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Carol Staniszewski Obituary

Carol A. Staniszewski
AIKEN - Carol A. Staniszewski, 72, beloved wife of John T. Staniszewski, Jr., died suddenly, Friday, March 9, 2018 at Aiken Regional Medical Centers.
A native of Chicago, IL, Carol was a daughter of the late Leonard G. and Bernice Mikos Babin. She lived in Paw Paw, MI from age 6 until moving to Aiken in 1989. Carol worked as a teacher's assistant for 42 years, first in Paw Paw, MI and the last 27 years working with special needs students at Silver Bluff High School in Aiken County. She volunteered as a "ticket taker" at the Silver Bluff football games for the last 27 years until her retirement last year. Carol was a communicant of St. Mary Help of Christians Catholic Church.
Survivors, in addition to her husband John, include her daughter, Heather Staniszewski; her son, Kevin Staniszewski (Ellyn); three grandchildren, Duncan John Staniszewski, Rooker Sims Staniszewski, Charleston Adair Staniszewski, all of Aiken; two sisters, Kathy Sutton, Maumee, OH, Mary Arbanas, Paw Paw, MI and her dog, Bruster. In attrition to her parents, she was preceded in death by a sister, Deborah Babin and a brother, James Babin.
The family will receive friends Wednesday evening, March 14th from 6 until 8 o'clock at Shellhouse - Rivers Funeral Home. The Rosary will be recited at 7:30.
A Requium Mass will be celebrated Thursday morning, March 15th at 11 o'clock at St. Mary Help of Christians on Park Avenue. Interment will follow in Southlawn Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be directed to St. Mary Help of Christians School, 118 York St., SE, Aiken, SC 29801 or to Aiken SPCA Albrecht Center for Animal Welfare (www.letlovelive.com).
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Published by Aiken Standard and North Augusta Star on Mar. 11, 2018.

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Heather Staniszewski

March 9, 2025

I can´t believe it´s been 7 years since you passed away.

Alesia Jones

March 5, 2021

Hi Heather I didn't know your mother personally but with the way you spoke of her I felt like I knew her. Seeing a picture of her smiling let's me know that she was kind and caring. So I know she is looking down with that beautiful smile on her family, friends and student. Keep enjoying the memories you shared with your mother.

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Valerie New March 10, 2018

April 10, 2018

Heather, Heartfelt thoughts go out to you and your family in this time of sorrow. I'm thinking of you, your dad, Kevin & Ellyn, Dune, Rooker, Charlie and Bruster in this moment of pain. Your mom was such a beautiful person, inside and out. I just know she and my dad are up in Heaven talking Silver Bluff memories right now. I'm sending love to you all.
Love, Valerie

Maggie Mikos March 10, 2018

April 10, 2018

So sorry for your loss. Love always.

Felicia Washington March 10, 2018

April 10, 2018

Sorry for your loss Heather!

Steve & Tammie Cheek March 10, 2018

April 10, 2018

So sorry to hear of your loss. Your family are in our prayers.

Kim Coleman Sybil Altman March 10, 2018

April 10, 2018

Heather: We are shocked and so sad to hear about Carol.
SOOO sorry for you and the rest of your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. If we can do anything please let us know. Kim and Sybil

Schonta Gay- Randolph March 10, 2018

April 10, 2018

Heather, because of the love Mrs. Staniszewski ALWAYS showed me and my children, you can always know that I am here for you at any time. Thank you for sharing her with us.

Mrs. Felicia Johnson March 10, 2018

April 10, 2018

I send up prayers for the family. You all have my deepest condolences and I pray God gives all you comfort, strength and peace during this time and afterwards.

Angie Squires March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

My thoughts and prayers are with Mrs. Carol family and friends. She was a awesome teacher with my daughter having her in her classroom. She always had a smile on her face.

Anna Worth March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

I am very sorry for your loss. She was a very special person.

Kevin Staniszewski March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

Thanks to all of you for keeping our family in your thoughts and prayers. My Mom had one of the biggest hearts of any person you would have ever met. It's ironic that this is what ultimately caused her death. She so loved not only my children but all the kids she worked with over the years. The world lost a great Wife, Mom, Grandma, Sister and Teacher this weekend.

Susan Steinberg March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

Heather....what a shock to open the paper this morning and see your mother's name! I am so glad that I have had the opportunity to meet her. Though you feel a tremendous void at this time, that void will soon fill with all of the wonderful memories that cannot be taken away from you...they will be with you always. May your mother's memory be a blessing. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you. Sincerely, Susan Steinberg

Mavis Conolly March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

I was shocked and saddened to hear of Carol's passing. As Carol was growing up in Paw Paw, she didn't live far from me and played in our yard often with all the neighborhood kids. We have exchanged Christmas cards all these years and I would try to see her when she was in Paw Paw. We were planning to have lunch in July when she was going to be in Paw Paw. My heart goes out to her family...........she loved all of you so much!

