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Carlton Julian Poulnot Jr.

1937 - 2019

BORN

1937

DIED

2019

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J. Henry Stuhr Mount Pleasant Chapel

1494 Mathis Ferry Road

Mount Pleasant, South Carolina

Carlton Poulnot Obituary

Carlton Julian Poulnot, Jr. Mt. Pleasant - Carlton Julian Poulnot, Jr., 81, of Mount Pleasant, South Carolina, husband of Donna McCay Poulnot, died peacefully at home surrounded by his family on Wednesday, January 23, 2019. His funeral service will be held Tuesday, January 29, 2019, at St. Matthew's Lutheran Church (where he was a member), 405 King Street, Charleston, SC, at 2:00 pm. His ashes will be scattered at the National Navy UDT-Seal Museum in Fort Pierce, Florida, during their annual Veteran's Day Sunrise Service. The family will receive friends on Monday, January 28, 2019, at J. Henry Stuhr, INC. Chapel, 1494 Mathis Ferry Road, Mount Pleasant, SC, from 5:00 until 7:00 pm. Carlton was born July 17, 1937, in Charleston, South Carolina, son of the late Carlton Julian Poulnot and the late Hazel Gilbert Poulnot. He graduated from the University of South Carolina with a Bachelor of Science degree in Civil Engineering and was a member of the USC Letterman's Club. Carlton was then commissioned into the United States Navy. He served in the Navy Underwater Demolition Team 21 from May 1959 until June 1967 when under the Kennedy Administration it was reclassified as the Navy Seals. He served as a member of Seal Team 4. Using his engineering degree, he worked in the gas department at SCE&G, was the City Engineer for the City of Charleston, and was VP of Landscape Pavers Limited. As an entrepreneur, he was part owner of Mt. Pleasant Jiffy Lube, Atlantic Boat Chandlers, Ashley Yachts, and Carolina Yacht Services. Following his love of sailing and boating, he was a marine surveyor, yacht broker, and delivery/charter captain as well as a recreational sailboat racer, from ocean racing to remote controlled model sailboats. Carlton was a Past Commodore of Charleston Yacht Club and Charleston Cruising Club. He was a member of Charleston Yacht Club, Hobcaw Yacht Club, CORA, the Arion Society, the German Friendly Society, and Charleston Rifle Club. His public service included a term on Mt. Pleasant Town Council. He is survived by his wife of 59 years, Donna Poulnot of Mt. Pleasant; daughter, Carla Kinnett (Van) of Isle of Palms; son, Kirk Poulnot (Betsy) of Mt. Pleasant; brother, Capers Poulnot (Sandra) of Mt. Pleasant; granddaughters, Christine Kinnett, Caroline Kinnett, Ashley P. Salvo (Robert), Kelly P. Kumar (Karan), Katherine Poulnot; great-grandchildren, Patrick and Magdalena Salvo, Rowen Kumar; and his beloved beagle, Belle. Carlton was beloved husband to Donna, respected "Dad" to his children , devoted "Bubba" to his grandchildren , and "special friend" to his acquaintances. His family thanks the staffs of Ralph H. Johnson VA Medical Center and Lutheran Hospice for their incredible care. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to St. Matthew's Lutheran Church, 405 King Street, Charleston, SC 29403; Lutheran Hospice, 1885 Rifle Range Road, Suite 46, Mt. Pleasant, SC 29464 or the Navy SEAL Foundation, 1619 D Street, Virginia Beach, VA 23459; or the church or charity of your choice. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Jan. 25 to Jan. 26, 2019.

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Ruthanne Currier

April 3, 2019

Carlton was a special person. Only knew him a short time. He was so upbeat for all he was going thru. I feel blessed that I got a chance to have met him.

Richard Hamilton

March 1, 2019

So sorry to hear, I had been meaning to get in touch since my return to MtP. Carlton was a very nice man to work with. Mrs. Poulnot, Kirk and Carla my thoughts are with you.

Dotty & Larry Workman

February 1, 2019

To Donna and all of the family.
Dotty and I enjoyed the time spent at the ChYC , eating, drinking & sailing, and recently sailing at the Pond in our Soiling RC boats. Carlton was a great person and we will miss him.

January 31, 2019

To the Poulnot family: Carlton was a friend and confidant when we both worked for the City of Charleston, City Hall. WE discussed many ideas together, and had a great relationship. At the time, City Hall was a great place to work with all the city hall employees; especially working for Mayor Palmer Gillard. He worked in the Engineers office, and I was the Purchasing Agent, right across the hall on the first floor. What a fine person to work with. The entire Poulnot family can be very proud of Carlton and the life he lead. With deepest respect, Bert Zidlick.

Mike Schwartz

January 30, 2019

Ginny and my deepest sympathies go to Carlton's family members, especially to Donna, in the loss of this fine man. We got to know Carlton when he brokered our boat 10 years ago. We later had the pleasure of meeting others in his family during several camping outings. We've always enjoyed his many stories, most quite humorous, and he seemed to have one for every occasion. What an accomplished man he was! He showed me, in our numerous conversations during his illness and treatments that, while he fought hard, he showed exceptional strength and accepted his fate with grace and positiveness that we can only wish we can have when our times come. My God's grace comfort all of his family as they both grieve and celebrate his life.

Love, Mike and Ginny Schwartz

Michael Bonnoitt

January 29, 2019

My prayers are with the Poulnot family. Carlton was always an inviting and wonderful guy to me.

