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Jeffrey Barnwell Obituary

Jeffrey Barnwell WADMALAW ISLAND - Jeffrey Allen Barnwell, 46, of Wadmalaw Island, died unexpectedly on Tuesday, July 23, 2013. He leaves behind three sons, Oliver, Wolfgang, and Dean; their mother, Michelle Seay; his mother Bettina Campbell, wife of Lyman Campbell; his father Dr. Grady G. Barnwell, Jr., husband of Judy Barnwell; his brother, Scott Barnwell and sister-in-law, Diana Toledo; aunts and uncles, cousins and countless others who considered Jeff both friend and family. In his short time with us, Jeff lived many lives: as an attorney, a municipal judge, a filmmaker, a chef, a yoga practitioner, a musician, a sailor, a surfer, and a devoted father. A graduate of the University of South Carolina School of Law, American University and the College of Charleston, Jeff was a lifelong pursuer of knowledge. We will miss his free spirit, humor, irreverence and passion for life. A celebration of Jeff's life will be held on Monday, July 29th, 2013, at 6pm at the Circular Congregational Church, 150 Meeting Street, Charleston, SC. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Jul. 25 to Jul. 26, 2013.

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Jan Lawrence

July 19, 2021

Thinking of you today, Glen. So sorry for your loss. I will always treasure our fun times in Puerto Rico and the Virgin Islands sailing with your boys. Those are great memories. I know you have many
more. Take good care of yourself and my best to Scott as well. Jan

lee avinger

December 27, 2013

I am deeply saddened by this. I moved out of the East Cooper area four years ago, and lost touch with him...i have known him for years...I am crying now. I can not believe that such a vibrabt soul has been taken way before time..My deepest heartfelt sympathy to his wife and children...

Gordon "Dal" Schreck

August 26, 2013

Have been traveling in Europe this summer and just learned the tragic news of Jeff's untimely passing. I got to know Jeff these last few years through his interest in maritime law and, more particularly, his membership in the Francis Drake Admiralty Inn of Court at the Charleston School of Law. He possessed not only a keen and inquiring legal mind, but a wonderfully engaging personality to go along with it, a rare combination in our profession. We have an Inn of Court dinner scheduled for September 5, and we will take that opportunity to raise a glass to Jeff's memory. Our sincere condolences and prayers go out to his family.

hildur schmidt

August 15, 2013

Dear Michelle and boys, We are so very sorry for your loss. No words can express the shock and sadness we feel for you and yours at Jeffs untimely passing. It was always such a pleasure to spend time with you when we lived in charleston. Our thoughts will be with you. Love, Hildur and Bill Schmidt...and boys

Ned Hettinger

August 14, 2013

Jeff was a student and advisee of mine at the College of Charleston years ago. He did a wonderful research project on John Muir. We once took him to the hospital after he hurt his leg skiing in West Virginia. I am very sorry I did not get a chance to catch up with him in recent years. He was a first rate young man when I knew him.

Heather Stonebraker-Hewson

August 7, 2013

Dear Michelle and Family,
I was so sad to hear of Jeff's premature passing. You are in my thoughts. I will never forget the time he took my parents and their friends for a nice sail on his boat in the harbor-lots of laughs! I am so glad I was able to catch up with him recently before heading out west for the summer. His spirit will never be forgotten!

Kat Hendrix

August 2, 2013

Michelle,
Just so sad to hear this news! Know that I am holding you and the boys in my heart and wishing you peace.
Hugs -
Kat

August 2, 2013

Sorry to hear about the death of such a young colleague. Billy Grimball

Lois and Pat Seay

August 2, 2013

Michelle,
You and the boys will persevere. We love you and are thinking about you in these trying times. So sorry for the boys loss of their father.

Kerri Costa

July 31, 2013

I knew Jeff from the College of Charleston. He was a dear friend and we made many memories together. Jeff will dearly missed.

Phyllis Burkhard

July 31, 2013

I'm so sorry to hear of Jeff's death! I enjoyed knowing him and working with him to find his first legal job when he was a student at USC School of Law. My condolences to his family.

Kellie McLain

July 29, 2013

We are all thinking of your family during this time of grief and Sophie sends Dean a special hug.
The McLains

July 29, 2013

May God Bless and comfort Jeff's family during their sorrow.

