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Spencer Barker Obituary
AIKEN - Spencer Thomas Barker, 16, passed away Monday, January 7, 2019.
Spencer was born in Southern Pines, NC, and had been living in Aiken with his father for the last three years. He was a junior at South Aiken High School. Spencer thought of everyone else first and he led with his incredible personality and love for his friends and family. When Spencer walked into a room, everyone knew it and his quirky sense of humor left most shaking their heads. He found laughter in places in life when no one else did...he insisted on it! He was incredibly talented and smart and perfected most everything that he decided he was going to learn, from musical instruments to sports and anything that challenged his mind.
Spencer grew up in Seven Lakes, NC, where he remained close friends with a group that he looked forward to reuniting with any time he could. Spencer's sense of adventure kept him on the go trying to find more, but at the same time he loved the comfort of the man cave that he proudly called his own and routinely show off to his Aiken friends. Like an angel, he touched people in his own specific way so that everyone he touched is better for knowing him. Spencer was one of a kind!
Spencer is survived by his parents, Ted (Jennifer) Barker of Aiken and Kym Copeland Barker of Maggie Valley, NC, a sister, Jordan Myers; brothers, Teddy Barker, Mitchell Myers; paternal grandparents, Jan and Thomas Barker of Aiken; maternal grandmother, Nancy Copeland, of Waynesville, NC; aunt and uncles, Nikki Copeland, Thomas Barker, Jr., and Tracy VanDenheuvel.
In lieu of flowers, please direct memorials to the Aiken County Animal Shelter, 333 Wire Road, Aiken 29801.
The family will receive friends to celebrate Spencer's life from 5:00-7:00 PM Thursday, January 10, 2018 at SHELLHOUSE-RIVERS FUNERAL HOME, INC., 715 E. PINE LOG RD., AIKEN, SC
Spencer's online guest book may be signed at www.shellhouseriversfuneralhome.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Spencer Barker
Robin Maddox
January 3, 2025
Loved forever ~ Never forgotten. Until we meet again...Robin
Jayden
February 5, 2023
I miss being a kid in seven lakes with you bro, i miss you so much. Still cant find a way to shake the pain. I love you dude, i cant wait to see you there. -Jayden R
Virginia Dedreux
September 7, 2020
Kym and family. So,so sorry for your lost. Spencer was one of the most loving, caring, funny and lovable boys I have ever met. I only just found out about lost. I grieve with you, but he is in paradise now. You will see his smiling face again!
Robin Maddox
January 13, 2019
To all who know and love Spencer ~ In your grief, may you find peace and strength in God's love and promise of eternal life. Spencer, you are not gone, for we carry you in our hearts always.
January 12, 2019
I'm so sorry for your loss. As you remember your love one, may your treasured memories and Almighty God bring peace and comfort to your broken hearts. (Psalm 147:3)
Maria Flores
January 11, 2019
Jen, so sad with the news on your son's passing. May the Lord Jesus strength and give you all the peace you need at this time of sorrow. Love you. Maria Flores and family
January 10, 2019
We are so sorry for your loss. Prayers sent
Tim and Dru Downie
January 10, 2019
We are praying for your family during this very sad time.
January 10, 2019
Oh my, we are so sorry to hear this tragic news. Our hearts cry for you. Please know that we send our love and condolences for the loss of this beautiful boy You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Shirley and Norman Barr
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Love and prayer for all.
John
January 10, 2019
To you the family, I am sorry to hear the news about your loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn" sustain your family during this challenging time. Isaiah 61:1,2
Stephanie Prandy
January 9, 2019
So very sorry for your loss. Prayers for comfort during this difficult time.
Michael and Stephanie Prandy
Fatima Mancilla
January 9, 2019
Spencer you might be gone but we will remember you from our hearts ♥you were a such a great student and you were such a gentleman and u in a better place now we will always have u in our heart ♥ I will always remember that Great smile that will always make everyone smile ~from a sahs student that will always have u in her heart
Mark, Celine and Alec Mitchell
January 9, 2019
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Alec always enjoyed spending time with Spencer and he will always remember engaging in deep conversations. Spencer will not be forgotten.
Sheila Hass
January 9, 2019
Praying for your family. I am Peytons Grandmother and even though i never meet Spencer , Peyton loved spending time with his buddy and the family. God bless and comfort all of you .
Jaron Halstead
January 9, 2019
I'm really sorry for your loss, I didn't know Spencer much, but his personality was amazing, he seemed to make so many people smile, including me! R.I.P Spencer, you were a amazing kid.
Loretta Breasseale
January 9, 2019
RIP Spencer. You were loved. My condolences to your family
A J
January 9, 2019
My deepest condolences to the family on your loss. The death of a family member,especially a young one, can be very heartbreaking. May cherished memories of Spencer comfort your hearts during this time of great sorrow and pain. Take comfort in knowing that God understands your grief and he cares for you. (1 Peter 5:6,7)
Stacey Bledsoe
January 9, 2019
So sorry for your tragic loss. My niece Lia has been a good friend of Spencer. May God provide you all with comfort and peace during this time. Deepest sympathy.
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