Thompson Barnwell Obituary

just thinking of you today for some reason. missing you, missing everything about you. every time i'm at the bus stop on friendly i remember the last time i saw thompson. i was waiting for the bus and he drove up to the light. we only had a second before it changed. he told me about going back to charleston. two weeks ago i found an email from him that i'd never read. it broke me down. he told me he loved me and wished i could come visit. i miss him every day. he was a light in my life. lots and lots of love.

my thoughts are with you.

Dear Nancy and Elliott, we are heartbroken to hear of Thompson's death. You and yours are in our thoughts and prayers-

I still remember living in Winston-Salem and you would come over and hang out. You always had a smile or kind word for us and never showed the cynicism or negativity that plagues so much of the world today. Though I knew you for a short time I never questioned your decency or good heart. I pray that you find peace as you journey into the next life. Godspeed Thompson.

my sympathies for all who lost such a great and caring soul.
his kindness will always be remembered.

Thompson, I love you and I miss you. So many of my best memories involve you and Barney. To the entire Barnwell family-
you are a strong, wonderful family and I have been inspired by your strength.

Thompson always made me feel better with his smile. Thompson was a true gentleman. I am blessed to have known Thompson.

Its so hard to believe Thompson is gone. Ive read the articles and his obituary countless times,hoping it will sink in. Everything about his death breaks my heart. I can remember the first time I saw Thompson,what a doll baby! We became friends and it was always a pleasure to be around him. The void his departure has left is massive. I hope he is at peace and I hope the memories of his smile and what an amazing guy he was will bring some comfort to everyone that loved him. To his parents,words can never describe how sorry I am that you lost him. You must be great parents because he was truly a class act. He was down to earth,respectful and an all around gentleman. You are thought about and prayed for daily. Take care of each other and thank you for Thompsons beautiful life.

My heartfelt condolences and deepest sympathies go out to the Barnwell family. From Charleston to Greensboro, so many people have felt the loss of someone so special.

Thompson was a vivacious cohort, artist, and friend. He looked past judgement and appreciated people for who they were. He was an intellect and avid supporter of ridiculous theories. His smile would easily brighten a room and the light in his eyes was inspirational to those around him. I will never forget those late nights in Greensboro when we would chat about our professors, classes, or idealistic theories. He would look past the face value of any object and take it to an abstract level until he found something meaningful and concrete. Thompson was goofy and lovable, and had a unique sense of humor. He could pull anyone out of a funk and not even have to try very hard.

My heart is heavy and saddened by his departure from this earth. I hope that in passing, Thompson has reached the peace he deserves. And his family is able to rest knowing that he is loved and will be so greatly missed by us all.

Thompson was a caring, sweet, fun person to spend time with. He will always be in our hearts and memories. My thoughts and condolences go out to your family during this difficult time.

Even though I only met Thompson in passing, I could never forget his striking presence and kind nature. My thoughts and condolences go out to his family and friends during this very difficult time.

My deepest condolences go out to the Barnwell family. Your loss is felt greatly by those who knew Thompson. He was a genuine personality that stuck with the Greensboro community for long after he left it.

I had the privilege of getting to know him through the art/music community and pick eachothers' brains a bit on life, art, and some of the things that connect the two. I always respected the honesty, intelligence, confidence, and humility in his character.

Nancy and Elliott, I never got to meet you, but I extend the utmost respect and deepest condolences to you and your family. Thompson will be greatly missed. I'm personally heartbroken to hear of the loss of this good friend and a great man.

Thompson, be with your loved ones and give them strength during these hard times. You live on in the thoughts of those that you impacted forever man. Rest in peace brother.

Nancy, please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Thompson was a great friend and a wonderful person. If you knew him you know exactly what I'm talking about. The world was definitely a better place for having Thompson in it. I wish you peace my friend. To the Barnwell family, my deepest sympathies and comforting prayers go out to you.

Thompson was a wonderful, loving, kind person. I hung out with him many nights when I lived in Greensboro and have many pictures of him in my collections. I will remember him always and pray for his family.

In loving memory of a bright and beautiful man. May the enduring love of his family & friends keep his goodness alive while his spirit rests in peace.

Nancy and Elliot,
I just want to say that the hearts of all your Marrington Elementary friends go out to you both. We are so, so sorry for your unspeakable loss. I send you all my love, hugs and prayers. Love always, your counselor friend, Ann

Nancy and Elliott, my prayers for you and your family have been constant and will continue. Thompson was a wonderful man. He will always remain in my memory as the fun, laughing boy I knew when our sons were growing up and playing soccer together.

