. The world has lost a great person but heaven has gained an even greater person!

Robert A. Scott

April 25, 2023

Dear Chris: I was saddened to learn of Tom's death. He was a wise leader and helpful to me at Adelphi. Thinking of you. Bob Scott

Mary Scelba

April 25, 2023

it´s si sad to hear of Tom´s passing. I was the HR Manager in Chubb´s Westchester office when he was the Branch Manager. He was a great boss. Not only was he brilliant but he was funny, kind and compassionate. He truly was the best boss I ever had. To Tom´s family, please accept my sincere condolences. His family was very important to him.

Daniel Motamed

April 24, 2023

Tom, You will be missed forever. Now you can dine at the table with Dr. Mike and Aunt Fay.

Glen S. Jackson

April 24, 2023

Many happy memories of a super gentleman. May your family receive strength through Faith to accept life's greatest reality.... rest now Tom

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