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Stevan Kroesen Obituary

Stevan Smith Kroesen CHARLESTON - Steve Kroesen passed peacefully at home Friday, February 4, following a valiant fight against cancer. Steve is the son of the late Joan Smith Kroesen and Robert Kline Kroesen. He is survived by his wife, Valerie Kroesen, daughters, Ashlinn Kroesen and Jordan Sweeney; his brother and sister-in-law, Scott and Robbin Kroesen of Texas, brother and sister-in-law, Chris and Martha Kroesen of Florida, his brother and sister-in-law, Jeff and Martha Kroesen of Massachusetts, and his brother, Jon Kroesen of Maryland. He was preceded in death by an older brother, who was lost at a very early age. Steve's faith gave him peace that he would be reunited with his brother and parents. He is survived by many nieces and nephews who he loved beyond words. He has an extended group of lifelong friends and many recently met whose relationships he has cherished. Steve grew up in Hopewell Township, NJ on New Road along with his four brothers. Over the years, many colorful stories have been shared about their time growing up on the farm, each brother with a different take. The last 30 years have been spent with his wife's family in Charleston, SC, where he most enjoyed relaxing on the beach and riding the waves. Steve played basketball in high school and over the years enjoyed skiing, snowmobiling, NASCAR, and was an avid Philadelphia Eagles fan. Traveling made him happy, and he was able to see many places on his life's bucket list. Steve graduated from Hopewell Valley High School in 1974. He subsequently started a long term career as a carpenter, who over the years used his expertise to create and build beautiful structures and unique pieces of work. He was most proud of the 250-year-old house that he and his wife renovated in Groveville, NJ and fondly went by the name "The Wood Doctor". Steve always discounted his talents saying that "anyone could do it". He was often reminded by family and friends that he was wrong, and you could always see his attention to detail until the finished creation was perfect. Without a doubt, the most important thing to Steve was his family. Many family reunions at Folly beach were held over the years with everyone sharing great stories and much laughter. Cremation was private and his ashes will be interred in Harbourton Cemetery near his parents, which was his lifelong wish. A celebration of his life will be planned for later this year in Charleston, SC. Steve's wish was for donations to be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, where a memorial has been set up in his name. Visit our guestbook at legacy.com/obituaries/charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Feb. 7 to Feb. 8, 2022.

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Al Cammarata

March 1, 2022

I worked with Steve at St. John's High School and periodically kept in touch with him after he left there. I got to observe him with the students and as he did not come from a background as a career teacher he had a unique work/life experience perspective that really connected with the kids. He was genuine and kind with his time at the school and I always saw him at football games supporting the kids. He had a great sense of humor and we had many great conversations. Truly a funny, good man. Rest in peace.

Paul Thurman

February 22, 2022

Steve came from 'good stock'. - As a HoVal alumni, I remember his perpetually happy/friendly/caring demeanor, smiling face, and curly locks. - Condolences & Best Wishes to his family through these difficult times.

Vicki Gattuso

February 18, 2022

I hired Steve for carpenter work and his work was amazing. We became good friends over the years & he introduced me to Valerie. Steve was quite the philosopher. He helped me through some difficult times (Val too). I look at his work every day and many good memories come back. I can almost hear Steve in heaven right now, chatting away. May God give Val and his daughters the strength they'll need to carry on

Geoffrey wieland

February 14, 2022

Our friendship goes way back . School - riding my bike to your house . Eating PBJ sandwiches. Colorado . And most important that we had kept in touch with each other . Me telling you about my accident situation and yours . I´m glad that we were able to spend time on the phone many times . God and the angles have accepted you into the arm so you don´t have to suffer no more . RIP my dear loving friend . Per Jerry I my soon be In touch with your wife and daughter. It will take time to heal . LU

peter fisher

February 13, 2022

Val, Ashlinn, Jorden, n all Kroesen brothers n family, my heart n thoughts are with you at this difficult time asking our lord to bring you all peace, RIP my dear friend Steveo

Matthew & Natasha Kroesen

February 11, 2022

Val, Ashlinn, Jordan, & Family,

Our sincere condolences! We are so so sorry for your loss! We are praying for you & thinking of you! Sending all the prayers, hugs, and kisses your way! We will miss Steve so much! We love you so much!

Emily Champion

February 9, 2022

Valerie - You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May your memories together bring you peace and comfort in the days ahead.

Monica Reinsfelder-AKA-BFF

February 9, 2022

Valerie: Words cannot begin to express my condolences for you and your family. But at least now Steve is out of pain and now with the angels. Your memories and love will last a lifetime. Some days I am sure will be better than others but God is good and will be there to provide the comfort you and your family will need. You are a strong woman with a beautiful heart and soul and are loved by many. God Bless and Fly High now Steve and provide your family with the comfort they will need in the coming days and years.

Jean Collins

February 9, 2022

Dear Valerie, May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. I am so sorry for your loss.

Bob Marut

February 8, 2022

RIP my friend, you will be truly missed.

Elizabeth Young

February 8, 2022

Steve was well-loved in life and will be missed by all. I pray you will weep with your whole heart to come to peace with his passing and find laughter & love in your memories of Steve.

William Kunkel

February 8, 2022

So sorry to hear about Stevan. Losing a brother is tough.

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