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Ray Grubman Obituary




GRUBMAN, Ray Entered into eternal rest on Tuesday, October 25, 2005, Ray H. Grubman, widower of Lillian App Grubman. Friends may call Thursday, Ocober 27, 2005 at McAlister-Smith Downtown Chapel between the hours of 6:00PM and 8:00PM with the vigil beginning at 7:00PM. Relatives and friends are invited to attend the Liturgy of Christian Burial at 11:00AM Friday, October 28, 2005 at Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church. The Rite of Committal and military honors will follow at Holy Cross Cemetery. After the funeral friends and family are invited to the home of Rae Ann Blyth. Mr. Grubman was born March 15, 1919 in New Orleans, Louisiana. After retiring from the US Navy, he devoted the next 20 years to the business of life insurance as a general agent with American National Life Insurance Co. He was a lifelong golfer who won many tournaments and in the 1950s was Left-handed Champion of North and South Carolina. He was a member of Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church. Predeceased by his brother Richard Hardenstein. Surviving are two daughters and a son: Adrienne G. Meyer of Melbourne, FL, Rae Ann G. Blyth of Charleston, SC and Ray H. Grubman, Jr. of Greenville, SC; two brothers: Howard Hardenstein of Mandeville, LA and Gerald Hardenstein of Slidell, LA; five grandchildren: Nick Meyer, Chris Meyer, Kecia B. Greer, Alyse A. Blyth, and Christina A. Blyth; and five great grandchildren. Memorials may be made to Blessed Sacrament Church, 5 St. Teresa Dr., Charleston, SC 29407. Condolences may be sent via www.mcalister-smith.com Visit our guestbook at www.charleston.net/deaths.

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier on Oct. 27, 2005.

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Don Raby

October 28, 2005

TO THE RELATIVES AND FRIENDS OF Ray I USED TO LIVE IN CHARLESTON AND HAD THE PRIVELAGE OF KNOWING AND PLAYING ALOT OF GOLF WITH RAY. MY HEART FELT SYMPATHY ON YOUR LOSS.

Mamie Stoughton

October 28, 2005

Rae Ann,

I was saddened by the news that your father passed away. He was such a fine man and will be missed by many. I was hoping to get by last night to see you; however, Rick is recovering from a full knee replacement and I had to attend a mandatory mammography lecture at the Senior's Center on James Island. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Mamie

FRANCES JACKSON

October 27, 2005

PARENTS WITHOUT PARTNERS,INC., Charleton Chapter #607 send our heartfelt sympathies and condolences to the family/friends of Ray. He was a member in good standing our our chapter. Although I did not know Ray very well, it grieves me when one of our members passes. Please know you will be in our thoughts and prayers. "Sue" Jackson, President, Charleston Chapter #607, PWP

Norma Pace

October 27, 2005

Hi Adrienne and Rae Ann,

My brother, Rusty Pace, sent me an e-mail with your Dad's obituary. So sorry to hear about his death. I remember when you lived next door to us on St. Andrews Blvd. I remember being a teenager and baby sitting for you two. My how time flies. I'm in Fairfax about 6 months of each year and then I go down to Charleston about 6 months to help Rusty take care of Mom. She turned 90 on September 28th of this year. When I get back to Charleston, I'll call Rae Ann. My condolences to all of you at this sad time. Much love to all, Norma Pace

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