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Nancy Kennedy Obituary

Nancy Shay Kennedy Mt. Pleasant - Nancy slipped gently into the arms of the Lord on Thursday morning, November 17, after her battle with pancreatic cancer. She was born on July 26, 1946 in Olean, NY, the first child of Lyone "Buckie" Shay and Madeline "Mickey" Shay, both WW2 Navy veterans. Nancy Carol Shay grew up in the Village of Allegany, NY and attended Allegany Central School from elementary through high school. She graduated from Brockport State University with a degree in early childhood education on June 1, 1968 and married Army Second Lieutenant Frederick J. Kennedy on June 8, 1968. She and Fred lived the Army life for more than twenty years. Wherever Fred was stationed, Nancy found a teaching position. Throughout her life, former students would seek her out to tell how she had influenced their lives. Her smile and positive personality brightened her classroom. It also endeared her to all who knew her. Their first child, Matthew, was born September 5, 1971, at Fort Devens, MA. Their second child, Christopher, was born in Columbus, GA on March 10, 1975. They were the joy of her life. Nancy was a loving wife, sister, mother, aunt, and grandmother. She is predeceased by her parents, and brother, David "John" Shay (Janie). Nancy never had a negative word to say about anyone, and was quick to defend anyone against criticism, with a positive comment. That was her nature. She is survived by her husband, Fred; sons, Matthew Francis Kennedy and Christopher Shay Kennedy (Carrie); brother, Richard Shay (Ann); sister, Toni Stewart (Leroy); granddaughters ,Astrid, Catherine, Akeyla, and Lauren; and many loving nieces and nephews. Her memorial service will be held Wednesday, November 30, 200 in J. Henry Stuhr, Inc., Mt. Pleasant Chapel, 1494 Mathis Ferry Rd., at 2:00 pm. The family will receive friends an hour prior. Funeral and burial services to be held at Arlington National Cemetery on a date to be announced. In lieu of flowers, donations in her name, may be made to the Roper Hospice Cottage, 676 Wando Park Boulevard, Mt Pleasant, SC 29464, or a charity of your choice. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at legacy.com/obituaries/charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Nov. 19 to Nov. 20, 2022.

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Frederick James Kennedy

February 22, 2024

Arlington National Cemetery has scheduled graveside burial service at 11A.M. on Monday, 15 April 2024. Family and friends will meet afterwards from noon until 2P.M. at the adjacent Fort Myer Officers' Club. For details email: [email protected] or text/call: (201)650-9090

Christine Dilkes Cook

December 4, 2022

Deepest condolences to Fred, Matt, Chris and the entire Shay & Kennedy families. Nancy was a cherished friend of our mom and family. She will be greatly missed.

Donna Gray

November 29, 2022

Dear Nancy,
You were a friend and family and travel companion. I admired your strength and courage. I will miss you to the moon and back.

Chip Cook

November 28, 2022

Stalwart wife, mother, and inspirational teacher (in and outside the classroom). Nancy touched many lives. Nancy was always watching and supporting. And always with a smile. Please know my family's thoughts and prayers are with the Kennedy family on this tremendous loss.

Butch and Susie Skiver

November 28, 2022

Fred and family, you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Nancy will be greatly missed! We are so grateful that we were able to visit in February 2020 before everything was shut down. Wish we had more time with her. She was a wonderful, gracious lady that always made us feel welcome.

Heartfelt Condolences Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

Butch and Susie Skiver

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Ron and Michele Clifton

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Ronald W. Clifton

November 28, 2022

Fred please accept our heartfelt condolences. May God Bless you and your family as you deal with the loss of Nancy. So glad we were able to visit with you both and have dinner together when we visited Mt. Pleasant. You are in our prayers.
Ron and Michele Clifton

Luke E. Cassidy

November 26, 2022

Nancy Kennedy was a great person. I have fond memories of her while playing with the boys while stationed at Ft. Monroe VA.

Jad Davis

November 24, 2022

I was a close friend of Nancy´s husband Fred. Both of her sons were outstanding students at Oak Ridge Military Academy where Fred Kennedy and I served. What a great contribution the whole family have left on this planet!

Chris Kennedy

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John & Shirley Malzone

November 22, 2022

Nancy,
May your warm and loving spirit comfort all who loved and admired you.
Auf weidersehen dear friend

Denise Martone

November 21, 2022

My condolences to the Kennedy famil y on the loss of Nancy Kennedy. Nancy always had a big smile and always so cheerful. She will be surely missed.

Susie Staley, Jackson CPA Firm

November 21, 2022

Fred, We were all so sad to hear of your loss. It was always a pleasure to see you and Nancy come into our office. Our prayers are with you and your family as you grieve.

Matt

November 20, 2022

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Matt

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Dottie

November 19, 2022

Nancy was a very special person. She had a positive influence on everyone who knew her. She will be sorely missed!

Robertson James E

November 19, 2022

Thoughts, prayers and condolences to Fred and family and to Rick and Toni. LOVE you all

Chris Kennedy

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