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Shellie Anne Barker

1982 - 2022

Shellie Anne Barker obituary, 1982-2022, Charleston, SC

Shellie Barker Obituary

Shellie Anne Kearse Barker Isle of Palms - Shellie Anne Kearse Barker departed this life on September 19, 2022 at the age of 39. She is survived by her husband, Jake, daughter, Rhett, and loyal beagle, Millie. Also surviving are her mother, Victoria Culpepper, grandparents, Sheldon and Joan Girardeau and Chester and June Kearse, and brother, William Kearse. She is predeceased by her father, Jonathan Kearse, brother, also Johnathan Kearse, and grandmother, Ethel Kearse. A native of the lowcountry, Shellie was a product of Colleton Preparatory Academy, the University of South Carolina system, and later the College of Charleston. A devoted wife, loyal friend, loving daughter and granddaughter, and doting mother, Shellie brought enthusiasm and passion to every aspect of her life. She enjoyed everything about being on and around the coast, and loved restoring and living in her family's home on Isle of Palms. She was actively involved with the Daughters of the American Revolution, the Society of First Families of South Carolina, and the Huguenot Society of South Carolina. Before recently becoming a mother, Shellie was known as a skilled painter of puppy portraits, a super-frequent Barre practitioner, and an ultra-ambitious spin-cyclist. She exited this world far too soon, and leaves behind many family members and countless friends who will miss her dearly. She will be laid to rest in a private ceremony being handled by J. Henry Stuhr funeral. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Coastal Conservation League at 131 Spring Street, Charleston SC 29403 or www.coastalconservationleague.org/donate A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at legacy.com/obituaries/charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Sep. 21 to Sep. 22, 2022.

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Debra Jeffcoat

September 24, 2022

Vicki, we are so saddened to hear of Shellies passing. A lot of memories with our girls growing up. My prayers are with you and your family.

Constance Campbell Kern

September 23, 2022

To the Girardeau & Barker Families ~ There are no words for such a profound loss of a young Mother, Wife, Daughter, Sister, Granddaughter, Niece, Cousin and so much more. Shellie was beautiful and accomplished. I am privileged to have known her and all of the Family as a work Colleague. The Kern Family extends heartfelt sympathies. Lean upon Family, Friends and Faith during this time of grief. Much Love & Prayers, Family Kern

Tiffany Barnes

September 23, 2022

Jake, Rhett, Vicki, William, The Girardeaus

I am just heartbroken for all of y´all! I´m so sorry for your loss! Y´all are in my prayers.

Michele Ellison

September 22, 2022

Dearest Jake and family. We are so very sorry to hear of Shellie´s passing. I remember her as a beautiful, gentle soul. May she rest in peace. If we can do anything at all to help you through the difficult times ahead, please reach out to us. We´re all here for you. Love, Dave and Michele Ellison

Karen Hillman

September 21, 2022

Dear Jake,

Please accept my deepest sympathy on your devastating loss. Know that you, your daughter and your families will be in my thoughts and prayers. I am heartbroken to hear this news.

Sending love and prayers for peace,

David´s mom Karen Hillman

Nancy rawl

September 21, 2022

Jake, we are so very sorry for your loss. Please know you and the family are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Clary and Nancy Rawl

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