Thompson was such a fantastic person. We endured many days of classes together, as well as many late night hangouts. I will miss his personality and his friendly wave everytime he saw me. I truly feel for his family and friends as everyone copes with this. We will all miss him. I feel like this won't do him justice. However, xoxo Thompson, this is what I can do for you. You will forever be prevalent in my mind.

Thompson was a good man. I enjoyed the time I was able to get to know him over the years(though feel I barely scratched the surface of his depths) and will remember him as an inspiring human being. The best inside me goes out to you and all.

Thompson was a constant figure in my life while we were both living in Greensboro. I feel lucky to have known such a kind and caring soul. Although I don't know the Barnwell family, I want you to know my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I'm burning a candle in Thompson's honor, and the flame has been going for about 48 hours, nonstop. I am deeply saddened by his loss, and I know all who knew him are feeling the same way. Rest in peace, Thompson. I'll always remember your laugh and the pleasure of sharing so many good times with you.

Last time I saw Thompson it was on the 5th of march. I was so glad to see him it had been quite a while. He is a good soul and I and his friends will miss him greatly. But we are not feeling half of the loss his family must feel now. Please take comfort in the many prayers that are with you and for the love that so many have for Thompson.

Elliott, Nancy & John,

Our hearts are aching over the loss of Thompson. Please know our thoughts and Prayers are with you during this difficult time. Take comfort in your precious memories of Thompson and the love of family and friends.
With love...

Im so shocked and sadened by thompsons departure. I find myself recalling memories of him. It seems in each one he is smiling. May he have eternal smiles and peace. Im so sorry for everyones loss.

Thompson could light up a room in the matter of seconds. His smile was infectious and his heart was huge. Our hurt is deep, but our faith is strong. Our prayers and love to your family,

Never knew Thompson personally, but apparently when a friend mentioned my name he knew who I was. I remember meeting him once and thinking he was a pretty cool guy, and it makes me wish we had more time to get to know one another. He is loved by many people who will keep his memory alive.

Thompson could light up a room in a matter of seconds. His smile was infectious and his heart was huge. Our hurt is deep, but our faith is strong. Prayers and love to your family,

Dear Elliott and Nancy:

My heart goes out to you both; it seems so un-natural that a parent should bury his or her child; it appears that the order of succession has been reversed in Thompson making his transition.

As the mother of a son born to today's younger generation, it appears to be such a tragedy to lose the energy and creativeness he expressed, according to everything that I have read. I knew him when he was young, and though I might not have recognized him as an adult, because he was your son, I paraphrase an African saying: "When my friends cry, I cry, too."

It is truly the destiny of all humankind when the bonds of life is freed from the vehicle for the Soul expression called our body. In Qohelet 1:2, it is written: "Vanity, vanities of all vanity, everything is vanity." The transcription of that passage is: "It is absurd to think that we can live outside of the Will of God. Everything is vapor, breath, Spirit."

Because we have been created in God's image-likeness, according to the Allegories of Genesis 1:26, since God is Spirit, we are Spirit, and just as God could never cease to be, neither could we (your son). Therefore, bid him a "Good-night/Morning"; through entering the portal of what is called "death," he has entered into the realm of eternal Life.

As long as you turn your face toward the SON, you will never face shadows.

I offer you both, along with your other family members, my prayers as consolation.

Dear Nancy and Elliott,
We are truly, deeply sorry for your tragic loss.
Donna and Sandy Logan

My sincerest condolences go out to each person this tragedy has touched. Though i did not have the pleasure of knowing Thompson, all of my friends knew him, and all of them are grieving for their dear friend. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. He is and will be greatly missed. Peace be with you Thompson.

Elliott, Nancy and John: Our hearts are broken for you all and for Thompson. You will remain in our thoughts and in our prayers.

Such a sweet child- seems impossible that he will not be chuckling in the background of your family get togethers, but then his echo will be there.
I will always rememeber him laughing and that huge goofy grin.

To the Barnwell and Thompson Families....You are in my thoughts and I hope you can find peace at this most difficult time. Tammi

Thompson was truly a great person. He will be missed. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family and friends. Godspeed Thompson.

thompson was a very close friend, and an amazing spirit. i have a lot of great memories of our time together, and i loved him a lot. he was beautiful, kind, sensitive, expressive, and had so much love for everyone around him. i'll miss him. love and light to his family- i am so sorry for your loss. he will always live on in our hearts.