Mavis Conolly March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

I was shocked and saddened to hear of Carol's passing.
As Carol was growing up in Paw Paw, she didn't live far from me and played in our yard often with all the neighborhood kids. We have exchanged Christmas cards

Marilyn Lhamon March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

Sorry for your loss she was a special friend I watch her kids grow up

Elsa Corsi March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

John, Heather, Kevin, and all the beautiful grandchildren
of Carol's family. I'm shocked and saddened to hear of
Carol"s passing! I've always loved her happy face and
smile whenever I got to see or visit with her, she truly
had a huge heart for not only family but for everyone!
Carol at one time was briefly my SIL, we shared happy conversations many years ago that I will cherish. May God keep her in His loving hands to eternally RIP!

Onnie Poe March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

Heather, You and your family have my deepest and most heart-felt sympathy. I'm praying that you are able to find some peace during this difficult time.

Clarke and Pat Rieck March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

John , our prayers and condolences go out to you and the family. She will be missed by everyone who knew her. Love to all, Clarke & Pat

Jim and Linda Miller March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

Johnny and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with
you. We are so sad, everyone loved Carol. She saw good in everyone and every situation. Her laugh was contagious. As they say, God only takes the best. Love, Linda, Jim and family.

Dave Miller March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

Im so sorry for your loss we all loved your
mom.Thoughts and prayers for the family.

Marlow and Sandy Zigler March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

John, Heather, Kevin and Family, Mary, and Kathy, We
are so sorry for your loss. Our deepest and most heartfelt sympathy are with you during your time of sorrow. Loving thoughts and prayers are coming to you from OBX. Marlow and Sandy

Phillip Kiinard March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

JOHN,HEATHER & KEVIN, I was so saddened to read that you all had lost Mrs CAROL. She will be greatly missed by all that knew her. She was a wonderful wife,mother,teacher and friend. you are all in my prayers during this difficult time. GOD BLESS YOU ALL & GOD SPEED MRS. CAROL

Sue Kruizenga March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

So sorry for your loss. I worked with Carol in the Paw Paw concession stand for years. Thoughts and prayers to your family.

Jim & Barb Alden March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

Our thoughts & prayers are with you as your memories become treasures.

Jon & Teresa Imus March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

Our deepest sympathy to John, Heather and Kevin, so many happy memories of Carol and you all, you are in our prayers.

Ken Goodwin March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

John, Kevin and Heather. I am so sorry to hear this. Thoughts and prayers for all of you.

Greg and Linda Brown March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

Mrs.carol was a wonderful person.she worked with my kids She will be dearly missed by all.there will never be another special person or teacher. She truely loved what she did. We will always miss you.RIP

Yolanda Danforth and Family March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

Sorry to hear of your loss. We'll lift you and family in our hearts and prayers!

Erik Hindenach March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

Kevin/Heather/John - I am so sorry to hear this. You are all in our prayers.

Jan Wert March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

Carol was a joy to know. Always kind to everyone. Blessings to her loving family. She was both fun and funny. So sorry for your loss.

Judy Merrill March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

Heather, Kevin, John and the rest of the family and friends: I was shocked to see that Carol has passed away. She was such a friendly, loving person, and I know she is going to be greatly missed. May your good memories, the Word of God and the support of others help bring you comfort and peace during these difficult days of grief and sadness. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Pam Hayball March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

Carol was one of a kind. She was one of the sweetest, kindest and sincere... person I have ever met. She did not have one mean bone in her body. She always welcomed
everyone with such hospitality. She wasn't just being cordial she was being sincere. She would always greet you with a big smile and kind words. She was a true treasure to her family. I can only imagine how much they will miss her. You are in my prays. So sorry for your loss. The Hayball Family

Christie Duff March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

Heather and family I'm so very sorry for your loss my prayers are with you.

John and Sandy Martin March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Carol was a kind and dear friend devoted to family and friends. Please accept our deepest condolences.

Tom Kudela March 11, 2018

April 10, 2018

My deepest condolences to you and your family, John. Friend, neighbor and schoolmate--Tom.

Marc and Peg Throop March 12, 2018

April 10, 2018

This news breaks our hearts. We thought the world of Carol and her giving heart was overwhelmingly generous. The efforts she put into the Paw Paw community were second to none. Our prayers go out to all of the Staniszewski's.

Lisa J Hall March 12, 2018

April 10, 2018

Heather, I am so sad to hear of your mother's passing. It was so good to see the both of you two weekends ago. I'm glad I got a chance to see and speak to her. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.

