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SPC Stephen Allen Alexander, USA (Ret.) RAVENEL, SC - Entered into eternal rest on Saturday, March 12, 2011, SPC Stephen Allen Alexander, US Army (Ret.), husband of April Smith Alexander. Residence, Ravenel, SC. The relatives and friends of Mr. and Mrs. Stephen Allen Alexander are invited to attend his graveside funeral service with Military Honors, Thursday, March 17, 2011, at 11:00 am in Beaufort National Cemetery. The family will receive friends on Wednesday evening, in J. HENRY STUHR INC., WEST ASHLEY CHAPEL, between 6:00 and 8:00 p.m. Allen was born on February 12, 1984, in Charleston, SC, the son of Stephen Bernard Alexander and Robin Chassereau Dulin. Allen was a retired Specialist from the US Army. He was the recipient of two Purple Hearts and the Iraqi Freedom Medal for his service while supporting Operation Iraqi Freedom. He was of the Episcopalian faith. He is survived by his wife, April Smith Alexander of Ravenel, SC; mother, Robin C. Dulin and her husband, Donald A. Dulin of Charleston, SC; father, Stephen B. Alexander and his wife, Paula Alexander of Summerville, SC; maternal grandmother, Elaine Hill Chassereau of Hollywood, SC; paternal grandfather, Bernard H. Alexander of Ravenel, SC; four sons, Colby, Cullen, Bailey and Dillon; two sisters, Blaine V. Alexander of Charleston, SC and Amber Koval of Summerville, SC; two brothers, Layne Koval and Toby Koval, both of Summerville, SC; four aunts, Mary Lowther, Tara Mellis, Pam Powell and Millie Chassereau. Allen was predeceased by his grandfather, Harry B. Chassereau and his grandmother, Elizabeth A. Alexander. Memorials may be made to the Wounded Warrior Project, PO Box 758516, Topeka, KS 66675-8516. A memorial message may be written to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at www.postandcourier.com/ deaths

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Mar. 14 to Mar. 15, 2011.

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Denise Jade Hlavaty

March 26, 2011

Dearest April: Fate has brought us together once again to support each other through unspeakable loss. You and Allen were so loving and supportive to me after Steve’s passing. Please always know that I am here for you and the boys, and I will do anything I can to help. Best wishes and blessings. Love, Denise

"Unable are the loved to die. For love is immortality."
--Emily Dickinson

Kay and Jervey Morris

March 19, 2011

Robin, we are so sorry to hear of you loss. My heart and prayers go out to you. May God bless you and help you in your time of need.

Barbara Calhoon

March 17, 2011

It is never easy to lose a loved one, but losing someone you love at such a young age is devastating. Remember the good memories of Allen and focus on the positive things he accomplished in his time here or earth.
His smile and laughter were infectious and Terry and i always loved him and his kind treatment of Thomas and Sean.
I am sure Terry was there to greet Allen upon his arrival. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

March 17, 2011

My heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to you. Allen's loss cuts deep into the heart of every Soldier, and for we that knew him it is especially so. May God hold you and keep you to His own in this time of grieving. GarryOwen.

COL Cliff Wheeler, 5-7 Cavalry

March 16, 2011

The world was so blessed to have had such a wonderful man. He will be miss greatly. Love you all, can't wait to see him in heaven! WIth Love, Kat, Kragh, Matthew, Elijah, and Christian

John Thomas

March 16, 2011

Robin, We are so sorry to hear of Allens death. We know this must be so difficult for you. We will pray for the Lord to give you peace and comfort in the days ahead. John & Linda Thomas

Jennifer Wilson

March 16, 2011

Robin, Mary and Nanny, and your entire family, our deepest sympathies. We love all of you so very much! I am so sorry for what you are going through. We will be thinking of you!

Love, The Wilson Family
Jennifer, Geno, Conner, Keelyn and Kenzy

March 16, 2011

Allen was such a wonderful young man, who impressed me so much my his southern gentleman manners; yet so brave fighting for our country that he was awarded two Purple Hearts! I know he's in a better place and will be with his wonderful family again some day. I will pray for his family to recover from this loss with all my heart.

Karen, Jim and Josh Bair

March 15, 2011

From a grateful American familyto the family of one who "GAVE ALL." Our hearts and prayers go out to your family.

March 15, 2011

Allen will always be special to me,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Pat O'Leary

Jim Hill

March 15, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

March 15, 2011

Robin, Elaine, Tara and Mary, Allen was so special to us. When I think of Allen I smile. We were so blessed to know and love him and to know and love each one of you. SPC Allen Alexander will always be in our hearts, Glenda, Elizabeth & Chrissy

Paula Holmes

March 15, 2011

May God bless SPC Alexander's family -- a sincere thank you for your service and sacrifices for our America.

Lois-laney Porter

March 15, 2011

Robin our family sends our prays in your loss of your son. He really gave his life for his country. He was a true proud American. The Porters

Lauren Spooner

March 15, 2011

Allen will be greatly missed! He was such a good natured person with a warm and giving heart. Allen will forever be in the hearts of his friends and family. His family will be in my prayers.

Victoria Grabowski

March 15, 2011

Robin and family, I am at a loss for words, I know that you all will carry wonderful thoughts deep in your hearts and will be strong for the boys.their father was a brave and wonderful role model and will be in everyones hearts forever.Take care, those around you need your strength, you are in my thoughts.

BRANDY PALMER

March 14, 2011

ALLEN, I WILL CHERISH ALL THE FUN TIMES WE SHARED TOGETHER. I'M GLAD I GOT A CHANCE TO HAVE SOMEONE AS SPECIAL AS YOU IN MY LIFE. THANKS FOR BEING A FRIEND.
LOVE ALWAYS,
BRANDY P.

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