Hugh Wilder

July 29, 2013

I'm deeply saddened to hear of Jeff's death. He was my student at the College of Charleston - a wonderful student - and we became friends later. All my sympathy to his family.

David Yarborough, Jr.

July 29, 2013

Dr. Barnwell, Michelle and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Jeff was a good friend who I admired and will always remember for his intelligence, humor, kindness, and his infectious smile. My heart goes out to his lovely boys and your family.

Rosetta Swinton

July 29, 2013

Wolfgang I am thinking and praying for you and your family. I would be with you all tomorrow but I am away but my prayers and thoughts are with you all. God bless.

Rosetta Swinton

July 29, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Marty and Jenifer

July 28, 2013

Jeff, my friend, you embrace and engage the Mystery with a wildly open heart and impish enthusiasm! It seemed every conversation skirted the edges of the rabbit's hole. And when time allowed you were always ready to plunge in with a twinkle in your eye. The answers never mattered as much as the questions. And "why" was never so much an inquiry as an invitation.
And so too it is upon your departure. We don't get to know why it has to be like this. We just get to know that the Light radiates a little brighter and warmer in our hearts today for having traversed part of this grand journey with your timeless spirit. Shine on Jeff!
Forever in Oneness,
Marty and Jenifer

Terry Poteat

July 28, 2013

There are no good-byes, where ever you'll be, you'll be in my heart.
Mahatma Gandhi

Geneva Lyda Everett

July 28, 2013

We were saddened to hear of Jeffrey's untimely death. My sisters, brother and I attended Barnwell Baptist Church as children where "Butch" and Franklin would come in the summer to help on the farm.

July 28, 2013

Jeff Barnwell was a kind & caring soul. I was privileged to know him through my son & daughter, Clif & Brooke Hawkins. Clif & Jeff shared a love of surfing; Brooke & Jeff shared the love of life. One of the last times I saw Jeff was
at Brooke's funeral. Clif asked me to please stand in for him & Brooke's spirit at the celebration of Jeff's life. I will be there.
My heart goes out to his family & friends.

Much love, Susu Baldwin

Sue Noblitt

July 27, 2013

our heartfelt sympathy for the family . We all are so saddened by his passing . Great memories of him and his family coming to Barnwell Church at Homecoming. Much love from Henry and Clara Mae Lyda family.

marie pelzer

July 27, 2013

So , so very sad. Jeff will be missed by many.

Terry Monell

July 27, 2013

Just a few conversations at yoga classes about his wonderful family was enough for me to feel the loss of Jeff's beautiful pure spirit. I admired how he moved through the world with grace, open and available. Most certainly an angel among us, I'm glad to have known him even a little. Sending love and light to his treasured family.

Jason Kronsberg

July 27, 2013

Jeff, so many roads you have traveled. It was good to see you again brother. I know you are making the room brighter wherever you are.

Eden Fonvielle

July 27, 2013

I am so sad . Jeff was such a bright star in this world . He will be sorely missed . My thoughts are with his family and many friends . With love and light ....

Rick Stringer

July 27, 2013

Very very saddened to learn of my friend Jeff's passing.

David & Donna Myer

July 27, 2013

What a sad thing for Jeff to die so young. We knew him from Circular Church and although we now live in Texas part of the year, the church notified us of his passing. He lives on in those his life touched - and may all his family find God's comfort and grace as they live these difficult days and months.

July 26, 2013

Farewell dear friend.
Sincere condolences upon Jeff's untimely passing.
May the love Jeff left behind remain woven into the lives of his loved ones.

Keri Bailey

July 26, 2013

Jeff always had a warm smile and a kind word to say. He genuinely cared about people and always wanted to know how you were doing. I remember being amazed at all the many careers he had and his zest for life. He was so proud of his boys! The world will miss such a wonderful person and my heart and condolences go out to his family.

Elizabeth Toledo & Jeff Lynn

July 26, 2013

So sorry to hear the very sad news. Our thoughts are with Jeff's family and many friends.

Bob and Nancy Stacey

July 26, 2013

Love to all the family in this sudden departure of Jeff. Thinking of you, Bob and Nancy Stacey

July 26, 2013

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Pat Harpell

July 26, 2013

My deepest condolences to his family and loved ones. Jeff is a Light, and he will always shine. May his boys find eventual solace in the knowledge of their Dad's continuing Love.

