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Robert Varnes Obituary

VARNES, Robert Robert Rob Allen Varnes, husband of Elizabeth Bennett Varnes, passed away on Thursday, September 18, 2008. The family will receive friends at J. HENRY STUHR, INC, MOUNT PLEASANT CHAPEL Saturday from 4:00 until 6:00 o'clock. A Celebration of Rob's Life will be held on Sunday, September 21, 2008, at Eastbridge Presbyterian Church, Mt. Pleasant, at two o'clock. A graveside service will be in High Street Cemetery, Rocky Mount, VA, on Monday, September 22, 2008, at four o'clock. Rob was born August 7, 1962, in Lincoln, Nebraska, son of the late Robert Harry Varnes and Mary Ann Pahler Varnes. A graduate of The University of North Carolina Charlotte and Old Dominion University, Rob was the Director of Information Technology and Homeland Security with Scientific Research Corporation. He was blessed to serve as the Chair of the Board of Deacons of Eastbridge Presbyterian Church. Rob is survived by his wife, Beth; three daughters: Catherine A. Varnes, Elizabeth A. Varnes, and Rebecca A. Varnes, all of Mt. Pleasant, SC; and two sisters: Patricia Kinnebrew of West Palm Beach, FL, and Cindy Zarrilli of Atlanta, GA. In lieu of flowers, memorials in Rob's name may be made to the Deacon Benevolence Fund, Eastbridge Presbyterian Church, 3058 Highway 17 North, Mt. Pleasant, SC 29466. A memorial message may be written to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at www.charleston.net/deaths.

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier on Sep. 20, 2008.

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Laurie Sun

September 30, 2008

Beth and girls,
I am just now getting the news about Rob. There are no words to describe how my heart breaks for you. You all are near and dear to us though we live miles apart. Please know that the impact Rob had on our life will never be forgotten. His example of a godly life is one that George has always admired and will continue to. We don't know what the months and years ahead will bring, but we know your faith is strong - though shaken - and are praying you through this sorrowful time. Rob will be missed so much. We love you guys

Libbie Timmons

September 30, 2008

Dear Sweet Varnes Family,
You all are an incredible blessing to anyone who is around you. We deeply mourn your loss and are praying for God to comfort you.

Kristen and Chris Brace

September 25, 2008

Dearest Beth, Catherine, Elizabeth and Rebecca- I just heard tonight from Marianne about the loss of your husband and dad....words can't express my heart that goes out to you all. I think I might have met him on a number of occasions in the PCA hallway and understood he was an amazing man and soo much loved Jesus and his family. You all are in our prayers and will continue to be.

Tommy Dowdy

September 25, 2008

Beth,
I was sorry to hear of your loss. I enjoyed working with you and Rob several years ago.

Scott Dyer

September 25, 2008

Dear Beth,
Tonight, I received the sad news of Robert's death. Although I didn't know Robert, I'm encouraged by the words from many entries that knew him as a 'Christian Man', joyous to be around, gentle, had an infectious smile, encourager, etc. which should be celebrated. In sympathy, I grieve your loss. Please know that you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Chris & Cindy Hollar

September 24, 2008

Beth,

The memorial service for Rob was a beautiful tribute to him, and an inspiration to all. We are keeping you and your girls in our prayers. Please call us or let us know if you need any help in the near (or far) future...

Laurie Jarrett Rogers

September 22, 2008

Dear Beth and your beautiful daughters,
This tragic news about your family has hit the Blacksburg High School crowd hard. I am deeply saddened to learn of this unspeakable loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God hold you close during this incredible time. May you know always that Rob has been taken somewhere else, somewhere we cannot come just yet but somewhere with God forever. The peace of the Lord be always with you. With love from Laurie (LJ)

Andrea Langley

September 22, 2008

Catherine and family,
I know I can speak for the tennis team at Academic Magnet. We love you and we are here for you anytime. There is no way to process this loss with out the support of others and time. From what I have gathered meeting your family, your faith is extremely strong. I am just so sorry that you are grieving. Your father was amazing just look at how wonderful you turned out. His spirit will live on in you. Peace of the Lord be with you now and always. We will be in touch. Much love from the tennis team

Rebecca Sherwood

September 22, 2008

To the Varnes Family,

So sorry to hear the sad news about Robert, however, I do know from working with him that he was a good man and a man of faith so we have hope of seeing him again. How wonderful that will be! My prayers are with all of you as you grieve his absence.

