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Shelba Pender Obituary

Shelba Pender N. Charleston - Shelba Romesburg Pender, 81, beloved mother, grandmother, great grandmother, and sister died Thursday, May 31st, 2018. Shelba was born in Metter, GA on March 22nd, 1937 to Hubert Harry and Lydia "Inez" Edwards Romesburg. Shelba retired from Naval Facilities Command Charleston as a Purchasing Agent. Her greatest love was spending time with her family. Shelba was preceded in death by her husband, Lonnie O. Pender, Jr, her parents and brother Glenn Romesburg. She is survived by her sons, Mark Pender (Donna) Summerville, Gil Pender (Sue) Clarksville, TN, and daughter Lynn McElveen, Summerville, grandchildren; Michael Banks, Julia Banks, Lauren Pearce, Jenna Brown, Stephen Pender, Nicole Gracey, and Kristen Pender. Shelba was also the proud Mamaw to five great grand-daughters. She is also survived by three brothers, Harry Romesburg, Jr, Soddy Daisy, TN, David Romesburg, Winston Salem, NC and Jerry Romesburg, Soddy Daisy, TN. The funeral service will be held on Tuesday, June 5th at 1 PM in the Chapel of Carolina Memorial Funeral Home. The family will receive friends from 12 - 1PM prior to the service. Burial will follow at Live Oak Memorial Gardens. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Pediatric Neurosciences Research through "Giving to MUSC" at https://connect2.musc.edu/neurosciences or the Susan G. Komen Foundation. Online condolences can be made by visiting www.carolinamemorial.com. Services entrusted to CAROLINA MEMORIAL PARK FUNERALS AND CREMATION, 7113 Rivers Ave. N Charleston, SC 29406, 843-797-2222. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Jun. 2 to Jun. 3, 2018.

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Ann Hartman

June 3, 2018

You will be missed by all that had the pleasure of knowing you.I know you are with our Lord and resting peacefully.

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