July 26, 2013

What a great loss. My heart goes out to his boys and Family. I have known Jeff for 30 years! What an amazing journey he's had and with great accomplishments! I feel honored to have known him and feel so fortunate to have spent an evening with him not long ago just catching up on our lives! He was so dedicated to his children! You will be missed on this earth Jeffrey. I hope your next journey finds you free and at peace! With love,
Samantha Kay Fishback

July 26, 2013

Doctor Barnwell, we are sorry to hear about Jeff.
Faye and Jack Dunn

Mark Hutchinson

July 26, 2013

So very sorry to hear the news of his passing!! The Hutchinson family.

Lily & Shun Ling

July 26, 2013

Our deepest sympathy to the Barnwell family. So very sorry for your loss.. Praying for your family...thinking of you always.

Bethany Goodier

July 26, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

July 26, 2013

Jeff. Enjoy the next wave brother.
Pete

Stevie Cooper

July 26, 2013

Jeff had a warm heart and an uplifting smile. He was always upbeat, outgoing and loved to just sit and chat. Despite life's pressures he always made time to ask, "so whats going on with you," and he really wanted to know. I will remember him as a good friend, a confidante and tenacious advocate. My heart goes out to his family.

Rhonda Tapley

July 26, 2013

I am so very sad to hear of Jeff's passing. I loved him dearly. The world lost great person!!

Jimmy Stuckey

July 26, 2013

What a great guy and a credit to our legal profession, and such sad news. Jeff was always so upbeat,sparkling, and a joy to be around and to work with. His loss is a loss to us all.

Joe Brockington

July 26, 2013

We will all deeply miss Jeff, who touched us all with his caring for his family, friends, and clients. We will feel his impact for the rest of our lives.

Frank McGowan

July 26, 2013

I am so sorry for your family's loss. You have my deepest condolences.

Yuri Koslen

July 26, 2013

I didn't know Jeffrey, but he sounds so much like his amazing brother Scott. Our world can't afford to loose wonderful humans like Jeffrey. My family's hearts go out to the Barnwells. Lots of Love in this difficult time.

Jo Cannon

July 26, 2013

Glenn,
I am very saddened to learn of Jeff's passing in today's paper. He lived a huge life in a short time. I have good memories of the Barnwell family back to 1983. Jo

2 Corinthians 1:3, 4

July 26, 2013

My deepest sympathy to the Barnwell family. May the God of all comfort, comfort you during this most difficult time.

Cathy C

July 26, 2013

Truley will miss seeing you- You always had wise advice for me-- Prayers sent to your Family

Susan Cass

July 26, 2013

Jeff, you will be missed! My heart goes out to his family during this challenging time. What a shock to hear of his passing. I will always remember Jeff's questioning, analytic mind, his passion for surfing and music, his deep love for his three beautiful sons, and his dedication to his spiritual growth through kundalini yoga and meditation. In the years I practiced yoga with him, I never heard him say a negative word about anyone. Fly free, my friend, until we meet again.

Thomas Pritchard

July 26, 2013

Jeff was a wonderful, kind-hearted guy with a gentle spirit. He was also a strong advocate for his clients and friends alike. He will be missed. I am sorry I will be out of town and unable to attend the celebration of his life on Monday. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Bev Gottschalk

July 26, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. I knew Jeff as a friend and client at my salon. He was always so kind and spoke so highly of his family and sons. He was a proud father and I know his sons will miss him. During the 20 years that I knew him, he went through many stages in his life and was always concerned about others. I will miss his smiling face. Bev,

July 26, 2013

Very sorry for evveryone's loss. Jeff dated my step-daughter, Laird, for a number of years. His father taught me at the Naval Hospital. We spent many a Thanksgiving and Christmas together. He was my atty. also. He will be deeply missed by many.
Leslie Hubbard Pelzer, M.D.

Jan Lawrence (Johnson)

July 25, 2013

Glen, my heart breaks for you and your family. How tragic and sad. I have great memories of time on the boat with Jeff and Scott in the Caribbean.Shun let me know this sad news. I have let our other friends know. We are praying for all of you. Peace my friend.

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