Thomas Bates Obituary

My wife and I had the good fortune

of having known Tom since the Fall

of 2004. Words cannot describe the

loss and sadness we've been

feeling since hearing about

Tom's tragic demise. Tom's deep

love for his children stands out

in my mind as I reflect back and

it was inspiring to see him go

through adversities with serenity.

May God grant strength to his dear ones.

Dear Phil and Gladys,

We are here if you need someone to talk to. We have been though this and know there are no words to express or thoughts to erase your sorrow. You are both in our prayers, as is his family.

Tom was my ex-husband, and the father of our twins, Tommy and Catie. He taught me that friendship can survive just about anything, even divorce. He was very sincere, very caring, always willing to help. More than that, he was a wonderful father to Tommy and Catie. We miss him very much.

Tom was my former brother-in-law. I'm the sister of his first wife, Michelle Pezzani, and the aunt to his twins, Tommy and Catie.



I am creating a website in Tom's honor that will be both a blog and a photo gallery. I'm in the process of working on it, and would appreciate any who feel so moved to add to it. The website is www.tombates.us



I'll try to get it propogated ASAP.



My family and I will always love and honor you, Tom!

I met Dr. Bates only once, I was recently refered to him and had chosen him as my new PCP. I did not know him well but did spend an hour talking about my history, his history, my family, his family, we had alot in common and I was incredibly impressed. As a young man I lost my wife, Dr. Bates and I spoke about her passing, his concern and compassion was so appreciated. I cannot find the words that properly express the sadness I now feel. I know that when my wife died very suddenly and also at age 40, I became convinced that she was such a wonderful person that she must have gone to a beautiful place. I am convinced Dr. Bates is in a beautiful place.

Dear Mrs. Bates and family,

I work in the Medical Management Dept at Mills-Peninsula Medical Group. I met Dr. Bates as I toured the new clinic facility. From that first encounter, I could tell that he was dedicated to his work as a physician. He had an excellent bedside manner that you could tell there was something special about him. Through my initial encounter with him, I could readily recommend him as a PCP to anyone who was looking for a PCP. We will miss him and will always appreciate the time he spent as an MPMG physician.

Sincerely, Karen Yamaguchi, RN

To the family of Dr. Thomas Bates;



My husband and I are sadden and shocked of the news of the passing of Dr.Thomas Bates:



I Virginia Quinn, was a patient of his before his passing. I am very sad to hear of the news.



I wanted you to know how much he meant to me with his kindness & professional Health care he provided me.



When I became his patient, my husband and I were very happy and we trusted him with my care. He became our friend and doctor, who shared we were both born in Hawaii.



I recently had surgery and he cared for me at my worst time. He was a doctor who truly cared for his patients. He always checked on me, and made sure I was always comfortable. If I ever needed him he would be there for me, to just call.



He also cared for my parents. They too are sadden of his passing.



I am at a total loss. My family and I send our sympathy to you Mrs. Bates, and the rest of his family. He spoke so highly of his family and children he loved so dearly.



I will remember him in my prayers. He was a wonderful, kind, and caring man. He will be truly missed by us all.



My family and I are deeply sorry for your loss!



I will light a candle for him!



Virginia & Robert Quinn

George & Dominga Corden

Tommy and I were fraternity brothers together in Kappa Sigma. He will be truly missed by the Order and all his brothers in the Lowcountry. Eternal memory!