Name: Funeral service for Bertram Carlos "Buddy" Finch III M.D.
Start: 2023-03-30T14:00:00.000Z
End: 2023-03-30T15:00:00.000Z
Location: First (Scots) Presbyterian Church

Bertram "Buddy" Carlos Finch III, M.D. MT. PLEASANT - Bertram "Buddy" Carlos Finch III, M.D., 78, of Mt. Pleasant, South Carolina, husband of Justine Blow Finch, entered into eternal rest on Wednesday, March 22, 2023. His Memorial Service will be held Thursday, March 30, 2023, in First (Scots) Presbyterian Church, 53 Meeting Street, Charleston, at 2:00 in the afternoon. The family will receive friends after the service in Molly Weir Fellowship Hall. Interment will be private. The oldest of five children, Buddy was born January 17, 1945. He was the son of the late Bertram Carlos Finch, Jr. and the late Dorothy Falls Finch. Buddy was born in Spartanburg, South Carolina, while his father was interned as a POW during World War II. After his father returned to the United States, the family moved to Charlotte, where Buddy spent his formative years. In 1963, he graduated from Myers Park High School where he played football and was a member of the Student Council, Hi-Y, Key Club, and National Honor Society. Buddy attended Davidson College after high school and graduated in 1967 with a BS in PreMed. He entered the University of North Carolina School of Medicine and earned an MD degree in 1971. Although Buddy was attracted to several medical specialties, he embraced Obstetrics and Gynecology. One week after earning his medical degree from UNC, Buddy married Justine Blow from Smithfield, North Carolina. They moved to Charleston, where Buddy continued his training with a one-year general medical internship and a four-year OB-GYN residency under the leadership of Dr. Lawrence Hester at the Medical University of South Carolina. During residency, many enduring bonds were formed with other doctors who were experiencing the same grueling hours and challenges. Throughout his life, Buddy cherished friendships and camaraderie with these fellow physicians. After residency, Buddy's deferred military service was activated by the United States Army Medical Corps. He served two years as a Major in Wurzburg, Germany. After deciding to make Charleston their permanent home, Buddy and Justine returned from Germany in 1978 with two daughters, Kathryn Leigh Finch and Justine Lindsay Finch. Buddy joined Dr. Fraser Wilson and Dr. Watson Finger in their private OB-GYN practice. He later joined Dr. Edward Huggins and practiced with Dr. James Townsend, Dr. Granger Osborne, and others during his 36 years as a dedicated Obstetrics and Gynecology physician in the Charleston community. Buddy Finch was honest, kind, and trustworthy with a quick wit and a warm smile. Foremost, he was a family man, always prioritizing his experiences with his daughters and wife over other events or obligations. He was an active member of First (Scots) Presbyterian Church, where he served as a Deacon and an Elder. Buddy enjoyed exploring the waterways and surrounding islands near Charleston while sailing and motorboating. He also was privileged to join a group that spent multiple years of fellowship and fly fishing in Alaska. Buddy's favorite vacations were bareboating with his family in tropical destinations. For the last 14 years, he was proud of his new name, Pop, as he became a grandfather to two boys and two girls. He loved to visit them in Charlotte and California. Buddy is survived by his wife of 51 years, Justine; two daughters: Kathryn Finch Mileham, M.D. (Dunn) of Charlotte, NC and Justine Lindsay Trout (Carter) of San Mateo, CA; four grandchildren: Wells and Cooper Mileham and Ella and Charlotte Trout; one sister, Melinda Finch Adkins (Chuck) of Charlotte, NC; two brothers: David Ralls Finch (Eddie Lynn) of Charlotte, NC and William Douglas Finch (Cathy) of Pensacola, FL; brother-in-law, Gordon Lowry Blow (Wanda) of Smithfield, NC; and numerous nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his sister, Susan Finch Caskey. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to First (Scots) Presbyterian Church, 53 Meeting St., Charleston, SC 29401. Arrangements by J. Henry Stuhr, Inc. Downtown Chapel. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at legacy.com/obituaries/charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Mar. 25 to Mar. 26, 2023.

Memories and Condolences
for Bertram Finch

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16 Entries

LeAndria

March 18, 2025

In loving memory of a wonderful person. Always had a smile and a joke to make you laugh. You are surely missed.

