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Shirley Creek Obituary

Shirley Creek CHARLESTON - Shirley Creek, also known as "Mom," "Grammy," and "Sweetie," passed away early on Friday, March 10, 2023. Both of her children, Jen Vaughn Hayes and Rob Vaughn, were by her side, holding her hands. We like to imagine that we helped her find her way to another garden - a place where she can walk and rest, much as she did in life, surrounded not only by her plants but also by cats, chickens, wildlife, and of course, friends, all of whom she provided with a place of sanctuary and company throughout the years. We will remember Mom for her enduring landscape designs, beautiful garden center, and the wonderful playground she created there, and in her home, for her grandchildren. We have countless memories of holidays - Christmas and 4th of July especially - filled with "Grammy Magic." She gathered family, friends, and customers (many of whom became interchangeable with one another) around her table throughout the year and over many years, serving up coffee and companionship. She reminded us of all of the hard work it took to live her early life on a farm, and to be grateful for what we had. She doted on her grandchildren (and grandpets!) with clever gifts and creative activities. Mom was born on January 14, 1948, in Dover, Pennsylvania, as Shirley Ann Mummert to her parents, Sterling Jack Mummert and Helen Ruth Goodwin. She spent most of her childhood on her father's farm in Dillsburg, PA, doing everything from raising dairy cattle to picking strawberries to selling produce at market, while growing up with her siblings Carl, Jane, Mark, Randy, and Karen. When she wasn't working hard at her chores or being active in 4H, she helped her teacher with the younger students at a one-room schoolhouse until she went to Dover High School, where she graduated with the class of 1965. From there she got her education degree from Shippensburg College and worked for a time as a teacher. Later she worked as a hostess and waitress at many restaurants, married, had two children, lived in many places up and down the East Coast, and became a gift shop manager. After her divorce from her first husband, Mom apprenticed with and took over her stepfather's landscaping and plant nursery business (Emig's Garden Center) in New Oxford, PA, as well as her mother's antiques shop. She also met, married, and enjoyed many years with her second husband, Bill Creek. Bill loved her very much, and the two of them also ran a small trucking business for several years. In her final few years, she moved into the Overture Senior Living Community, just a mile away from Jen and family in Charleston, SC. She enjoyed many wonderful times there with her new friends and community, and was helpful to everyone as a plant expert, friend, and driver. We will miss Mom dearly, but we are grateful for her hard work to provide for us when we were children, the lessons she taught us about life, and for all of the magical moments and memories she created for her grandchildren Finn, Lila, and Cora. We will carry her with us, and so will her grandchildren, as we continue down the path that she taught us all how to travel. Visit our guestbook at legacy.com/obituaries/charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Mar. 14 to Mar. 15, 2023.

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The Barry´s

April 21, 2023

Shirl was a wonderful caregiver to her family, friends, flowers, plants, cats and birds. We loved visiting with her, and she was an inspiration in her life and her work. All that she planted and loved will be remembered for generations to come. We will be forever grateful for her impact, The Barry´s

Teresa Kendall

March 23, 2023

I´m so sorry for your loss. Ms Shirley has a kind heart and a beautiful soul. I have always enjoyed and looked forward to my visits with her.- Teresa K

Margaret Hayes

March 16, 2023

Shirl came into our family when our son Patrick married her daughter Jennifer in 2001. Over the years we shared many happy family occasions and we were delighted when she moved to Charleston in 2021. During her short time with us we had many good times but were saddened to see her suffer so much. Shirl was a delightful, wonderful person and we will miss her very much. Our condolences to Jennifer, Rob, Finn, Lila and her siblings.
John & Margaret Hayes

Anne Duncan

March 16, 2023

I am so glad that I became a friend of Shirl. She was amazing in her months of suffering. Her balcony was filled with her lovely plants and her apartment was so cozy and filled with her generous spirit.

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