My prayers go out to Thompson's family during this difficult time. Thompson touched our lives and made a lasting impression on all of us who met him. He will be greatly missed, but never forgotten.

Dear Nancy and Elliot, even in the midst of this sadness, we are hoping you can feel the love, thoughts of strength and support that surround you today.

Thompson was a kind soul, who was always a joy to be around. You will be missed. My thoughts and heart go out to his family.

Even in the midst of this sadness we are hoping you can feel the thoughts of love, strength and support that surround you today.

Elliott, Nancy and John - our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. We cannot even begin to understand the depth of your loss, but we know that Thompson is at peace. We will always have good memories of him. We hope you find some strength knowing how many lives he touched. We love you all. Matt and Jana Salinger

With Deepest Sympathy and Prayers,

I can't express how much my heart aches over the loss of Thompson. He was a good man, and he will not be forgotten.

I got to know Thompson pretty well in Greensboro. Such a great guy all around. My heart is broken. My deepest condolences to the Barnwell family.

Every time I hung out with Thompson it was a great time. He was a bright and beautiful person and will be missed greatly. Thoughts and Prayers to the family. ~Crystal and Bobby

May God bless your family during this time of sorrow. Joanne Comar and Ernie Comar Jr.

Nancy, my heart goes out to you, and you are in my heart and prayers. Thompson will be greatly missed.

Thompson was a wonderful friend, and a joy to be around. He was always steady, passionate, and considerate. I am sorry we will not have more memories together....we will remember him forever and keep him close in our hearts~he made a difference in our lives and we will cherish those times we shared. I write on my family's behalf (husband Chris & daughter Della Gibbs)with love to you, his family. (formerly of Greensboro, NC)

March 30, 2011
Nancy and Elliott, my prayer is that you will find comfort in the outpouring of love from family and friends.
Jackie Harris Goose Creek, SC

Nancy and Elliott, my prayers are with you that you will find strength in the outpouring of love you receive from family and friends. Jackie Harris, Goose Creek, SC

My heart and prayers go out to you for your terrible loss. This tragedy has touched both me and my children. Ann Collins ( Chris and Julie Edwards mother)

Thompson was a fine young man. I am thankful to have met and shared some time with him. He is greatly missed in Greensboro. My heartfelt condolences to us all and especially the Barnwell family.

Nancy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May your family be blessed with only sweet memories of Thompson, and each of you draw strength from each other.
Be blessed,
Maria Parnow

Nancy and Elliott our thoughts are with you and your family. May you find comfort in each other during this tme. Even though Thompson's life was to short he left a wonderful legacy of himself that will last forever.

You never forget a friend that was always happy to see you, even if the time passed was short. I was fortunate to have had laughs and good times with you. Farewell Thompson.

Nancy, Elliott and John, I offer my deepest heartfelt sympathies to your beautiful family at this difficult time. I have the fondest memories of babysitting Thompson and I feel so very lucky to have known him. May Thompson’s incredible spirit and soul live forever.

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead. You are in my prayers.

My thoughts are with his family...He was such a sweet, sensitive guy. He'll be greatly missed by everyone who knew him.

My prayers and wishes for strength go out to the Barnwell family. Thompson carries with him the beautiful soul of an artist, his mark indelible, his sweet nature truly missed. Bless you through this time.

Sweet Thompson....sure do miss playin Drivin n Cryin on the juke box together.we had some fun times. Safe travels my friend. Sending much love to your family.

Though I knew Thompson,briefly.To me he was one of the most unique individuals that I've ever had to pleasure to meet.My condolences to the Barnwell family.You will be missed,Thompson.

My heart and prayers are with the family during this time. May you find peace in the days ahead.

Words cannot express my deep heartfelt sorrow for you all during this difficult time. Thompson and I were very close friends thoughout high school. It's been a few years since we have spent time together but the closeness I feel to him remains the same. The nonsense conversations that only the 2 of us understood will never be forgotten. I will treasure his friendship forever. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.

Prayers to the family! Thompson was a good high school friend and will be missed!

Thompson was a great friend who loved everyone he met and we know everyone he met loved him. He will truly be missed. We hold Thompson's family in our thoughts during this difficult time.

My thoughts and prayers are with Thompson's family. He had such a bright soul and was the most sensitive caring friend I had in high school. His smile and laughter will be missed.