Lisa King

January 29, 2019

Dear Carla,

My sincerest sympathy to you and your entire family! Hold on to the beautiful memories. Always, Lisa Shine Steed King :)

Carlton 2018

Priscilla Parker

January 28, 2019

Van Kinnett, Carlton and Kristine Nov 2018

Priscilla Parker

January 28, 2019

Carlton & Donna 2017

Priscilla Parker

January 28, 2019

Christmas 2015 at ChYC

Priscilla Parker

January 28, 2019

Christmas 2017 at ChYC

Priscilla Parker

January 28, 2019

Ed Arrington Arrington

January 28, 2019

Donna, I'm sorry that I didn't get to know Carlton longer than I did. He helped me on the purchase of my last boat which I truly appreciate. He struck me as the epitome of a true gentleman. Please accept deepest sympathies from Bridget and I for you and your whole family. He will be greatly missed.

Dallas Shealy

January 28, 2019

Donna and Carla: I am so very sorry to learn about Carlton's death. I will never forget the fun afternoon my husband and I got to spend on his boat! He was so kind and generous! Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Karen Able

January 28, 2019

From the moment we met you, we were enamored with your beautiful, warm spirit. Thank you for letting us be a part of your family's life for nearly 40 years. We will miss you very much.

Karen and Patrick Able and family

Sherry Martschink

January 28, 2019

Donna and entire Poulnot family, You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I truly valued Carlton's friendship and enjoyed knowing, working & worshiping with y'all. Carlton helped me so very much. God's peace to you now and always.

January 27, 2019

Donna, it has been a long time since we have seen each other. I am so sorry to hear about Carlton's death. My husband is in this age range too. We spent a lot of time together in our work with the Jaycees and Jaycee-ettes. Please take care of yourself. Prayers are with you and your family. Love, Irene

Chris Sosnowski

January 27, 2019

Dear Carla, Kirk and family,
I was so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. I'm glad various circumstances, including sailing, resulted in a nice friendship between us. He always greeted me kindly, and was good for. a joke or two. The sailing community has lost another good one, but Heaven's sailing team just got a lot better.

Jeff Irvine

January 27, 2019

As a somewhat new HYC member, I had the good fortune of getting to know Carlton while on the board. His love for the club and passion for sailing were such a beautiful thing. Thoughts and prayers to the family.

Rick Hennigar

January 26, 2019

Donna, our sincere condolences to you and the entire family. Carlton was always a pleasure to speak and compete with on the water or land. Hobcaw grieves. Our best. Les & Rick

Oliver Wood

January 26, 2019

Carlton and I were in the USC NROTC class of 1959. We were commissioned on May 29. Carlton then had an outstanding naval career. He was a SEAL before they were officially called SEALS. He had the respect of everyone in the unit. A great student and member of the swim team. His family can take great pride that Carlton excelled in everything. Shipmate, fair winds and following seas.

Oliver Wood

January 26, 2019

Carlton and I were in the USC NROTC class of 1959. There were only 15 of us commissioned on May 29. Carlton was an excellent student and midshipman. He had the respect of everyone in the unit. Carlton had an outstanding Naval career. He was a SEAL before there were officially called SEALS. Carlton also had a great civilian career. His family can take pride in knowing he excelled at everything. Fair winds and following seas, shipmate!

Jack Schlosser

January 26, 2019

I send my condolences to Kirk and the rest of his family. Carlton gave me my first job outside of the military back in the 1970's and I worked for him for many years. I will not be able to attend the service but I'll leave my number in case you would like to talk. (843)-754-8839

On a trip the Seal Museum.

Cal Huge

January 26, 2019

Thanks for the help, memories and friendship over the past 30 years. I will miss you. Blessings forever.

Buddy Puckhaber

January 26, 2019

My dear friend Carlton Poulnot died Wednesday, January 23, 2019 after a long battle with cancer. He never gave up. I have many fond memories of Carlton from past years.

There was the time he owned an old wooden life boat, he had a well installed to accommodate an outboard motor. We would take it to the jetties to fish. One day we decided to take it offshore, we were caught in a rain storm. I remember him sitting in the stern, tiller in one hand, Boy Scout compass in the other, rain dripping off his chin. I was huddled in the bow, seeking protection.

Then in the Bahamas. He and his family were aboard RHUMB RUNNER, my family and I were aboard RAINBOW. We cruised the islands. On one occasion I towed the dinghy over the shallows, Carlton, his son Kirk, and my son George hung on to the dinghy with face masks and snorkels in place. When they saw conchs they would shout, let loose and dive. I would circle around and they would drop the conchs in the dinghy, hang on, and we would proceed until they dove again. After an afternoon of diving they climbed into the dinghy and rested as I headed back to the anchorage. Carlton was delivering a lecture to the boys. I could tell by his hand motions, but I can only guess what the subject was. A great, memorable day.

Then there was the time in Charleston Harbor when we took four Lutheran Pastors out for an afternoon sail. Another great time on a sailboat.

Rest in Peace, Carlton. You will be missed.

Beth Kearns Litchfield

January 26, 2019

Thoughts and prayers are with your family

January 26, 2019

Thoughts and prayers. Peace. Nell Postell

Roy DeHaven

January 25, 2019

Prayers for the family and friends of Carlton. He was a true fighter but found ways to work with everybody. He is missed as a regular 8:30 Church member at St. Matthews where he served the Church and congregation. The community was made better by his efforts.

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Visitation

5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

J. Henry Stuhr Mount Pleasant Chapel

1494 Mathis Ferry Road, Mount Pleasant, SC

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2:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m.

St. Matthew's Lutheran Church

405 King Street, Charleston, SC

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1494 Mathis Ferry Road, Mount Pleasant, SC 29464

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