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Robert Pilling Obituary

Robert Stephen Pilling SUMMERVILLE - Robert Stephen Pilling, 67, of Summerville. He fought a hard battle but eventually the traumatic brain injury he suffered from won. He enjoyed tinkering, having a beer with friends, and getting his ham radio license. He was also proud to follow in his father's footsteps when he became a Mason. He was a wonderful husband, father, brother, uncle, son, and veteran. He loved his work and traveling the world which he brought his family along on some of his trips. He loved Singapore and took his family many times. He leaves behind Debbie, his wife of 40 years. His son and daughter-in-law Jason and Sophia, brother Richard, and favorite niece Megan, 5 nephews and brother and sister-in-laws, cousins, and co-workers. I would like to thank the many nurses, techs, and therapists at Vibra, Riverside, and Hospice of Charleston. A service will be held in his honor on Wednesday May 18, 2016 at 11AM at Hillcrest Baptist Church (3595 Ashley Phosphate Road North Charleston, SC 29418). Arrangements are by Simplicity Lowcountry Cremation & Burial Services (www.lowcountryfuneral.com). Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from May 16 to May 17, 2016.

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Dave Lindey. CTMC

June 27, 2025

BZ, and following seas!

Robert 'Jake' Jacoby

August 15, 2024

RIP my friend. Very belated condolences to his family and his friends. So sorry to hear not only of his his passing, but how horribly it occurred. :( I learned a ton from him about how to properly t'shoot and maintain the systems. I really enjoyed our conversations over drinks and dinner(s) after all those many long days at Lajes, Augsburg & DG. Thank you Skiff for keeping this page up and available.

George Wiederock

May 19, 2024

Hey Steve, Thinking of you bro.

George Wiederock

May 10, 2023

I can't believe 7 years have past! I think of Steve often and I miss him very much.

Dennis Skiffington

May 10, 2022

Yo Steve...

Thinking back on all our "Good Times", around the world...

Sure was a Blast!...

Thinking of You with every Heiniken I have...

Semper-Fi // Skiff...

George Wiederock

May 10, 2022

Steve,
Missing you buddy!

George Wiederock

May 11, 2021

I miss you buddy!

Joe and Nancy Martin

May 10, 2021

In loving memory of a wonderful person. Remembering you today and always.

George Wiederock

May 11, 2020

Steve thinking of you and your family.

Joe

May 10, 2020

In loving memory of Steve . We will love you and miss you always.

September 10, 2017

I first met Steve in ET school, Then we went to Pensacola. Next was Guam. He went Edsel, and I went further west for next few years. We did a lot of things together, but I lost track of him, he was a good friend. Gary Peters

ALLEN KRESS

July 29, 2016

Debbie I just read about Steve's passing and I am so sorry. I knew him inEdzel and he was like a brother to my family. He was a great shipmate, worked hard, had lots of fun, humorous and a good friend. He will be truly missed. Allen Kress

George Wiederock

July 14, 2016

Debbie,
I am still coming to grips with the loss of Steve. On more than one occasion recently I received an email related to the work I did with Steve in the past, and immediately he would pop onto my mind, and I think to myself he would know the answer off the top of his head. A second after thinking of him the shock of his loss overtakes me and sadness sets in. I get over this by thinking of one of the funny things Steve said or did that made me laugh so many times during our time together. Even when things were not going smoothly Steve would make a joke and we'd plow ahead and eventually get past our problem and celebrate later over a beer or two. Geez I really miss that geezer. If there is anything I can do for you please don't hesitate to ask. Regards, George

July 12, 2016

Debbie...

In Honor of Steve, and our friendship over many years, I have permanently extended this GuiestBook...

And I was drinking a Heineken whrn I did it

Dennis Skiffington, aka 'Skiff'/'The Great One'

P Foster

June 14, 2016

Debbie
We are very, very sorry about Steve's passing. Even though we only new him a short time, his infectious personality was impossible to ignore. I'll never forget some of his real-life stories and how humorous and intelligent he was. I do know that he loved you dearly and it showed. The world lost a valuable individual, while heaven gained a glowing angel of immense notoriety.

O E

June 14, 2016

Mrs Pilling
I enjoyed your husbands visit and his taciturn sense of humor. His accident and its tragic outcome saddens me.

Janet Bunker

June 14, 2016

Dear Debbie, Jason and Sophia
My memories go back a long way, even before Jason was born...Horseback riding together...Little sister lying at baby Jason's door, washing his face when he lay on the couch.
Visiting at the house next to the post office - Steve tinkering with the Mercedes with classical music playing...
So many more, All good ones. A special man, a special family.
Love
Janet & Eli

Pat Reid

June 14, 2016

There are no words to fill the wit and humor Steve had. I always looked forward to speaking to him. Now I'll remember all things good.

June 14, 2016

We miss you!

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Dad was telling me to pound sand because I was making fun of the silly little backpack Mom made him wear.

June 14, 2016

In Singapore

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Having a bier in Switzerland.

June 14, 2016

In the Merlions mouth, Singapore.

