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Ralph Draper Obituary





DRAPER, Ralph Entered into eternal rest on Saturday afternoon, Ralph Edward Draper Jr., 60, husband of Ida Yates Draper. Residence; North Charleston, SC. The family and friends of Mr. and Mrs. Ralph Draper are invited to attend the funeral service of the former on Tuesday, August 12, 2008 in J. Henry Stuhr Inc, Northwoods Chapel at eleven o'clock. The family will receive friends in Stuhr's Northwoods Chapel 2180 Greenridge Road, North Charleston on Monday evening August 11, 2008 from five until seven o'clock. Ralph was born January 13, 1948 in Fulton, New York, the son of Ralph E. Draper and Viola McEwen Draper. He served in the U.S. Marine Corps from 1966 1970 and was a veteran of the Vietnam War from 1966-1967. He retired from the North Charleston Police Department as a Sergeant, was Past Master of Pythagorean Lodge #21, and was a member of Aldersgate United Methodist Church. Surviving are, one son, Ralph E. Draper III and wife Alicia of Tampa, Florida; three daughters, Elke M. Walton of St. Augustine, Florida, Tara M. Walton of North Charleston, SC, and Kimberly Draper Samenko of Hanahan, SC; three grandchildren, Charles McGowan, Skylar Samenko, Jocelyn Samenko, and many loving nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by a brother, Harrison E. Draper. Flowers are accepted or memorials made may be made to The American Lung Association, Coastal Branch, 1941 Savage Road Suite 200-A, Charleston, SC 29407. A memorial message may be written to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at www.charleston.net/deaths.

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier on Aug. 11, 2008.

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Michael Rourk

August 18, 2008

My deepest and heartfelt sympathy to the family on your loss. He was a man of great wisdom and he had a big heart. He touched so many lives in such a special way, and I am blessed that I was one of those people.

Wendy Russell

August 17, 2008

Elke and family,

Dad and I were so sorry to hear of Ralph's passing. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Miss you.

Ralph Draper III

August 16, 2008

Miss ya Pop.

Maiyumi Dutterer

August 14, 2008

Uncle Ralph--
I just wanted to thank you for what you meant to the family. Whenever something was wrong, you were the one we called and you were always there. You are what kept us all together. You always kept everyone smiling and laughing, too. It hurt so much to see you as sick as you were and not being able to joke around like you used to. So far, Eddie has done a remarkable job of taking over your sense of humor. I know you're in a better place now and with Grandma, Grandpa and Dad. I love you and miss you terribly, but I'll see you again one day. ?Your slant-eyed rice eater

Elaine Yates

August 13, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. I would love to hear from you in the future.

Sharon Garrison

August 13, 2008

Ralph,
Thank you for your support while in training, your wisdom on the job, your sense of humor, your war stories, your professionalism as a Marine and as a Police Officer and for your undying friendship. May you Rest in Peace and always know you will be missed! Your tour of duty is over. Heaven can always use another good soul.

Charlotte Gillespie

August 13, 2008

SGT Draper Family-here is a man who was fair and just in every action taken, since I knew him. So Kind and generous with a helping hand. He helped me so much while I was on North Charleston City Council. My Prayers for you in this sad time. It was my Honor to have known Sgt. Draper.

Michael and Toni Beatty

August 13, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Ralph was a wonderful man and he will be greatly missed.

Mike Reed

August 13, 2008

Tara,
My thoughts, prayer and love are with you. If you need a friend to talk to please call me.

Jim & Renee' Walley NCPD

August 12, 2008

Eddie, You know how much we thought of Ralph! He was a great man and police officer! We will ALWAYS think of him as we have often in the past years. The family is in our thoughts and prayers. It meant the world today during the service to learn Ralph gave his soul to God and we will see him again in Heaven and what a wonderful day that will be!! Contact us if any of you need anything...even just a shoulder or ear.

Dave Soderberg (Lt. GCPD)

August 12, 2008

Sergeant Draper was devoted to his law enforcement family. He showed it in both his instruction and in his constant humor. My condolences to his family.

Fran Bartlett

August 12, 2008

Tara and Kim, know that our prayers are with you, all our love.

RET. Lt Doug Hester

August 12, 2008

Ralph will truley be missed. Our prayers go out to the family. I will always remember the good times on the job.

Bronwyn Morgan

August 12, 2008

Ralph was devoted to teaching for us at Low Country Safety Council. He conveyed his message with serious regard for the content while still injecting humor to reach his students. Even as his health worsened, he kept up his commitment to help others with all his energy. His contribution of time and effort from the start were instrumental in the council's success. He will be greatly missed by all.

Fayth Grooms

August 11, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.

Tracy Ellington

August 11, 2008

Ralph
you will be missed by my family , and by yours. Thanks for being A good friend . GOD BLESS YOU.

James Crandall

August 11, 2008

Tara, I always respected your father for his service as a Marine, as NCPD and for how he took care of his family. I will miss the Marine on Sailor jokes. My heart and thoughts go out to your entire family.

felicia shearouse

August 11, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Kelly Blasczienski

August 11, 2008

The term "cousin" sounds so distant, but anyone knowing our family knows we are far from distant in heart as well as miles. I miss you terribly but know you haven't gone- you're only closer and with us all the time instead of some of the time. We take comfort in knowing you're in a better place with loved ones who have moved on before us; you take comfort in knowing the love of your family here take care of each other. I adore you and love you eternally.

So proud to be your relative
Hugs&Sugar,
Kelly.

Avis Blasczienski

August 11, 2008

Although we can't see you, you will always be with us in our hearts. You are loved by everyone who knew you.

Love ,
Aunt Avis

mindy crosby

August 11, 2008

Tara, i just wanted you to know how sorry i am for your loss and i am here for you if you need me!You are like a sister to me so your loss is my loss and your sadness is my sadness! I love you and will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Shellie (Hope) Hill

August 11, 2008

Tara, I am so sorry for your loss. I have been in this position myself and I know how you must be feeling right now. If you need to talk or just be around a familiar face, email me and let me know, we can exchange numbers then. [email protected]

Lauren Semken - Gainey

August 11, 2008

Kim,
I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your father. I will continue to pray for you and your family during this difficult time. Although it has been some time, I would love to hear from you.

Eleshia (Orr) Manrriquez

August 11, 2008

Elke & Tara,

I am very sad to hear about your dad. My deepest sympathies and prayers are with you and your family during your time of need. May God bless you both and your families. May God also take care of your farther.

Deborah Lyons-Deveaux

August 11, 2008

Tara,

I deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your father. I will continue to keep you and your family in my prayers.

Pamela Voluntad

August 11, 2008

Love you Uncle Ralph!

Peggy Ponton

August 11, 2008

Ida and family,
I send my deepest condolences. He was a very unique man and I have such fond memories when we worked on NCPD. He inspired and motivated me. And certainly always, made us laugh. Your loss is also ours.

Rene Davis

August 11, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Sandy Ellington-Stuart

August 11, 2008

Ralph ,

Thank you for everything that you have done for me. You were always there whenever I needed you. Keeping me straight when I was in the Cadet Program, my teenage years, Ed's accident and my adult years. I know I would not be the person I am today without you in my life. You always said I was like a daughter to you and I always looked to you as being my Dad. You will forever be in my heart and in my soul.
To the whole Draper family, I am so very sorry for your lose. We all are better people for having had him in our lives.
Anything I can do please call

Tammy Drawdy-Johnson

August 11, 2008

Kim and Tara,
My thoughts and prayers are with you both. Tara it was wonderful seeing you Friday. If either of you need anything please call me. I love you both.

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