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Toombs H. Kay Jr.

1929 - 2018

Toombs H. Kay Jr. obituary, 1929-2018, Charleston, SC

Toombs Kay Obituary

Toombs H. Kay, Jr. Pawleys Island, SC - Toombs H. Kay, Jr., who was born on December 22, 1929, died peacefully on December 4, 2018. He was the son of Toombs Hodges Kay, Sr. and Viola Winn Kay. He was brought up on the Kay farm near Royston, GA. He graduated from Royston High School and Reinhardt Junior College. He completed his college education at Duke University, graduating with an A.B. degree in 1951. He received the M.Div. from Emory University in 1954 and then attended Union Theological Seminary in NYC and Columbia University before attaining a Ph.D. degree from New York University. Some years later he was awarded the honorary D.D. by Tennessee Wesleyan College. He married Sara Elizabeth Beggs and they had five children: Ann Farr, Debra (Meryl) Perry, Cindy (Bill) Rhea, Paul Kay and six grandchildren. Dr. Kay was preceded in death by his son, Robert and grandson, Luke. Toombs is also survived by sisters, Betty Skelton and Pat Nix; brothers, John Wesley Kay, Terry Kay, and Gary Kay - and numerous nieces, nephews and cousins. Sara died in May 1988, and Toombs married Patricia B. Terrill in March 1991. He is survived by Pat and her three children: Kathy (Jeff) Hewitt, Cindy (Mark) Munn, and Rick (Liz) Terrill, and seven grandchildren. Dr. Kay was also preceded in death by Pat's two grandsons, Barrett and Charlie. In June 1951, Toombs was assigned to Union City Methodist Church, Union City, GA. After completing seminary, he was appointed to the Shandaken Methodist Parish in New York. From there, in 1956, he became the minister of the First Reformed Church of Jamaica, NY, serving there until he finished his doctorate. In 1961 he was named Professor and head of the Department of Religion and Philosophy at LaGrange College, LaGrange, GA. In 1965 Toombs moved to Reinhardt College, which he had attended earlier, and was the Dean. From there he transferred to Tennessee Wesleyan College as the Academic Dean and Professor of Religion and Philosophy until 1974 when he was appointed as the Senior Minister of Church Street United Methodist Church in Knoxville, TN. He served there for thirteen years before moving to be Senior Minister of the First Broad Street United Methodist Church in Kingsport, TN. He retired from that position in December 1993. After retirement, he served brief appointments at John Wesley United Methodist Church in Bristol, VA, Bethel Presbyterian Church in Kingsport, TN, and Erwin Presbyterian Church, Erwin, TN. A memorial service will be held December 8, 2018 at 2:00 pm at St. Paul's Waccamaw UMC in Pawley's Island, SC. Memorials may be made to St. Paul's Waccamaw UMC and designated to the Toombs H. Kay Shut In Ministry on the memo line: 180 St. Paul Place, Pawley's Island, SC 29585, or to a charity of your choice. An online guestbook is available at www.goldfinchfuneralhome.com. Goldfinch Funeral Home, Litchfield Pawley's Chapel is handling arrangements. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Dec. 5 to Dec. 6, 2018.

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Bruce and Laura Wiley

February 2, 2022

42 years ago today, Dr. Kay conducted the sacred right of marriage for us in Knoxville at Church Street United Methodist Church. He was a gracious and lovely man of God. Peace be upon his family.

Sue Greene

December 2, 2020

I cannot believe my dear pastor and friend is no longer on this earth. I am sure he is enjoying Heaven. I miss his dimpled smile, his laughing eyes and his "God-like" voice. He cannot be forgotten as long as we who remain remember him in his own unique way. Love to remembrance to the family.

John Derden

December 13, 2018

Dr. Kay was the Dean at Reinhardt college (now University) when I was a student there from 1969 to 1970. He was very impressive and inspiring. His combination of spiritual maturation and academic accomplishment was part of the motivation for me to make a career in academics. I will always have fond memories of him.

Amy Province Neil

December 8, 2018

I grew up going to First Broad Street with Dr. Kay and I feel oh so blessed to have had him be part of our church family! He helped teach me about God and truly made an impact on my life. Many thoughts and prayers.

Peg Norris

December 8, 2018

My thought and prayers are with all the family. I well remember the fun trip we shared during our Scandinavian tour. He was dear to all.

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Dottie Bodie

December 7, 2018

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Leslie Welcker-McLaughlin

December 7, 2018

Mr Kay was an amazing minister. One of my fondest childhood memories is of remember him coming out to our house when I was a little girl and performing last rites for a baby Easter chick for me. We had all the neigborhood kids over and he treated it like a real funeral service. He was an amazing man who touched man lives and made them better during their most scarriest and darkest hours.

Rev. Diana Brown Taylor

December 6, 2018

Dear family, so many of us were blessed by the ministry of Toombs Kay. I was blessed to serve as the director of The Kay Adult Day Service from 4/2008 - 9/2009. He will be greatly missed but his influence will live on through the many lives he touched. Thanks be to God for his life.

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Laura Cox

December 6, 2018

Dear Cindy, Please accept my condolences. Sincerely, Laura Cox

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James Marks

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Sue Ann Greene

December 5, 2018

Pat, I cannot believe he is gone. He was so wonderful to me and my family and participated in many family events, i.e. weddings, babies, etc. I am caregiver on weekends for my Mom so I will be unable to attend the service. I will be remembering you in my prayers.

Randy Frye

December 5, 2018

Remembering a spiritual giant. Grateful that I was able to serve with him at First Broad Street. I pray God will bring you comfort in your time of grief.

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2:00 p.m.

St. Paul's Waccamaw UMC

Pawley's Island, TN

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202 Hinnant Lane, Pawleys Island, SC 29585

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