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1947
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2025
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Gary Younken Obituary
Gary R. Younken, 78 of Middletown, beloved husband of Dottie (Serra) Younken, died Friday, April 18, 2025, at Middlesex Hospital.
Gary was born in Middletown, son of the late Charles and Agnes (White) Younken. Prior to his retirement, Gary was employed as a truck driver with Batesville. He was a veteran US Air Force serving during the Vietnam war.
Besides his wife, Gary is survived by his son Gary Shumbo and his wife Kacey.
A graveside service with military honors will be held at the convenience of the family at the Connecticut State Veterans’ Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made to Connecticut Humane Society, (cthumane.org) or Alzheimer’s Organization (alz.org), in memory of Gary Younken.
Memories and Condolences
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Dottie Younken
August 6, 2025
You are missed very much. Rest in peace, my darling.
Patricia Gillanders
June 3, 2025
Dottie, I am so sorry about Gary. I just happened to see his obituary today 6/3.
I wish I had known before I would've come to his graveside service. Again, I am so so sorry for your loss, you two were so awesome together. Love, Pat
Allan Czaja
May 26, 2025
So sorry for your family´s loss Dottie. I will say prayers for you and your family you´re friend Allan Czaja
Carl and Ellen Quadarella
May 24, 2025
Dottie,
Carl and I send our condolences to you and your family to hear of Gary's passing. We just found out today. We are very sorry.
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