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Mary Grace Murff Schilling
AIKEN - Mary Grace Murff Schilling, 79, passed away at Aiken Regional Medical Center on August 11, 2017. A native of Nashville, Tennessee, Mary Grace was a graduate of West End High School and Vanderbilt University, where she received a bachelors degree in psychology. She earned her masters degree in psychology from Fisk University and later, a masters + 30 from University of South Carolina. She was a school psychologist with Nashville Metro and Lexington I school district, retiring in 1998. In addition, she was a beauty queen having won several contests - most notably Miss Nashville High School in 1955 and Vanderbilt's Miss Commodore during her college years. Mary Grace long championed civil rights causes from early childhood. She was charitable to a fault and kind to a friend. She was also an excellent amateur artist and was engaged in the antique business in Columbia and Charleston South Carolina.
Mary Grace is survived by her husband, Frank Schilling of Aiken; sons Dan Clayton of Columbia and Gates McNeilly of Atlanta; a sister Janice Struchen of Nashville; two nieces, Jenni Murff of Gatlinburg and Lindy Murff of Ashland City; a cousin, Carol Murff Stump of Naples, Florida; and close friend, Tricia Ulch of Prosperity, South Carolina.
Arrangements are with Hatcher Funeral Home, Langley, South Carolina. A memorial service will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers the family requests donations be made to the Lewy Body Dementia Association.

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Published by Aiken Standard and North Augusta Star on Aug. 15, 2017.

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CARSON & POLLY BARNES

August 10, 2024

THANK YOU FOR LOVE AND GOOD LIFE SHARED WITH OUR DEAR FRIEND FRANK XOX

BARNES FAMILY

August 13, 2022

FRANK ENJOYN YOUR GREAT MEMORES OF A GREAT LADY LOVE YOU POLLY& CARSON

BARNES FAMILY

August 12, 2021

MAY PEACE ND GODSPEED CONTNUE
AND KNOW FRANK IS OK XOXO

CARSON BARNES

November 26, 2020

Thank you MARY for your many great years of inspiration and love for my good friend Frank - who adored you GODSPEED

Carson Barnes

August 11, 2019

So many miss you very much but know we are looking after your dear BUTCH! XO Carson & Polly

Carson & Polly Barnes

August 28, 2017

Our sympathy to Frank for his loss and blessings for his loving care of Mary Grace. Frank- We rejoice that you have so many precious memories of your life together.

Whit Stokes

August 25, 2017

A wonderful friend from high school and college. There are no words to describe what a delightful person she was to know.

August 25, 2017

Mary Grace was such a sweet and amazingly beautiful girl and I will always remember her that way. Rest in peace beautiful angel.

Roger Marks

KELLEY

August 17, 2017

MAY THE THOUGHT OF KNOWING THAT FAMILY AND FRIENDS SHARE IN YOUR GRIEF BRING YOU A MEASURE OF COMFORT.PLEASE READ PROV 17:17

Christina Austin

August 15, 2017

My lovely,beautiful, smart,intelligent godmother. May you sleep in eternal peace and watch over all of is left here on Earth! Gone from the physical but always in the hearts of many! I love you god mom! Please watch over dad!

Gaye Brady

August 15, 2017

She was one classy lady. We have you in our prayers Frank.

Keller Jones

August 15, 2017

All of my heartfelt sympathy, Frank. Fly high, Mary Grace; fly high! I look forward to meeting you on the other side.

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