Deborah Gantt Vice

April 15, 2023

Dr Finch was my Ob/Gyn doctor until he retired. You couldn´t have asked for a nicer doctor. Bedside manners were awesome. Just learned of his death as my daughter whom he delivered is in St. Francis Hospital about to deliver her baby. He delivered her and did my Hysterectomy. I loved him as my doctor. Mrs Finch he loved his family . Everytime I visited his office he talked about the girls. You have my deepest condolences. Just know that earth has no sorrow that heaven can´t heal. Will keep your family in prayer that the Lord will strengthen you all in this. RIP Dr. Finch with the Lord.

Ralph Principe

April 4, 2023

Rest in piece my friend.

Staci B

March 30, 2023

Dr Finch delivered my first baby, almost 11 years ago. It was a Friday afternoon/evening & he just stayed around in the room with us chatting about boating and UNC. The next day he called directly to the room to see if I needed anything and tell me about what time he´d be by. He went above & beyond to take care of me. I´m so sorry for your loss.

Allyson Moring

March 30, 2023

Dr. Buddy was my OBGYN for 30 years of my life. He was the kindest, gentlest doctor. My first labor began after he had finished a long day at the hospital. He saw that I came in and he stayed to deliver her! He always made me feel special and important!

Cindy Plavney

March 28, 2023

I worked with Dr. Finch as a new nurse in Labor and Delivery at Roper Hospital from 1982 to 1985 and then I worked for him in his Calhoun Street Office from 1985 to 1991. He was an awesome Physician to work with and for. He was always happy and treated his patients with the utmost care and respect. I know that he will be greatly missed by his family and loved ones. May God Bless you all in this difficult time.

Phyllis Mixson

March 27, 2023

So sorry to hear of Dr. Finch's passing. He was my GYN for close to 30 years. I hated to see him retire. He had the best personality and bedside manner. Always kind and caring and taking the time needed for his patients. My deepest condolences to his family. I know he will be greatly missed.

Leticia Brinkley

March 27, 2023

Dr. Finch was such a nice man and I enjoyed working with him. May the Lord uplift his family with comfort and strength. Such a great Dr.

LeAndria

March 27, 2023

This is so sad to hear. Dr. Finch was an awesome physician and such a great person. It was had to have bad day when you were in his presence. I was fortunate to have him as a part of my care team. I offer my condolences to his family and loved ones. I pray that God gives you peace that surpasses all understanding.

LeAndria (patient)

Karen C Lexington SC

March 27, 2023

Dr. Finch was awesome. He delivered both my girls and did my hysterectomy. Loved his bedside manner and personality. He always took time with his patients and always showed true compassion. Deepest sympathy to his wife and family. RIP Dr. Finch

Charlene Kennedy

March 26, 2023

Dr. Finch was my OB-GYN after Dr. Wilson retired. Dr. Finch always made me feel comfortable during my visits with him. He was an awesome doctor! Deepest sympathy to his wife and family! Rest in Peace Dr. Finch!

Emily Watts

March 26, 2023

Dr. Finch was my GYN for many years. He was kind, always made me feel comfortable, and always reassuring. I was sad when he retired, and I'm sad now - but I know I'll see him again - May God comfort you, his loving family -. Dr. Finch was loved by many people. He will always be remembered. "Rest in peace, Dr. Finch"...

Sandra Stone

March 26, 2023

My heart goes out to the family. Dr. Finch was my doctor from 1979 until he retired. He helped bring my 3 children into the world as well as my 2 grandsons. He was the best. He had a wonderful personality and a great since of humor. When he walked into the exam room, he made you feel as if you were the most important person there. He took the time to answer questions and explain in simple terms so when you walked out you felt heard and cared for. Our loss is Heaven´s gain.

Bette Hester

March 26, 2023

Dear Justine,
I am sorry for your loss. I remember how pleased my husband, Lawrence, was when Buddy decided to do his residency in Ob/Gyn with him. I also remember what an attractive, young couple you were and visiting you in Wurtzburg, Germany.
When Lawrence retired we moved to the mountains (Highlands, NC) but September 2021 on my 100 birthday I moved back to Mt. Pleasant. I am now at The Palms.
Am sure you have many happy memories to help you in the days ahead.
With love always, Bette Hester

Tracey Lewis

March 26, 2023

Dr. Finch was my first GYN when I was a nervous teenager. He was just the most sweet, gentle doctor. I went to him for many years. He will be sadly missed. Sending love and prayers to his family.

M. Elaine Proctor

March 26, 2023

Mrs. Finch and Family, I was so sorry to read of Dr. Finch´s passing. Have you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. May God Bless.

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