Bill Gallman March 12, 2018

April 10, 2018

I'm shocked and saddened to learn about Carol's passing. She was a kind, caring, generous person who was committed to helping others. Her positive attitude and friendly smile brightened the day of those around her. She will truly be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family. Bill Gallman

Tracy Dark March 12, 2018

April 10, 2018

I am so sorry for your loss. Sending love and prayers to you all.

Cindy Daines March 12, 2018

April 10, 2018

I am so sorry to hear this news. I have such fond memories from Three Mile Lake Days. My thoughts and prayers to all of you.

Jack Bellware March 12, 2018

April 10, 2018

John...Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss...our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Carol was a good friend in high school. She was always cheerful, helpful and caring. She will be missed.

Frank and Virginia Wunderlich March 12, 2018

April 10, 2018

John, Kevin and family, and Heather so sorry for your loss. Carol was a gem. Prayers and hugs to you all. She was deeply involved in the Paw Paw Community. Carol was responsible for starting the youth baseball post season tournament in Paw Paw in early 80s. The tournament still lives today and over the years his raised thousands of dollars for the youth of Paw Paw. RIP Carol.

Joshua Letko March 12, 2018

April 10, 2018

Heather, You have my profound condolences and from my family. Your mother was a light in the world and she will be missed. Our prayers are with you and your family. With love, Joshua and Sarah Letko

Cindy Miller March 12, 2018

April 10, 2018

John and Family so sorry for your loss. had a lot of good times living next door to Carol growing up. Prayers for your family.

Geraldine Tucker March 12, 2018

April 10, 2018

Mrs. Heather Staniszewski and family, I I send my deepest sorrow of losing your mother, your best friend. I too recently laid my mother to rest, less than a month
ago. I frequently, think of my mother and the heart-felt moments spent with her. I thank God for choosing her as my mother and the memories. Heather, I pray those memories will sustain you and keep you. I never met your mother. However, I think she was a special woman and mother raising her children to be as I saw you to be Heather. The name Staniszewski, resignates, to me loving, thoughtfulness, kind-hearted, and humous. May God continue to Bless You and your entire family. Geraldine Tucker, Sego Middle School

Suanne Sheppard March 12, 2018

April 10, 2018

John, Kevin and Heather. I'm so sorry to hear of Carol's passing. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

jevon Allison March 12, 2018

April 10, 2018

To the Staniszewski family our prays and sympathy go out to you and your family. i wouldn't have made it though school (SB) with out your compassion,love and understanding. jevon Allison & family

Kristi Timmermans Hausler March 13, 2018

April 10, 2018

Heather, Kevin & Family, I am sorry to hear of your moms passing. Thinking of you.

Dina (Shaffer) Bowling March 13, 2018

April 10, 2018

Heather, I'm so deeply sorry to hear this new about your Mom. I remember her well from our high school days, such an amazing lady! My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you and your family right now.

Dr. Naji and Andrea (Owsiany) Khairallah

April 10, 2018

Our thoughts are with you.

Bruce and Luanne Blanchard

April 10, 2018

John, Kevin So sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Angela Pacula Crocker

April 10, 2018

My deepest sympathy to the family. Debbie (sister) was a good friend of mine. Spent many years of my childhood with the Babin's. Very good memories. Rest in peace Carol. ❤

Johnson Motor Compny

April 10, 2018

Kevin, Heather, Mr John, All of us here at Johnson Motor Comp. are so very sorry for your loss. Words cannot express our feelings for your family at this time. We hope that your cherished memories, the comfort of family and the sympathy of friends will help to console you at this time. Your family is in our thoughts.

Maria "Mieke" Defever

April 10, 2018

Dear Staniszewski family, I am so sorry for your loss. Carol will be missed. As I would run into Carol around town, at an event, or shopping for school supplies, she always had a kind word and a warm smile. Her eyes
sparkled as she spoke about the kids she worked with. She cared about Aiken and was ready to participate or attend any event that showcased the Aiken community. But, most of all, Carol loved her family, her grandchildren, her daughter, her son and daughter-inlaw, and her husband. Carol will always be in our hearts.
Love, Maria Defever

Rick and Sally Yarbrough

April 10, 2018

Dear John, Heather, Kevin , Mary and Kathy and families. Our heart breaks for all of you. Sending our love, hugs, keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.
We are very thankful we got to spend some time a few
weeks ago with Carol, who would of thought that would
be the last time. Remember to keep your memories of Carol alive and it will comfort you knowing she is still with you in your heart. May God Bless You all and keep you in his comforting arms. Rick & Sally and family

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Heather Kevin John Carol was a nice person we like her very much. She helped the family out a lot. We will think of her often.

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