June 14, 2016

Tom Prevost

June 4, 2016

Debbie,

I knew Steve in Homestead and remember him as a great shipmate and loved his dry sense of humor. I was in touch with him last year and had hoped to meet up with him. So sorry for your loss. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Tom Prevost, former CTMC

David Jones

June 4, 2016

Debbie,

My condolences for your loss. I just found out about Steve's passing from John Butterfield. I knew Steve from my days in the navy and had a deep respect for him and his work ethic (Edzell, San Vito, Winter Harbor). We had some great times. I leave this with prayers and thoughts for you and those he had to leave behind. David Jones, USNR CTMCM

John Butterfiels

June 4, 2016

Debbie, I remember fondly your kind hospitality to me while going through training with Steve in Pensacola.
So sorry to learn the news. I loved getting to know him and meeting him in various times and places throughout my career. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Ron Wojdyla

May 31, 2016

Debbie, I just learned of Steve's passing while I was traveling. Terry and I want to express our condolences to you and Jason. We will keep y'all in our thoughts and prayers. Take care, Ron and Terry.

Melanie & Pat Maes

May 30, 2016

Debbie,
Our thoughts and prayers remain with you.

May 30, 2016

Love You Forever
I send you butterfly kisses
You don't always know that I'm there
but its me peeking around the corner
or touching a strand of your hair.
I see you on days you're crying
or wishing we could talk once in a while.
Even though I'm now in heaven
I still want to see you smile.
I visit at night when you're sleeping.
I come quietly into your dreams and
Whisper words ever so softly
To say death is not what it seems.
I see you sometimes at the table
when you don't know that I am there.
As you gaze over at my picture
I hope you know how much I care.
I'm sending a hug from heaven.
I wish you could feel it today.
The Lover that we share is forever.
Time and space can't take it away.
Forever in my Heart
Author Unknown

May 30, 2016

Before you had your accident I made you a promise!
I gave you every chance to recover but it wasn't meant to be.
So as hard as it was I kept my promise to you.
Before you left us I made one more promise and I will keep it no matter how difficult.
I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH!!!

May 29, 2016

I Love and Miss you
They say memories are golden well maybe that is true;
I never wanted memories I only wanted you;
A million times I needed you, a million times I cried.
If love alone could have saved you, you never would have died.
In life I loved you dearly, in death I Love You Still!
In my heart you hold a place no one could ever fill.
Author Unknown

May 29, 2016

The day you left
With tears we saw you suffer, As we watched you fade away, Our hearts were almost broken, as you fought so hard to stay.
We knew you had go leave us, but you never went alone, For part of us went with you
The day you left for home
Author unknown

Deborah Pilling

May 29, 2016

I love the smell of rain and fresh cut grass. I love the green of your eyes and the coolness of your kisses. I love bright colors and the singing of birds. I love it when you wink at me from a distance. I love beautiful little trees and magnificent large ones. I love slow moving little streams and fast running brooks. I love your smile and your shrimpy noises. I love snowcapped mountains and snow covered ground. I love go put my cold feet on your nice warm back. I love beautiful green meadows and yellowed flowered hillsides. And I love you very much. DP

Denny Acheson

May 27, 2016

R.I.P Steve, you earned it. Prayers and thoughts to your family.

Sreve's Brother in-law Joe and Steve's nephew Tim Martin

Joe,Nancy and Tim Martin

May 21, 2016

Debbie As the days and months pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. We will all miss you Steve. Love Joe, Nancy and Tim Martin

Joe Martin

May 21, 2016

At a time like this words are hard to come by but we all will have memories that will stay with us for the rest of our lives.It was a tough and long battle for all concerned.May you rest in peace you will be missed but never forgotten.

Timothy Martin

May 20, 2016

I'm so sorry to hear about Steve. Jesus has him now and when it is your time to go he will be waiting with open arms.

Steve,Debbie,Joe,Nancy,Joey and Kara

Nancy Martin

May 20, 2016

May 19, 2016

So sorry to hear this. Steve was so well respected for his expertise in NavSecGu. So enjoyed working with him both as an RCA & BETS rep. RIP and so sorry for you loss. Denny Ihle CTMC USN retired

May 19, 2016

Steve was a wonderful man and I'm glad to have had the privilege of working with him. He warmly welcomed me to the team and was an avid teacher and mentor. It was obvious to me that Steve enjoyed his work and was proud of his seasoned career. However, he would light up talking about his family. He loved you all so much. Jason, he was so very proud of you and glad that you found Sophia. He loved visiting with you in Germany and talked about those trips frequently.

May 18, 2016

Steve was an incredibly talented BETS Rep, and a good friend. He will be missed, but never forgotten
John Chalupsky

Dennis Skiffington

May 18, 2016

So Long Sailor...Been a blast. I remember all our good times the world over.... Rest In Peace Sunshine! ...

// Skiff

Dick Pauls

May 18, 2016

Fair winds and following seas my friend. Peace be with you always and forever.

Dwayne Hersh

May 18, 2016

From another M-Brancher Ret in peace Steve.

George Wiederock

May 17, 2016

Steve,
I am going to miss your hard work, dedication, and friendship.

Regards, George

Tom Preslar

May 17, 2016

Rest in peace brother Naval Security Group lifer, even though we didn't retire fm the Naval Security Group, but worked for them as civilians until retirement. I will have a beer in your honor tonight at the ballgame! Hasta luego Steve!

Hanspeter Rogenmoser

May 17, 2016

Steve was my best friend. He always helped me out when I needed help and we always had a good time setting the world straight over a couple of his favorite beer.

Steve, I sorely miss you and your humor and will never forget you. Thank you for the marvelous times we spent together.
Your buddy Hanspeter

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