Robert Hessler JOHNS ISLAND - Robert Blake Hessler, 76, died peacefully on December 16, 2023 at his home on Johns Island, SC, following a struggle with diabetic complications after pancreatic cancer. Robert, also called Bob, was born February 2, 1947 in Philadelphia. His parents, Howard and Marie O'Donnell Hessler, moved to Wilmington, DE, where Bob graduated from Brandywine High School. Following graduation with a degree in journalism from George Washington University in 1969, Bob went to work for Sun Oil Company in public relations. In 1972, he began a lengthy career with Hercules, Inc. in Wilmington, finally retiring as head of public relations. In 1978, he married Elizabeth Bonwill Wright of St. Davids, PA, with whom he raised a daughter and son in Wilmington, Delaware. In 2003, Bob and Bonnie moved to Chatham, Massachusetts, where Bob took up a second career as a personal chef, doing what he loved best. Bob was an excellent bridge player, a member of the Circulating Library of Chatham, and an avid tennis and paddle tennis player. Passionate about the community, he served several terms on the Zoning Board of Appeals in Chatham. He was a member of the First Congregational Church of Chatham and co-chaired stewardship and capital campaigns. Bob is survived by his wife, Bonnie, daughter, Maggie Dailey, her husband, Paul, and children, Pierce and Mallory of Louisville, Colorado; son, Caleb Hessler and grandson, Jameson Hessler of Chatham, Massachusetts; brother Howard B. Hessler of Nevis, and niece, Laura Peterson and nephew, Justin Hessler. A celebration of life will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers donations may be sent to Hollings Cancer Center, MUSC, or PANCAN.ORG, pancreatic cancer research and patient advocacy.

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Dec. 30 to Dec. 31, 2023.

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Anne Wright

February 26, 2024

I loved Robert! What a beautiful person, being a great example of an anchor for his family and always wanting to know what to cook for us. God be with you Robert. Our lives are richer for knowing you!

Richard Wright

January 31, 2024

Bob and I were good friends for many years starting with the time at GW. My condolences to our families and to his friends.

STEVEN ANASTASION

January 14, 2024

Bob was a wonderful friend and beloved SAE fraternity brother. He always had the courage of convictions and lead a good, full, and moral life. He will be missed.

Gretchen & Halsey

January 2, 2024

Our hearts go out to you and your family. We last saw you and Bob at Molly´s wedding. We loved seeing both of you delightful people. Sending love

Lee Kallos

January 1, 2024

I remember our time decorating and Bobs interest in details. He kept me on my toes. I loved him so much,I gave him Emmett´s Pig , my children´s favorite book. And then he left my life until a wonderful dinner at my house. Friendships live on and I will miss Bob.

George Meldrum

January 1, 2024

I have a flood of great memories about Bob. He was a friend, classmate, neighbor and Godfather to my oldest son.

Elaine B Gibbs

January 1, 2024

I am heartbroken at the passing of my friend. I will miss Bob's wit, his emails, keeping me up to date on life in Charleston, working with him, his beautiful meals, his funny stories- and so much more. But mostly I will miss and not forget the lessons he has taught me over these past three years about grace, bravery, dignity and optimism as he faced life's greatest challenge. He is my role model for what we will all face one day. Thank you Bob for so many, many great times. Know that you made a difference in many lives and you are missed deeply.
Elaine Gibbs -Chatham

Sue Reed

January 1, 2024

Bonnie - I just saw this on Instagram, Cannot tell you how sorry I am to hear of Rob´s passing. He certainly was a wonderful person. Hugs and love to you. Sue

Barbie von der Groeben

January 1, 2024

Bonnie, I am so sorry to learn of Robbie´s death. I fondly remember your visit to Nantucket with Lynn and Matt. Take good care of yourself and your family during these sad times. Love, Barbie

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