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Theddis DeFee Obituary

DeFEE, Theddis Mr. Theddis "Ted" Marion DeFee, 71, of Hanahan, died Wednesday at his home. The funeral and burial will be at 2 p.m., Sunday, at Carolina Memorial Gardens. Mr. DeFee was born September 22, 1935, in Florence, SC. He was a retiree from the State Ports Authority. He was a member of Highland Park Baptist Church. He was the widower of Jasimine Baker DeFee. Survivors are his brothers and sisters, Vivian Rohling of Florence, Mary Dyson of Manning, and S.E. DeFee of Manning; children, Brenda Pennell (Mike) of Moncks Corner, Ted DeFee (Wanda) of Mt. Pleasant, Peggy DeFee of Hanahan, Michael DeFee of Hanahan, Dee Parker (Marty) of Burleston, TX, and Terry DeFee of Huger; grandchildren, Sonia Gunn, Jennifer Hester, Angela Musil, Brian Pennell, Kristy Ellisor, Amy DeFee, and Jonathan Parker; great-grandchildren, Holden Musil, Brianna Pennell, Hayden Musil, Hunter Musil, Capers Hester, Faith Gunn, and Ella Hester. Friends may call at CAROLINA MEMORIAL CHAPEL, from 7 p.m. to 9 p.m., Saturday evening. Visit our guestbook at www.charleston.net/deaths.

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier on Mar. 9, 2007.

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Pamela Capen

March 18, 2007

March 18, 2007

I extend my deepest condolences to the entire DeFee Family in the recent demise of your Father, Theddis DeFee who passed away this month. He shall rest in perfect peace. May God and his Angels watch over him in heaven always and forever. Amen

Brenda Pennell

March 17, 2007

Daddy was a very special person. To hear people talk about all the special things that he did for them was a wonderful legacy. His children and his grandchildren have a legacy that will be hard to follow. I am so glad that he is heaven with God and with my Mother. I asked him what right did he have to die and go to heaven and see my mother before I did and his reply was "What do you mean?? Your mama's waiting for me because its not heaven without me!" Typical of Daddy. I am grateful for the things he taught us and his love for his fellow man. May God bless each of us and may this family he left behind continue to be loving and supportive of one another. I am the oldest child left behind to care for this family and I will try to honor my Mother and Father;s wishes. I love you Daddy. Brenda

Wanda Bradshaw DeFee

March 13, 2007

I'll always remember the way Poppi laughed so heartily when he cracked one of his jokes. Yet on the flip side of that character, he was always so caring and truly treated me just like a daughter. I'll miss having him as an advisor and confidante; but his love, confidence, and respect will still continue to encourage me. May God comfort all our hearts with His peace.

Gene & Loretta Smith

March 12, 2007

Ted
Our love and prayers are with you. Your Dad was always a good friend. We sure did enjoy not only being neighbors with your family, but having you join our family.We love you all very much. May God bless and comfort each one of you.

Joey Shokes

March 10, 2007

Mike,

you and your family are in mine and my family's prayers.

Jenni Hester

March 10, 2007

I will miss Grandma and Poppi. They gave their love freely and abundantly. Now that they are gone from this Earth, what I prize most that they gave me is their respect. I will live with joy knowing that my actions and choices brought them a feeling of pride. It is my prayer that I live my life for the glory of God and in honor of those loved ones who have come before me.

Maree Smith (Canady)

March 9, 2007

Peggy,Angie,Amy,and family I am so sorry to hear the loss of your father and grandfather. May God comfort you and keep you. With deepest sympathy.

Janice Singley

March 9, 2007

Please accept our sympathy. Wanda and I worked at the Shipyard together many years ago.

anne Dennis

March 9, 2007

Peggy, Amy, Angie-I am so sorry for your loss, I love you and miss you all dearly. You are always in my prayers. God Bless you all.
Love always Anne,Cassie,Kim,Donnie

Edward Witmer

March 9, 2007

Mike,
To you and your family we extend our deepest sympathies at the loss of your father. Even though the days ahead will be difficult. God will give you the strength to sustain one another. May the Peace of our Lord, Jesus Christ be with all of you during this time of loss.
I. Jeanne and Ed Witmer

K. R. Kennedy

March 8, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. From Vivian Defee Kennedy and children, Linda Rice, Ken Kennedy, R. E. Kennedy Jr.

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