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Ruth Coyle Obituary

Ruth Califf Coyle Charleston - Ruth Califf Coyle passed away on August 1, 2022, peacefully and surrounded by her loving caregivers at Bishop Gadsden. She was born October 18, 1925 at the family residence on O'hear Avenue in North Charleston, South Carolina to Pauline Eliza Hunter and William Langdon Califf. Ruth was the second of four daughters. She attended North Charleston Elementary School and North Charleston High School (class of 1942). Ruth attended the University of South Carolina, School of Pharmacy, (class of 1944) and was a member of Chi Omega Sorority. Ruth Tindal Califf married Richard Nelson Coyle, a practicing pharmacist, on October 5, 1944. They welcomed Richard Nelson Coyle, Jr. in 1951 and William Califf Coyle in 1952. Ruth worked as a substitute teacher in North Charleston and taught at First Baptist High School. Mrs. Coyle was an esteemed executive assistant for the offices of five Charleston County School Superintendents, where she retired in 1993. An active member of St. Thomas Episcopal Church, Ruth taught Sunday School, served on the Vestry, sang in the Choir, was a Lay Reader and Eucharistic Minister. She was an avid golfer and member of Yeaman's Hall Summer Golf Club and past President of the Arion Society's Ladies Auxiliary. Ruth was the duplicate bridge coordinator and later President of the Myers Hall Residents Association for Bishop Gadsden. She served her church there by singing in the Chapel Choir and was a Lay Reader. She had many dear friends at Bishop Gadsden and will be greatly missed. Ruth is survived by her sons, Richard (Lee) of St. Augustine, Florida and Bill (Mary Jo) Coyle of Beltsville Maryland, her sister, Mary Lena Harper of Mobile, Alabama, her granddaughters, Megan and Carolyn Coyle, her great- grandchildren, Nora and Miles Clifford, (born August 1, 2022, the same day of Ruth's passing), her nephews, Fred Martschink (Linda), Miles Martschink (Beth), Andrew Harper III (Mimi), Ben Harper, Steven Harper (Heather), nieces, Virginia (Jann) Owens (Bud), Patricia (Patsy) Van Pelt, Pauline (Peg) Hughes (David), and Mary Helen Harper (Willie) and many grandnephews and nieces. Ruth Coyle is predeceased by her husband, Richard Nelson Coyle, sister, Virginia (Jinnie) Murray, and sister, Pauline (Polly) Martschink. A funeral service celebrating Ruth's life will be held in the Bishop Gadsden Chapel on Wednesday, August 10, 2022 at 11 a.m., with a reception following the service. The chapel is located on the Bishop Gadsden Campus, 1 Bishop Gadsden Way, James Island, SC, 29412. For more information, please contact Bishop Gadsden at 843-763-3600. Interment will be at Carolina Memorial Gardens. Arrangements by J. Henry Stuhr, Inc. Downtown Chapel. Special thanks to the Bishop Gadsden Caregivers and staff who served Ruth for many years. Jackie Grampus gave so much to Ruth in her times of need over the past seven years. In lieu of flowers, donations in Memory of Ruth C. Coyle can be sent to the Bishop Gadsden Employee Appreciation Fund Charitable Giving Office, Charleston, SC 29412 or to her home church, St. Thomas Episcopal Church, 1150 East Montague Avenue, North Charleston, SC 29405. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at legacy.com/obituaries/charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Aug. 6 to Aug. 7, 2022.

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Roy DeHaven

August 8, 2022

Prayers for the family and many friends Ruth made during her time with us. I am always grateful for her visits with my grandmother,Ruth Califf Schirmer during the years when my grandmother could not speak but enjoyed the visits.

Linda & Jon Womack (Erskine College)

August 7, 2022

Richard...we were sorry to hear of your Mother's passing and hope the sun shines on fond memories of her for you and your family going forward. Our love and prayers are with you.

Greaton Sellers

August 3, 2022

Dear Califf Family,
So sorry to read of Ruth's passing. So many fond memories of family gatherings. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
With Love- Betsy and Greaton

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