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William "Billy" Sottile

1960 - 2026

William "Billy" Sottile obituary, 1960-2026, Oceanside, CA

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Mount Pleasant, South Carolina

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Mar. 13, 2026

10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

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William "Billy" Sottile Obituary

William "Billy" Sottile

Oceanside, CA - William Albert Sottile, age 65, of Oceanside California, formerly of Charleston County, passed away on February 23, 2026. He was the son of the late Louise W. Sottile and Salvador V. (Sally) Sottile. Billy was born in Charleston on August 16, 1960. He spent his first 18 years residing on the Isle of Palms, a very special place to live back then. Billy attended Stella Maris Catholic Grammar School in Mt. Pleasant, and Bishop England High School in Charleston, graduating in 1978. He formed many lifelong friendships with his classmates at "BE." Following the family tradition, he attended Clemson University, graduating in 1982 with a degree in Construction Management. Billy began his music career somewhere around the age of 8, driving his parents and siblings crazy banging on his drums. He stuck with it and eventually became a very good musician, playing guitar, keyboard, and drums. Over the years he had many gigs with various bands in various places across the U.S. How he loved music! His longing to travel first led him to Boston, MA where he joined his sister Bette who had moved there a year or two before. He stayed in Boston for about 15 years, landing a position with Raytheon, a major defense contractor, running computer software programs. That led him to a job at Edwards Airforce Base in California with Lockheed Corporation, now known as Lockheed Martin, a premier global aerospace, defense and technology company. He met his wife Terri while he was there. They married on September 5, 2009, on the Yorktown in Charleston. He spent many years working on Lockheed's development of the F-22 fighter plane. He was transferred to Lockheed's Las Vegas facility in 2010, until the F-22 project was retired. After that, he moved to Oceanside, California and worked for Leidos Corporation installing and maintaining its computer software programs used in many locations throughout the US until his retirement. Billy was an avid Clemson Football fan and a proud IPTAY member. He started the Las Vegas Clemson Club in 2011. The highlight of his fandom was attending the 2018 National Championship game in Santa Clara, CA with his brother, seeing in person the pinnacle of Clemson's football success. Billy is survived by his wife Terri, sister Susan Sottile Momeier (Chris), brother Nick (Val), niece Leah Lewin (Alex), and four nephews, Michael C. Momeier, David C. Momeier, Nicholas S. Sottile and Stephen R. Sottile. He was the hit of the party whenever he was with his niece or nephews, who so adored and admired him, maybe because he always brought fireworks and presents. In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by his sisters Elisabeth Sottile Lewin and Charlotte L. Sottile, and his super dog C.J. A memorial service will be held at McAlister-Smith Funeral Chapel in Mt. Pleasant on Friday, March 13, 2026, at 11:00 o'clock a.m. The family will receive visitors at the Chapel one hour before the service. A private interment will be held for the family after the service. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the charity of one's choice.

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier on Mar. 8, 2026.

Memorial Events
for William "Billy" Sottile

Mar

13

Visitation

10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

McAlister-Smith Funeral & Cremation - Mt. Pleasant Location

1520 Rifle Range Rd, Mount Pleasant, SC

Mar

13

Memorial service

11:00 a.m.

McAlister-Smith Funeral & Cremation - Mt. Pleasant Location

1520 Rifle Range Rd, Mount Pleasant, SC

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Terri

Earlier today

Thanks to all who leave a kind note or a memory of my husband Billy. He was truly one of a kind and I am frateful that I got to call him my husband.

If you knew him, you know he had a way of making people feel welcome. He truly never met a stranger. Within minutes of meeting someone, he could make them laugh, make them feel like an old friend.

He was funny in a way that could brighten even the hardest days. He was kind in the quiet ways that mattered most. And he was loving and supportive. I was incredibly lucky to walk through life with him as my husband for nearly 17 years.

One of the things we loved most was music and ClemsonFootball. I promised to love, honor and Cherish him and Clemson as long as we lived. Our life was about the laughter, the stories, and the memories we made along the way. No matter where we were, being together made it feel like home.

But the greatest adventure of my life was simply loving him and being loved by him.

And though he claimed to be painfully shy, he managed to put together some music jams and make music happen on the drums.

While my heart is broken, I am also so grateful. Grateful for the years we had, the memories we created, and the love we shared. That love doesn´t disappear-it lives on in every story we tell, every laugh we remember, and every life he touched.

If there´s one thing I know he would want, it´s for us to keep living fully, keep being kind to one another, and keep sharing laughter whenever we can. I am consoled by the fact he is with our boy CJ and we will be together again one day. Until then, Go Clemson!

Suzan LeBlanc

Yesterday

I am just so sad to hear that Billy is gone. He was a fun, loving guy who I met so many years ago because I was his sister Bette's friend. He painted my apartment, co-DJ'd my wedding and in recent years we would text about days gone by and our mutual love for Bette, who we both missed so much. He recently shared his sadness over the loss of his dear dog...CJ.

Terri, Susan, Nick and niece Leah and nephews, I'm just so sorry for this unexpected loss. I know you will have so many fond memories. I'm thinking of you all.

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