Louise Lazzarini

September 21, 2008

Beth and family,
Robert was such a great example of what a christian man should be. His joy was always evident by the smile on his face. The confidence he felt knowing where his ultimate home would be is testimony for all to learn from and remember. You are all in my prayers.

Lane Melton

September 21, 2008

Hi Beth,
I worked with you and Robert at SRC around 1995. I am so sorry to hear of his passing and wish you and the children all the best. Our prayers are with you.

Jeri Drouillard

September 21, 2008

Beth, We are so sorry for your loss. Robert was a very special person with an infectious smile. Our thoughts are with you and your girls.
Jeri Drouillard - Long Point Pharmacy

Berta P Puckhaber

September 21, 2008

Dear Beth, Catherine, Elizabeth, Rebecca, I am so sorry for your loss. When Rob dropped in at the PCA Office while I was honored to work with you Beth, and all the years you girls attended PCA... I always smiled after his visits. Robert Varnes was one of the tallest, quietest, gentlest, most polite, humble, Jesus loving encouragers I ever met. He would show up out of no where, with his broad quiet smile, speak gentle words of praise and thanks for the service done making us feel like Jesus Himself had visited. Then, as quickly as he arrived, he would quietly disappear. I'm convinced Rob Varnes is "Safe in the Arms of Jesus". I pray God grant you Beth, Catherine, Elizabeth and Rebecca, full freedom to grieve your precious loss, accept the love showered on you by friends, and fully believe there will be a happy reunion forever with Rob and Christ Jesus our Lord as I Thessalonians 4: 13-18 promises. I love you and this sends you too a big holy love hug~~~

John Carvil

September 21, 2008

Dear Beth,
Our sincerest condolences. I'll always remember Robert's smile as being infectious. He made one feel good just being around him. He was a true gentlemen. I'll also remember how the two of you went to task on your house in Riverview. You both dared to do more than most people and you both had a great time doing it together.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely,
John and Sue Ellen Carvil

Jeanette Snook

September 21, 2008

My dearest Beth and girls,
My heart was broke when I received the word about your dear husband and father. I could not think of anything else Thursday night as I tried to sleep. I spent much time praying for you. I can still see your sweet girls with their Daddy at PCA. You are in my prayers faithfully. I do not know any words to express what I would like to say to you except I am praying for you. I am so sorry. I know that your dear Eastbridge Family will care for you deeply.
Praying faithfully for you.
Jeanette Snook

Dawn Lawrence

September 20, 2008

Catherine, words cannot express my compassion for you in the loss of your father. It was an honor to work with him in the IPC Lab at SPAWAR which led to meeting you this summer. If you need anything or just want to talk, please let me know. I have also lost my father and know the pain you are going through.

Dawn Lawrence
[email protected]

Neil Lark

September 20, 2008

Dear Beth, Catherine, Elizabeth, Rebecca, Shirley, & Wayne,

Our hearts grieve with you from Clemson. It is our most sincere prayer that God will be with you in a comforting presence now and in the days to come.

God bless you all,
The College Committee of Clemson First Baptist Church.

Dion and Heather Martin

September 20, 2008

Robert was an amazing man. My husband worked for him for 12 years and thought highly of him. We enjoyed reading about how much he loved his family in the Christmas letters that we received and now hold so dear. I pray that God will wrap his arms around you all and comfort you through your loss. I know that God is smiling as he welcomes Robert home.

You family is in our prayers.

Alan Wilson

September 20, 2008

Dearest Beth and girls, We love you and our hearts break with you. We pray that the Lord will sustain you and comfort you in ways you cannot now imagine. Alan and Julie

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