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Renee Upp-Kajdasz Obituary

Rene;e Upp-Kajdasz N. CHARLESTON - Rene;e Upp-Kajdasz, 48, of North Charleston, died at home Monday after her struggle with breast cancer. She was born to Jerry and Marcie M. Upp, July 10th 1964, in Livonia, Michigan. Rene;e grew up in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma and graduated from Putnam City North High School in 1983. Rene;e excelled in school. She continued her education and received a BA in 1987 and a Masters in Social Work from University of Oklahoma in 1990. Rene;e married Stan Kajdasz in August 1996, and they have lived together and raised their family in North Charleston, South Carolina. Rene;e was preceded in death by her father, Jerry Upp. She is survived by her husband, Stan Kajdasz and children, Rhiannon Renee and Matthew Righton, as well as her mother, Marcie Upp of Oklahoma City, brother Dan of Oklahoma City, brother Raymond of Norman, Oklahoma, several nieces and nephews, and best friends Lisa Boor of Wichita, Kansas and Pam Ingram of Charleston, SC. Rene;e's enthusiasm for her work as a pediatric social worker (initially at Children's Hospital in Oklahoma City, then at the Children's Hospital with the Medical University of South Carolina) was only surpassed by her profound love for her family. She delighted in any activities that encouraged time with her family. Rene;e is well known for her determination, and boundless ability to connect and council others. Whether it was family, coworkers, neighbors or strangers in a check-out line, she could listen and provide meaningful insight. Rene;e was a kind soul who will be missed tremendously. Rene;e found great comfort in her faith and was an active member of Bethany United Methodist Church. During her courageous battle with cancer, she drew immense inspiration and strength from a community of supporters that included new & old friends, co-workers, neighbors and family. In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting donations be made out to Bethany United Methodist Church for donations toward college tuition for her children (118 W 3rd Street, Summerville, SC 29483, earmarked for Kajdasz family college fund). A gathering of family and friends will be held Friday, June 7, 2013 from 10:00 until 11:00 with a memorial service beginning at 11:00 at Bethany United Methodist Church, 118 West 3rd Street, Summerville. ARRANGEMENTS BY JAMES A. DYAL FUNERAL HOME, 303 SOUTH MAIN STREET, SUMMERVILLE, SC. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Jun. 5 to Jun. 6, 2013.

Memories and Condolences
for Renee Upp-Kajdasz

19 Entries

Ellen Kamp Capalungan

July 5, 2013

I had the pleasure of running into Renee in North Charleston just a year or two ago with her adorable daughter and son. We were both so surprised to see each other. She had not changed at all since high school!! Renee was such a sweet person, I had a lot of fun sitting next to Renee in band in school and in other classes. Our high school is about to have its reunion and everyone was so sad to hear about Renee's passing. Very best wishes to all of Renee's family, with deepest sympathy.

Doug and Bonnie Martin

June 12, 2013

Stan,

Doug and I live in Germany now but we were so very sad to read about Renee. It's hard to believe it's been over 12 years since we met both you and Renee but the common bond that we shared always remained with me and I've thought of you and Renee over the years. I'm just so sad that Renee was only to experience it for such a short time but grateful that she had the experience.

We are sending you our thoughts and heartfelt sympathy and wish much love and support for your family in the challenging time ahead.

In her honor, I made an appointment today for a much overdue mammogram.

Jim Zielinski

June 8, 2013

Dear Stan,
Words cannot express the sadness we feel over Renee's passing. She was an amazing wife and mom, but we need to remember that she is still with us in spirit! Your friends in NF are praying for you and your family to get through these tough times. We wished we could be with you this week, but know that we will get together soon. We are here if you need help in any way. (PS...Leah will never forget what she called Renee and you when she was a toddler.... "the Lady and Watson")
God Bless!
Jim, Sandra, Leah and James

Team 342, Team 3489

June 7, 2013

Dear Stan and family,
Your FIRST friends from Team 342 and 3489, send their thoughts and prayers in this difficult time. Please let us know if we can help you in any way.

Renee Graham and Jamal Singleton

June 7, 2013

To the Kajdasz family, our hearts are saddened by your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Eva and Chris Erickson

June 7, 2013

Stan,
We are so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We are for you and the kids if you need anything.

Nancy Draffin

June 6, 2013

I am so saddened by Renee's passing She was a compassionate and loving person . I fondly remember our working together as social workers at MUSC. I am so sorry for your loss.

Angie, Dan & Drew Kilcoyne

June 6, 2013

Stan, Rhiannon & Matthew, We are so sorry to hear about Renee. She had such a kind spirit that will live with each one of you forever. God needed another angel! May he strengthen you all in the days ahead.

Patricia A. & The Roberts Family

June 6, 2013

To The Kajdasz Family, Renee was a wonderfuly and loving person. I will remember the times that we worked together in the Ambulatory Care Social Work Dept. at MUSC. Now, may the Good Lord keep your family at this time as only He Can.

Teri Sturdivant

June 6, 2013

I met Renee when I taught Matthew at Old Fort Baptist's Child's Day Out program. She was alway's smiling and kind. Her love for her Children was alway's obvious as she was kissing and hugging Matthew goodbye. Your Family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Kerry, Diane, Ashley & Maria Kajdasz

June 6, 2013

Stan, We are so sorry to hear of your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time, May God Bless You and Your Family,

June 6, 2013

Stan:
No words are adequately describe how very sorry we are. Know that you do not walk alone in this journey; your friends are right beside you. God bless, The Vitello Family

Odyssey Hospice Family

June 6, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Christi O'Hara

June 6, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please give Matthew a big hug from me. You all are in my thoughts and prayers!

Tammy Legates

June 6, 2013

Renee will be missed by all that knew her. No matter what the day or time, she always had a smile and positive outlook. I have truely been blessed having knownn her. May Stan and the children find peace knowing she was loved by so many. You all are in my prayers.

June 6, 2013

Stan,
Joe and I are praying for you and children. Renee was a very special lady.
June Willson

June 6, 2013

Cousin Stan, I am very sorry for your loss. Denise & Paul Keller

Laura Crosby

June 6, 2013

May God help you during this time of grief. Know that Renee will be watching over you all. She was a kind-hearted person, and will be missed by all.

Rhonda Edwards

June 5, 2013

May God grant you peace during this time of loss. If I can be of any help, please let me know. Give my love to Rhiannon.

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