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Robert W. Ulmer "Bobby" SUMMERVILLE - Robert W. "Bobby" Ulmer, 63, of Summerville, SC died Friday, December 5, 2009, in North Charleston, SC. Born June 8, 1946, in Charleston, SC, Bobby was the youngest of three children of Jesse Willard Ulmer and Effie Goude Ulmer. After high school he joined the US Army and served two tours in Vietnam in the 101st Air Borne division as a Green Beret. He served in the US Navy Reserve and later retired from the US Air Force Reserve. Bobby's second career was as a nuclear inspector at the Charleston Naval Base. Following his retirement from civil service, Bobby went to work at the Lieber Correctional Institution located in Ridgeville and retired from the Department of Corrections. He was a member of the Old Fort Masonic Lodge No. 420, Dorchester Shrine and Omar Shrine Temple. Bobby was also a member of the VFW in Ladson. He is survived by his wife, Brenda Beasley, sons, Robert Christopher Ulmer of Mt. Pleasant, and Kevin Franklyn Ulmer of Atlanta, GA; his mother Effie G. Ulmer of Summerville; stepson, Rollin Earl Beasley of West Covina, CA; step-daughter, Rhonda Catherian Lawliss, and her husband, Michael, of Savannah, GA; sister, Jessie L. Johnson, and her husband, Gordon, of Satellite Beach, FL; brother, David T. Ulmer, and his wife, Pat, of Lexington, NC; and three grandchildren: Ryan Fenn, Shane Cox, and Tyler Lawliss. The funeral service will be held in J. HENRY STUHR, INC., NORTHWOODS CHAPEL, 2180 Greenridge Road, Wednesday, December 9, 2009, at 11 o'clock. Interment with military honors will follow in Carolina Memorial Park. The family will receive friends at Stuhr's Northwoods Chapel on Tuesday, between 6:00 p.m. and 8:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers memorials may be made to Francis Willis SPCA, P.O. Box 1116, Summerville, SC 29484. A memorial message may be written to the family by visiting our website www.jhenrystuhr.com Visit our guestbook at www.postandcourier.com/deaths

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier on Dec. 8, 2009.

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JoAnn Foulds

December 15, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Remember and cherish the many happy moments that you shared together as a family. They will help to sustain you over time.

Jimmy & Teresa Moore

December 9, 2009

As I read some of the other entries,other friends have the same opinion, you were an old friend, a good friend and you were always there if someone needed you. You could make people laugh, but you had a big heart and would do anything you could to help a friend, Bobby you will be missed. Jimmy Moore Summerville,S.C

Darrell Eidem

December 9, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. I had the distinct pleasure of serving in the Air Force Reserve with Bobby. He was indeed a special person and a definite asset to the units to which he was assigned. I thank God for the opportunity to have been a small part of Bobbies life. May God Bless your family and comfort you during the upcoming days.

mary donohoe

December 9, 2009

Best wishes to all of you in the Ulmer family, and God Bless You as you move forward after the loss of Bobby. To Effie, in the loss of her son; and to David and Jessie Lee in their loss of a brother. And to his wife and children, who lost a husband and father. I am one of you.....
an aunt, Mary (Ulmer) Donohoe, now in Mesa, Arizona..........I still love all of you, and love that beautiful state of South Carolina.
Again, God Bless You, and be close to you. All of my love to each of you.......Aunt Mary

Myra Ackerman

December 9, 2009

Bobby, you will be sadly missed. Always with a joke and a camera. Our deepest sympathy to your family. Love,
Myra & Bill Ackerman

December 8, 2009

My prayers, and condolencies to the Family and Friends of Robert Ulmer and good by to A comrade at arms .may god keep him and bless him forever .....SFC.Howard B. Johnson (B-3-11-SFGA)

Lew Aston

December 8, 2009

Bobby- You will be sadly missed at our next Garrett High School Class of 64 Reunion. You leave all of us in the Class, as well as those of us from the old Waylyn neighborhood and those with whom you shared your wealth of jokes and anecdotes by e-mail, plenty of fond memories of you and your antics to hash around.

MIKE THOMPSON

December 8, 2009

Bobbby, i have been your neighbor for 12 years now , i feel like I've been your friend forever. I will never forget the small talk over the back fence , and the way you always looked over my family while i was away. The practical jokes and cold beers out in the driveway will be missed very much. You were like a father to me at times , but mostly a very good friend. It's not easy getting used to you not being here, things will never be the same. My heart goes out to Brenda , Miss Effie,Chris, Rhonda , and Ryan , as well as the rest of your family.You always will willing to help anybody out no mater what it was, you will be missed very much. MIKE THOMPSON

Stacy & Peggy Coffield

December 8, 2009

I'm sorry for you lost. May god be with you and your family through this tough time! If you need anything just give us a call.

Ann Petit-Bradt

December 8, 2009

David and Jesse,
Sorry to hear about your brother.
My prayers are with you and your families.
Hope to see you both at our upcoming 50th class reunion.

Gene pittman

December 8, 2009

Bobby, we will miss your smiles & your wit, the pictures you always took but most of all the friendship you gave no matter who it was or the place or time. You were a brother both in arms, memories but most of all in our hearts, we love and will miss you, love you Gene Pittman & Marcia Jackson

David Reynolds

December 8, 2009

From the officers and men of 'B' Co., 3rd Bn, 11th Special Forces Group. We offer our sympathy to you in this sad time.

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