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Lindsay Epstein
September 2, 2020
Dearest Marilyn and family
When I heard about your loss so many memories of Evanston came rushing back. In the 1980’s when we were neighbors I didn’t see much of Robert. He was so busy helping others. Marilyn and I got to know each other well! And we helped raise each other’s kids. Please reach out to me if you want to talk. Love, Lindsay Epstein
Jim Root
August 16, 2020
We were so saddened to see the notice of Robert's passing. We had not seen him for many years. We were neighbors in Evanston in the 80's and have very fond memories of him and his family. Much love to Marilyn and family.
Jim and Elizabeth Root
Patricia and Gary Folven
August 13, 2020
A man of such grace and depth has left us all deeply saddened. Marilyn and her family have given us examples of much warmth and devotion under extended sad circumstances. God rest Robert’s soul and grant comfort to Marilyn, David, Elizabeth, Joanna. He will be missed in so many ways by all who knew him and who were fortunate to spend time with him along life’s way.
Pat and Gary Folven
Denise Whiteurst Felton
August 12, 2020
To Bob's family and friends, I am so sorry to learn of your loss. In the early 90's, I worked for McBride Baker & Coles for Carol Lenkart, who reported directly to Bob. He was professional and personable, a combination that is not always found, especially in well-read professionals of his caliber. I had a lot of respect for him and consider it a privilege to have known him. I left Chicago in 1994 to relocate to Oklahoma, and today was informed of his passing by someone who was certain that I'd want to know. I will pray for strength for those of you who remain to mourn his loss. I trust you will receive strength as only God can grant.
André Frieden
August 12, 2020
My deepest condolences for your loss. As a junior associate at McBride, I remember many interesting conversations with Bob on a range of legal and other topics. He was kind and thoughtful, and his advice was always useful. It was a pleasure to interact with him. My thoughts are with you.
Anne Gallagher
August 12, 2020
Many years ago, I consulted with MBB and worked with Bob. A wonderful, kind and thoughtful man. It's not always easy being a good guy in a competitive business like law but that is what defined Bob. His example will always live on.
Bill Russell
August 12, 2020
Dear Marilyn and Family,
My deepest condolences. I got to know Bob only for a relatively short period while I was at McBride as a summer and first year associate, but he made a lasting and very positive impression on me. I will forever be grateful for him giving me my first opportunity as a practicing attorney at McBride, and for the knowledge and wisdom he shared. I knew then that Bob was an especially gifted lawyer and a genuinely kind and thoughtful person, with a uniquely down to Earth view of the World. I wish I'd have had the chance to get to know him much better. My thoughts are with you.
Laura Derouin
August 12, 2020
I was a mid-level associate at McBride, and then at Holland & Knight. Bob and I rarely worked together, but he did interview me and for the rest of my time at the firm always had a smile and a kind word. I could see how respected and admired he was by my colleagues, and every interaction I had with him left me with no doubt as to why that would be. I'm so sorry for your loss. May your memories bring you comfort in the days ahead.
Steven Bashaw
August 12, 2020
Bob was one of the most compassionate lawyers, and the best managing partner, I have ever known. He impacted my life and my family greatly in our time together.
Steve Bashaw
Carolyn Ferry
August 12, 2020
Dear Marilyn, Liz, Johanna and David,
I remember Robert as such a kind and approachable person, a friend always and a joy to spend time with or bump into in the hallway. My husband Pete recalls him as a loving father to his talented Lake Forest High School kids. What a loss! We extended our deepest sympathies to you on the loss of a truly wonderful person.
Carolyn and Pete Ferry
Betsy Perdue
August 11, 2020
Marilyn and family - Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope you know how many lives Bob touched, and how we are all so much better persons for having known him. He was the trusted advisor we all turned to for a insightful, caring and creative response, delivered with that signature smile and laugh. I will miss him greatly.
Shirley Macielag
August 11, 2020
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Jonathan Strouse
August 10, 2020
Marilyn and family- My deepest sympathies. Bob was one of the smartest and best attorneys that I have ever practiced with in my career. He was a fabulous person and always cared about the people around him. He was an excellent attorney, a great writer, and a brilliant thinker. And a great athlete too. I will miss him greatly.
Carole ONeil
August 10, 2020
Marilyn and family,
Dick and I are so very sorry to hear of Roberts passing. He suffered so much these last few years. You have been there for him every step of the way
Peace be with all of you
Love
Dick and Carole
Alfred Ford
August 9, 2020
Marilyn & Family,
Our thought's and prayers are with you and your family. Robert was such a wonderful neighbor and we will surely miss him.
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