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Sally Dunbar Atwater

1951 - 2021

Sally Dunbar Atwater obituary, 1951-2021, Charleston, DC

BORN

1951

DIED

2021

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Sally Atwater Obituary

Sally Dunbar Atwater Washington, D.C. - Sally Dunbar Atwater was born April 29, 1951 in Union, South Carolina and passed away on March 9, 2021 surrounded by her three loving daughters at her home in Washington, DC following a three-year long battle with Stage IV Lung Cancer. She was the daughter of the late Theodosia Wilson Dunbar and Means Curtis Dunbar and the wife of the late Harvey LeRoy "Lee" Atwater, the GOP strategist and former Republican National Committee chairman. Sally was a committed educator from a young age. She earned her Bachelor's in Elementary and Special Education from Winthrop University and continued her studies, completing her Master's degree in Special Education there while simultaneously working as a special needs teacher. In 1978, Sally and Lee Atwater wed in her hometown of Union, SC. In 1990, Sally's husband, Lee, was diagnosed with a terminal brain tumor, of which he succumbed to in 1991. Sally was left to raise her three girls, Sara Lee (10 Y/O), Ashley Page (5 Y/0), and Sally T. (11 M/O) by herself. She was able get through the toughest years, relying on her family, friends, and unwavering faith in the Lord. After raising her three girls, she served under President George W. Bush as his executive director for the Committee for the People with Intellectual Disabilities, which she successfully lobbied to be renamed from its former title The President's Committee for People with Mental Retardation. She returned to South Carolina from Washington in 2012, where she worked as a special education teacher and later ran for State Superintendent of Education, a race which she narrowly lost. Mrs. Atwater was an active member of the Capitol City Republican Women's Club and the Richland County Republican Party. She also served as an at-large delegate to the Republican National Convention from South Carolina in 2016. She volunteered regularly, doing door to door campaign work for the Republican party, and acted as a poll watcher for the Charleston County Republican party on election day in 2016. Mrs. Atwater was committed and beloved member of her country, community and family. She will be remembered with great love by her three daughters, Sara Lee Atwater (Dieter De Vlieghere), Ashley Atwater Vazana (Nis Vazana), and Sally Atwater McLeod (Rob McLeod); her brother, Curtis Dunbar (Sonja Dunbar); grandchildren, Evelyn, Arthur, Aviv and a forthcoming grandson's arrival in April; mother-in-law, Toddy Atwater; and sister-in-law, Anne King (Ken King). She was predeceased in death by her husband, Harvey LeRoy "Lee" Atwater. A private graveside service will be held. There will be a livestream of the service starting at 11:00 a.m. Saturday, March 13, 2021 on Dunbar Funeral Home - Devine's Facebook page: www.facebook.com/DunbarDevine Active pallbearers will be Curtis Dunbar, Daniel Dunbar, Chris King, Ken King, Rob McLeod, and Nis Vazana. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the American Lung Cancer Association in honor of Sally Atwater using the following link: https://action.lung.org/site/TR/Events/General?pg=fund&fr_id=1080&pxfid=161839 Memories may be shared at www.dunbarfunerals.com. Visit our guestbook at legacy.com/obituaries/charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Mar. 11 to Mar. 12, 2021.

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Will Tienken

April 1, 2021

Sally's warm smile, knowing laugh ,compassion and kind sprit was a unique combination in the world of politics but perfect for the world she cared most about: her family and friends.
Such a cliché to say Sally will be missed, in this case, for all who know her,its the truth!

Lynn Goldberg

March 14, 2021

I met Sally at Church in the early 1980's. Neither of our husbands attended, so we bonded over getting our young children to services and Sunday school. She was a wonderful friend with a great sense of humor and perspective. We used to get together with my young daughter and toddler twin boys for girls night with her girls. I remember one time when she and I were in her kitchen and we realized we hadn't heard the kids for a bit. They had gotten into the Christmas decorations and eaten parts of the old candy cane wreaths! Gradually, we lost touch after I moved away to CT with my family in the late 1980's. I wish the best to her daughters Sara, Ashley and Sally.

Elaine & Jay Kennerly

March 13, 2021

Sally was always so inclusive of those around her. I was so pleased when she and Lee were married, she asked me to be her stand in bride at the rehearsal. Her cousin, Jay, my husband, and I had the pleasure of visiting with Sally & Lee in Washington. Sally led us on tours, we sat in the President’s box for the play, The Grass is Greener. We always gathered with Sally and her family at Christmas in Columbia. Jay and Lee gathered at our house for runs through our neighborhood while Sally and I gathered on the back porch for conversations filled with laughter. She was such a joy to be with.

Terry Mann Jackson

March 12, 2021

Sally had a very positive attitude, an infectious smile, and a zest for life. These attributes enabled her to make valuable contributions to the field of education and to raise three beautiful daughters, all on her own.

Jean Lybrand Broom

March 12, 2021

Sally and I have been friends for over fifty years, beginning with band at UHS, and teaching together in Columbia. Lee and Sally, Frank and I enjoyed times together as young married couples. We visited them in Washington, and they showed us around the town. They were a great couple, and she was loved by everyone. We know your family will miss her!

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