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Al Konetzni
February 28, 2005
Mal, Heather, and Karen...You are all in our prayers. When something like this occurs its difficult to put a coherent thought together. I do want you to know from a friend that I learned more from Tom Antos than any other individual I have ever known.
On Grayling Tom ran the entire show. All that I am came from Tom. I'll never forget that when my XO's and Engineer's Dad's passed on that I put Tom in charge of running the ship as we deployed to the Med. In doing so I was able to leave my XO and ENG to take care of Family matters.
After six weeks the ship was running about 4.0 thanks to Tom.
Of course he would never take credit to the great job he did.
I could go on forever, suffice it to say that he was humble to a fault, he cared tremendouly for His Family, His Shipmates, His Navy, And His Submarine Force.
I will never forget him and the mentoring he provided me and literally thousands of Shipmates.
God Bless,
Al Konetzni
Vice Admiral, USN(ret)
Kent Carl
February 25, 2005
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I worked with Tom at SRS for several years and considered him a friend, a gentleman, and a mentor. He will be sorely missed.
Mildred Cunningham
February 19, 2005
Jana, I was so sorry to hear about your loss. May God keep you near in the days ahead.
Margaret Sears
February 15, 2005
Deepest sympathy to Heather and her family from everyone at the World Monuments Fund in New York.

The Life of the Party
February 14, 2005

Tom and his girls
February 14, 2005
nancy perrin
February 11, 2005
So sorry for your loss.he will be missed.may GOD comfort you. i went through this lost myself. may GOD bless nancy perrin
Shelley Hutchinson
February 11, 2005
Dear Mal, Caryn, and Heather:
I am so sorry to hear about Tom. It just seems like yesterday we were all at the Greenwave football games having a good time.
Shelley
Erica Hutchinson
February 11, 2005
Mallory, Caryn & Heather: I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. The love, strength and personality that Caryn and Heather possess are just a glimpse of what a great man Tom was.
sharon nichols
February 9, 2005
Dear Mal & family,
I was so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers, take care of each other.
Sharon
Megan Leggett (Powell)
February 9, 2005
Caryn, Heather, and Mrs. Antos, I was deeply saddened to hear of Mr. Antos' passing. He was a kind, loving man (who happened to make awesome apple pie). Caryn and Heather are great reflections of what a wonderful person he was. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Matt Cola
February 9, 2005
Sorry for your loss. I served with Tom on Sirago and recall him as always being a Gentleman.
Charles (Scotty) Barnes
February 8, 2005
Our hearts go out to TK's family. Tom was a great shipmate and friend. We served aboard the Von Steuben and he always reached out to help crew and families when ever the need arose. The good always die young. Fair winds and following seas Tom!
Heather Nelson
February 8, 2005
"Judd the Stud" will always have a special place in my heart. He is such a kind & gentle man who will never be forgotten. He raised two wonderful daughters and his legacy will always live on. May God watch over Mal, Heather & Caryn. Love you always.
Jack Enos
February 7, 2005
I am so sorry to to hear of his passing. Please accept my condolences. I served with him aboard the Sirago when we were kids.
Les Lammers
February 7, 2005
Mal,
I'm sorry for your loss. I remember
'Bunky' and the Sirago patrols like they were yesterday. He was a great shipmate.
Puddin
Ken (Stewburner) Frazier
February 7, 2005
Was shocked to hear Tom passed away.Tom was a good friend and shipmate to us all. The Frazier family sends our condolances to your family durning this sad time.
John Holmes
February 7, 2005
I served with Tom aboard the Sirago and he was a great guy and will be missed, John D. Holmes, Jupiter, FL.
Alicia Bootle
February 7, 2005
Mal,
I am keeping you and your family very close in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that the Lord will bless you with comfort, peace and love each day.
~ Alicia

Tom Antos Aboard USS Sirago (SS485)
Mike Bickel
February 7, 2005
Dear Mallory & Family:
I sailed with Tom on the USS Sirago. We all had nick names. His was "Bunky". We were all shocked to hear about his passing. Please consider coming to our reunion in August where he will be remembered.
Patsy Johnson
February 6, 2005
Mal:
I am so sorry to hear about Tom. Melissa sends her love to you and wanted me tell you how sorry she is. She thinks of you as 'One" of her moms.
Patsy
Tim France
February 6, 2005
Tom was Chief of the Boat on the Gold Crew of USS FRANCIS SCOTT KEY (SSBN 657) in the late 1980's. A true shipmate and a highly professional submariner. Our sincere sympathy to Mallory and the family.
Tim France, Captain, USN (Ret.)
Commanding Officer, USS FRANCIS SCOTT KEY(SSBN 657)(Gold) (1985-1988)
Lana NELSON
February 5, 2005
May there be peace, love and understanding at this time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Bless you, Lana and Paul Nelson
Larry and Sally Singer
February 5, 2005
Mal...Our thoughts and prays are with you and your family..Words cannot tell you how sorry we were to here of your lost...Tom will be missed by all that knew him...My God help you in your time of sorrow...
Love,
Larry and Sally Singer
Wes Florence
February 5, 2005
Jana, we share your sorrow for the loss of your dear brother. You and your family are continually in our thoughts and prayers.
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