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Mary McAllister Obituary

Mary S. McAllister COLUMBIA - Mary Suzanne McAllister, 44, of Columbia, S.C., was born on December 28, 1973 in Augusta, Georgia and passed away on October 17, 2018. She was the youngest child of the late Catherine Harter McAllister and John Andrew McAllister of Mt. Carmel, South Carolina.

Mary graduated from Cambridge Academy in Greenwood, S.C., received her B. S. Degree in Sports Management from Erskine College in 1996, and was on the varsity tennis teams in both high school and college. Mary earned her M. A. degree in Teaching Health Education from the University of South Carolina in 2001.

From 1999-2014, Mary was the Head of the Physical Education Department and Athletic Trainer for the Middle School of Hammond School in Columbia. While at Hammond, she created the Concussion Management Team.

In 2014, Mary became an Athletic Trainer with Steadman Hawkins Clinic of the Carolinas with Greenville Health System in Greenville, S.C. Most recently, she was an Athletic Training Supervisor with Palmetto Health USC Orthopedic Center in Columbia, S.C., assigned to Spring Valley High School. She was devoted to all her students, and was beloved by them, by parents, and by fellow faculty members. Mary had a passion for helping young people share her love of all sports.

Mary was devoted to her family, and even as a very young woman was a compassionate caregiver to elderly family members. She adored her nieces and nephews and loved all animals, especially her cat, Max. She enjoyed traveling with both her students and her family.

Mary is survived by her brothers, John Andrew McAllister, Jr. [Carolyn Matthews] of Columbia, S.C., Thomas Edwin (Ed) McAllister of Washington, D.C., Westley (Wes) Darrell McAllister [Angel] of Mt. Carmel, S.C.; and sister, Cathy McAllister Watson [Cal] of Columbia, S.C.; and by her nieces and nephews, Anne Leigh McAllister Elmore [Zach] and Sarah Elizabeth McAllister of Louisville, Kentucky, Catherine Tatum Watson of Spartanburg, S.C., Thomas Edwin McAllister, Jr. of Washington, D.C., Joseph (Jay) Calhoun Watson, Jr. of Greenville, S.C., Elizabeth (Bess) Kirkland Watson of Auburn, Alabama, and Charles Jacob (Jake) McAllister of Mt. Carmel, S.C. She is also survived by her brother, Johnny McAllister's stepdaughter, Martha Austin Adams Bruner [Collin] and their daughters, Martha Bennett Bruner and Cason Wallace Bruner of Charleston, S.C.

The burial will be private. The family will receive friends at the home of Ed McAllister at 195 Depot Street in Mt. Carmel, S.C. on Saturday, October 20, 2018 at 2:00 p.m. A Celebration of Mary's Life will be held on Sunday, October 21 at 2:00 p.m. at Shandon United Methodist Church, 3407 Devine Street in Columbia, S.C. Visitation will be immediately after the service in the Player Hall. Shives Funeral Home, Trenholm Road Chapel, is assisting the family.

The family requests that memorials be made to Pawmetto Lifeline, 1275 Bower Parkway, Columbia, SC 29212 or to Cambridge Academy, 103 Eastman Street, Greenwood, SC 29649.

Memories and condolences may be shared at ShivesFuneralHome.com

Published by The Index-Journal from Oct. 20 to Oct. 21, 2018.
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"I loved working with her - what a wonderful spirit"

Frank Noojin

October 23, 2018

Mary was a student of mine in the USC athletic training program..very capable, caring, and always brought a smile to the situation....may she rest in peace..

Malissa Martin

October 19, 2018

Dear All,
Mary was so special to all of the Bradley family. With her special magic of love and spark she was the only person that could babysit the three Bradley boys and they adored her. She would outsmart them and catch them sneaking out of cribs. Then later take them for ice cream. We have all been talking about our favorite Miss Mary times. There are so many. We all love her so much. Nobody had more enthusiasm than Mary. Our whole family boys, three dogs and cat included were thrilled when Miss Mary came through the door. She was also came to the rescue several times on a moments notice. Cathy, Cal, Wes, Johnny and Ed, we all loved Mary so much and are sending our love and prayers.

Elizabeth Bradley

October 19, 2018

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Celebration of Life

2:00 p.m.

Shandon United Methodist Church

3407 Devine Street, Columbia, SC

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Shives Funeral Home - Trenholm Road Chapel

7600 Trenholm Road, Columbia, SC 29223

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