Ruby Martin Obituary

To all Family and Friends:

Family: I love you all and I know you miss Granny as much as I do and I wanted to share a few things with you in hopes that it will bring you comfort as it does me. Granny is in a wonderful place now and I know she watches over us and is smiling the whole time. When I get sad I think of the times she used to kiss me and hug me so tight I could barely breathe, she would always nuzzle her chin up next to my cheek and I would giggle beacuse her chin hairs would tickle. I believe that is the best memory I have of Granny, besides the hate she had for fish.She couldn't stand the sight or smell of fish. Popa would get her fired up about fish and she was so funny when she carried on about it.

Friends: However long you may have known Granny, you know how special she was and that's is why you'll understand what I'm going to say: Do not feel sorry for us (her family) but envy us, because I for one feel very lucky to have her in my life as long as she was. I am so grateful for having the opportunity to tell her bye and that I loved her very much. I am grateful to know that she was ready to go home and to know that she is in a better place. It brings me great comfort to know that she did not fear death, and to know her savior was there with her. I know she is with us everyday and I will honor her forever by setting an example for my children the way she did us. I will teach them to treat others the way they want to be treated, to teach them to smile as much as possible and accept everyone that comes into their lives with warmth. To let them know hugs and kisses go a long way so share them whenever possible and no matter how hard life seems to be, never be bitter and never blame anyone for their misfortunes. Most importantly, pray, pray pray, for Jesus Christ is our savior and will be the only one to see us through to the end! We love and miss you so much Granny watch over us always and lead us down the right path so we may be with you again someday!

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007

Mrs. Ruby will be missed.

To the Family of the Late Mrs. Ruby Adams:
I met Mrs.Ruby about 2 years ago now and everytime I would sit and talk to her she would smile no matter how she was feeling, or what mood she was in. Mrs. Ruby was so dear to many of us at RAI and Hallmark she will be missed. She is in a better place where there is no more pain and suffering. TO Arlene and the other very dear family members be encourage and remember God does not make mistakes. If I can be of any assistance please call upon me.

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I know you'll find comfort knowing she is resting at peace with God. You are all in my thoughts, may God be with you.

Ruby was such a special lady, she was the kind of person that could touch you with a smile, I had so many long special talks with her, I know she is resting now in a special place, I will always remember Ruby, one could not help but fall in love with this wonderful person, my kids and I have a special place in our hearts, bless all of you family members who are feeling sad at this time and remember her deep in your hearts, for she will place a smile on you with beautiful moments remembered.